(05-29-2016, 05:49 AM)Alpha360 Wrote:(05-28-2016, 06:04 PM)Kibagame Jubei Wrote: I also feel like the more I progress, the less anyone wants to give me emotional support. Maybe that just comes with the territory. Either way, it seems like another thing I should post here
I see that as you being more a man. If people give you less emotional support it can means that they feels that you are so strong that you doesn't seem to need any. I have a friend who is really masculine and it didn't seem to need any emotional support even if it's not true but they appear so self reliant that you can tell them anything and they won't be affected. I think it's one of the thing we should strive for, it's not an easy thing to do, it's an element of sacrifice.
But knowing how women are more self interested/ self centered and like to talk about them self a lot it would make sense that men are less so, it is then a quality that men has more. The more you have this quality the more women would feel safe to share things with you because they know you can handle it more easily, they can talk all day with you, knowing you won't feel needy.
I'm surprised that SM3 build so much growth about being a man, I thought it would be much more external growth and attraction but there is a big part of character building into it and I feel it a lot.
Yes and second to that, women provide A LOT of emotional support to their gay friends, or beta friends around them. Think about the term action and reaction. Men are about action, and women are about reaction, it's quite universally true. So if a man gives a lot of reactions instead of actions, women will become the party of taking actions, which means she will comfort the man's little soul, try to save his last dignity / bad mood.
You can't say that's 100% of the time, but true enough to put in the "emotional support" analysis. While I was on stage 6 AM one woman told me that I didn't seem to need anybody's help. A lot people also tell me how I have become so cold towards anything. That's possibly the complete state of being non-needy
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Great to hear that SM isn't about women only, it makes me even more enticed to step on this trip.
AM5 -> AM6 -> BASE -> AM6 -> BASE -> AM6(Current)
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