05-26-2016, 08:34 AM
(05-26-2016, 08:15 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(05-26-2016, 07:52 AM)SouthPaw Wrote: It won't be something like "I now make myself not sexy for men" but rather something similar to what's already in the BIA...subs. And yes there is still a lot of attention from men, gay and not gay. Now, just imagine that wasn't there...I agree, the fear thing is irrelevant to this topic. However, as was already pointed out: you can't stop gay guys being attracted to you. Being more attractive to women will make you more attractive to gays simple as that.
I don't know why you guys are turning it into a fear thing. That's irrelevant. We could also turn it into a shame thing or any other emotion.
It's basically annoying and a waste, not to mention many won't like it.
Where fear cones in is if you actually believe that attraction will end up somehow making you f*ck a guy. That's just irrational and definitely a fear and, IMO, points to a suppressed sexuality.
That would be extremely irrational, but feeling uncomfortable when someone you don't find attractive is attracted to you is quite normal. I've felt something similar with women I find very unattractive. That's why I like the idea of BIATBW: it's nicely targeted.
