05-26-2016, 04:50 AM
(This post was last modified: 05-26-2016, 05:12 AM by JackOfHearts.)
It's not what I mean here, I didn't say to enjoy it but to not be fearful about it. Or the see the attention from gay men as something positive because it means you are attractive, it doesn't mean that you are going to spend time with them. You just tell them you are not interested.
To me the main reason people are asking to remove unwanted attention from men do it because they are fearful or they don't have enough assertiveness to deal with those unwanted attention. There are guys here who are also complaining about unwanted attention from ugly women. Just be assertive enough and remove the fear.
Education is required because when fear is involved the person doesn't think objectively, he is irrational. To me there is no good reason to remove the attraction from gay dudes, there is more profit to let gay dudes hit on us. All the request comes from fear or lack of assertiveness (lazyness) or ignorance.
edit: The main thing I want here is to remove the statement that deals with the unwanted attention, it doesn't mean we will enjoy the attention or become gay. It's a limitation just as the limitation about age.
here is the the part in the BIABW script:
"If I am male, I now project an extremely powerful aura which completely, obviously and continuously prevents and removes all forms of unwanted attention and interest from other males."
This is a big limitation to me, and it may also create problems with your males friendship. If I read that correctly it says all forms, it may well create some limitation with friendship.
To me the main reason people are asking to remove unwanted attention from men do it because they are fearful or they don't have enough assertiveness to deal with those unwanted attention. There are guys here who are also complaining about unwanted attention from ugly women. Just be assertive enough and remove the fear.
Education is required because when fear is involved the person doesn't think objectively, he is irrational. To me there is no good reason to remove the attraction from gay dudes, there is more profit to let gay dudes hit on us. All the request comes from fear or lack of assertiveness (lazyness) or ignorance.
edit: The main thing I want here is to remove the statement that deals with the unwanted attention, it doesn't mean we will enjoy the attention or become gay. It's a limitation just as the limitation about age.
here is the the part in the BIABW script:
"If I am male, I now project an extremely powerful aura which completely, obviously and continuously prevents and removes all forms of unwanted attention and interest from other males."
This is a big limitation to me, and it may also create problems with your males friendship. If I read that correctly it says all forms, it may well create some limitation with friendship.
