05-06-2011, 03:33 AM
He's definitely trying to control you, because you're changing a bit too much for his liking and he's trying to get his grasp back to devalue and tell you should be more like him, because he's great and doing everything as you're supposed to and you're supposedly not... Could it be that he's projecting his his own self-image onto you?
Could also be that you're maybe getting more attention from your colleagues or your mother than that he has gotten lately, and he feels threatened. He feels some sort of loss at least when he's comparing himself with you.
Two quotes I came across that could be useful;
“It's easier for someone to try to pull you down than to build themselves up to stay even with you”
“Friends generally want you to get ahead in life, but not TOO far ahead.”
Could also be that you're maybe getting more attention from your colleagues or your mother than that he has gotten lately, and he feels threatened. He feels some sort of loss at least when he's comparing himself with you.
Two quotes I came across that could be useful;
“It's easier for someone to try to pull you down than to build themselves up to stay even with you”
“Friends generally want you to get ahead in life, but not TOO far ahead.”
