(05-22-2016, 11:06 AM)AbundanceCH Wrote:(05-21-2016, 11:45 PM)Kol Wrote: My experience with women is that they Always seek to control your frame or want to break frame and turn you into an beta provider, even if they deny it, its almost hardwired and women nature.This right here is what we call an "affirmation" (they always seek to control your frame).
You are basically programming yourself to expect to encounter women like this by what you are affirming. You really need to check yourself (everyone should) and be wary of the stuff you tell yourself and others because those things create your reality.
This is an affirmation just like you or anyone else telling themselves "women only like jerks and bad boys." If you keep saying that then that's what you're going to get in your reality, but another guy next to you a nice guy he won't have that same reality. It's all about what you believe. Always choose the positive and check yourself when you get negative thoughts or feel like saying negative statements which will further grow your negative beliefs and those of others.
You are saying a lie because you know it's not ALWAYS women controlling your frame but just the women that happened to bruise your ego a bit and those are the ones you remember.
Why so negative? say instead "women are attracted to me and respect me" change your words change your life.
Quote:The whole drama with females and their bs makes me almost turn abusive in an way, total disregard for feelings and turning me cold.What you attract is based on what you are inside. You are making progress but try to stay away from the negative.
Your greatest teachers happen to be those women. Everyone is your teacher but those that make you angry and give you the most trouble just happen to be your biggest teachers. They are the ones that make you stronger and are healing your being. Remember that any anger caused by anyone is just showing you unhealed parts of your being.
Very true and thank you for pointing that out. Applying the affirmation of "woman are attracted to me and respect me" is an enormous shift and makes sense in outcome independece. It reflects strongly on me.
And I agree those women are the greatest teachers. The more difficult and challenging the situation the bigger the lesson and make me indeed stronger. I have lots of negative stuff inside still but this has reduced lots. Have to ponder a bit on this post.
valuable post.
The trials you encounter will introduce you to your strengths. - epictetus