05-11-2016, 09:19 AM
(05-11-2016, 06:36 AM)cashmerecat Wrote: Since that guy told me he just wanted to be friends, I have been a bit more distant. Not playing games, just don't want to get too emotionally attached. Now he's initiating contact everyday...not sure what that means.
I understand what you mean by not wanting to get too emotionally attached. He probably didn't think you were going to distance yourself when he told you he just wanted to be friends. Maybe you distanced yourself too quickly?
Just say hi, keep it brief, tell him you're busy. He will get the hint. Don't burn bridges, you might need his help one day and if you don't... he will have happy thoughts whenever he thinks of you.
(05-07-2016, 10:16 PM)cashmerecat Wrote: And this time, I don't have to try to have sex with him to manipulate him into liking me/staying with me lol.
So happy for you that you didn't use sex to manipulate him. Feels great!!! Doesn't it??!!
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