Joining that EPRHA 2.0 Bandwagon

[Shannon]

Woke up in the middle of the night and remembered when I went to exercise class how a one of the guy's couldn't stop staring at my butt. I thought it was funny at the time but now it bothers me so much. I know It doesn't make sense, still can't shake this feeling. A part of me is like I can't help that it's big.

My dear, a man does not stare at what he does not find attractive. If a man is staring at your butt, it's because he likes it, and he finds you attractive. Remember that your perception of yourself is not how others may see you. I know a lot of guys who like what women usually consider "big butts". If a guy stares at your butt, take it as a compliment. Then smile warmly at him and go talk to him. You may end up on a date. He's attracted to you. A woman with a butt worth staring at is one of those women guys always want to get to know better.

Remember Sir Mixalot? A lot of guys feel the same way. That's why Sir Mixalot is remembered for that song, and that song only.

Starting to talk to folks without being nervous and now I can to the store without a whole lot of anxiety. Not to worried about what people think about me, and I don't think too negativly about other people. It's not completely gone but it's getting better.

Excellent.