ELIZA, HOT BABE 8
Arjay and I were about to go outside the mall. My avatar was 8 of 10--relaxed with an interesting accessory. With a bulkier body, it could still be improved. I just finished moving from my place in the province, so I had very low vibe at that time. Prior to this, Arjay kinda insulted me to encourage me to approach sets. He said, "Will you stay like that forever?" So, I felt challenged.
There was this walking lone set, HB8, who was a bit frowning. Arjay and I were walking fast, so she was behind us. Arjay told me, "Approach her!" So, I went near the girl, moved my head over the shoulder, "Hi, you look adorable... Why are you sad?" (smile)
The set smiled, looked at the floor. She said, "Some problem."
[ COMMENT: You should've looked at her eyes more. Your intent should be clear. The set noticed you and Arjay talking about her before you opened her, and it didn't bother her, so that’s fine--even when the set notices you and your wingman talking about her, don’t feel busted, still, approach her. What else, did you forget to shake her hands when you introduced yourself to her? And why do you always need someone to tell you to approach the set? You should approach automatically everytime you see a set. ]
Her name is Eliza, 21 years old. I asked her some more fluffs (smiling). We were walking, and I was beside her. I cold read her, especially about her problem. Then, just before she stepped on the escalator, I led her to stop walking and told her to share her problem. "You don't know me and I don't know you, I'm a stranger, share it with me, no one will know haha."
[ COMMENT: So, the intent became confusing there. The set didn't know clearly what were you after. ]
Eliza stopped. She was laughing. She said something, "What’s this? Is it some sign from heaven? I was praying a while ago." Then, the 45 minutes convo began (I told her, “5 minutes only”--FTC--but it lasted for around 45 minutes... She's actually in a difficult long-term relationship and she has a child (she's hot though).
[ COMMENT: Looking back, it appears to me, that the frame you presented to her was that of a friendly psychologist stranger who is interested about people in general. That's bad! But no, I presented myself actually as a leader of men, outcome independent, socially intelligent, interesting, relaxed, with sense of humor, emotionally unaffected, not a reaction seeker, well-groomed, understanding... and through DHV stories, as preselected by women, protector of loved ones, and a man of value. What else, your conversation focused mainly on her and her problem. You should've found a way to direct your conversation more towards topics about yourself and how the two of you can click. ]
Initially, I did the number routine to demonstrate high value, then went for the Cube to build comfort with light to risky kinos (putting my arm around her, touching her hair, ear, cheeks with my face, and her heart with the palm of my hands)... and did some role-playing, "What's your favorite place? Imagine us there together walking bla bla"
[ COMMENT: You should've done more banters. ]
I was very conscious of my body language, pecking for a moment, then leaning back for a while, doing that over and over again. I was transitioning from one vocal tonality to another during the entire convo: father to daughter, adding to the fun, challenging and flirting frames. We were in the same area for the whole time, though I kept bouncing her from one side to another, from one angle to another.
[ COMMENT: You should've been conscious about putting pauses, having deep loud voice, and animating your face while speaking. Practice your delivery and body language. You also should have bounced her immediately to a better location, like McDonalds or a food stall whatever. I also realized you dangled on the comfort-building topics you'd had for so long, with little multi-threading happening. You should do more multi-threading next time. What else, don't forget to give her strong eye contact time and again. ]
She complied in all my leads. Also, she was smiling, scratching her hands, touching her face, facing me, looking at my eyes, challenging me saying, "There’s something I really want to hear from a guy. Do you know what I want to hear?" And I was such a fool to take that bait, I went to her ear and whispered romantic lines, which I realized now, no sane-headed girl would ever believe, knowing we just met several minutes ago.
She said something like, "There’s something I really want to experience, I want my special guy to bring me flowers and..." I grabbed her hands and led her down the escalator. We walked for a while, holding hands, laughing, then I saw a kid selling jasmines. I bought one and gave it to her, "For the most beautiful girl I met today". She was blushing, teary-eyed, happy...
At the last moment, before she rode the jeepney homebound, I asked her number. She hesitated a lil bit, but she gave it. She also gave me her complete name and Facebook. Before we bade goodbye, I took my phone and was about to take a shot when she said, "No please," (laughing) and I stopped, "Ok". I gave her one last strong eye contact before I ejected the scene. She's looking at my direction, smiling big, before she rode the jeepney. I know, I made her day.
[ COMMENT: Girls can be attracted now and tomorrow they are gone. You should've hugged and kissed her, or even better, lay her within that day. Learn your lessons man! Learn them hard enough that they will motivate you to go further. ]
ACCUMULATED HOURS OF MONITORED GAME: <> 3 hrs
Arjay and I were about to go outside the mall. My avatar was 8 of 10--relaxed with an interesting accessory. With a bulkier body, it could still be improved. I just finished moving from my place in the province, so I had very low vibe at that time. Prior to this, Arjay kinda insulted me to encourage me to approach sets. He said, "Will you stay like that forever?" So, I felt challenged.
There was this walking lone set, HB8, who was a bit frowning. Arjay and I were walking fast, so she was behind us. Arjay told me, "Approach her!" So, I went near the girl, moved my head over the shoulder, "Hi, you look adorable... Why are you sad?" (smile)
The set smiled, looked at the floor. She said, "Some problem."
[ COMMENT: You should've looked at her eyes more. Your intent should be clear. The set noticed you and Arjay talking about her before you opened her, and it didn't bother her, so that’s fine--even when the set notices you and your wingman talking about her, don’t feel busted, still, approach her. What else, did you forget to shake her hands when you introduced yourself to her? And why do you always need someone to tell you to approach the set? You should approach automatically everytime you see a set. ]
Her name is Eliza, 21 years old. I asked her some more fluffs (smiling). We were walking, and I was beside her. I cold read her, especially about her problem. Then, just before she stepped on the escalator, I led her to stop walking and told her to share her problem. "You don't know me and I don't know you, I'm a stranger, share it with me, no one will know haha."
[ COMMENT: So, the intent became confusing there. The set didn't know clearly what were you after. ]
Eliza stopped. She was laughing. She said something, "What’s this? Is it some sign from heaven? I was praying a while ago." Then, the 45 minutes convo began (I told her, “5 minutes only”--FTC--but it lasted for around 45 minutes... She's actually in a difficult long-term relationship and she has a child (she's hot though).
[ COMMENT: Looking back, it appears to me, that the frame you presented to her was that of a friendly psychologist stranger who is interested about people in general. That's bad! But no, I presented myself actually as a leader of men, outcome independent, socially intelligent, interesting, relaxed, with sense of humor, emotionally unaffected, not a reaction seeker, well-groomed, understanding... and through DHV stories, as preselected by women, protector of loved ones, and a man of value. What else, your conversation focused mainly on her and her problem. You should've found a way to direct your conversation more towards topics about yourself and how the two of you can click. ]
Initially, I did the number routine to demonstrate high value, then went for the Cube to build comfort with light to risky kinos (putting my arm around her, touching her hair, ear, cheeks with my face, and her heart with the palm of my hands)... and did some role-playing, "What's your favorite place? Imagine us there together walking bla bla"
[ COMMENT: You should've done more banters. ]
I was very conscious of my body language, pecking for a moment, then leaning back for a while, doing that over and over again. I was transitioning from one vocal tonality to another during the entire convo: father to daughter, adding to the fun, challenging and flirting frames. We were in the same area for the whole time, though I kept bouncing her from one side to another, from one angle to another.
[ COMMENT: You should've been conscious about putting pauses, having deep loud voice, and animating your face while speaking. Practice your delivery and body language. You also should have bounced her immediately to a better location, like McDonalds or a food stall whatever. I also realized you dangled on the comfort-building topics you'd had for so long, with little multi-threading happening. You should do more multi-threading next time. What else, don't forget to give her strong eye contact time and again. ]
She complied in all my leads. Also, she was smiling, scratching her hands, touching her face, facing me, looking at my eyes, challenging me saying, "There’s something I really want to hear from a guy. Do you know what I want to hear?" And I was such a fool to take that bait, I went to her ear and whispered romantic lines, which I realized now, no sane-headed girl would ever believe, knowing we just met several minutes ago.
She said something like, "There’s something I really want to experience, I want my special guy to bring me flowers and..." I grabbed her hands and led her down the escalator. We walked for a while, holding hands, laughing, then I saw a kid selling jasmines. I bought one and gave it to her, "For the most beautiful girl I met today". She was blushing, teary-eyed, happy...
At the last moment, before she rode the jeepney homebound, I asked her number. She hesitated a lil bit, but she gave it. She also gave me her complete name and Facebook. Before we bade goodbye, I took my phone and was about to take a shot when she said, "No please," (laughing) and I stopped, "Ok". I gave her one last strong eye contact before I ejected the scene. She's looking at my direction, smiling big, before she rode the jeepney. I know, I made her day.
[ COMMENT: Girls can be attracted now and tomorrow they are gone. You should've hugged and kissed her, or even better, lay her within that day. Learn your lessons man! Learn them hard enough that they will motivate you to go further. ]
ACCUMULATED HOURS OF MONITORED GAME: <> 3 hrs