03-16-2016, 12:38 PM
(03-16-2016, 09:19 AM)Alpha360 Wrote: Stage 1 Day 19:
So I went to my date yesterday and it went very well. She seems like a serious girl that is mature. This would be the first time I date with a mature women. So like usual with the girls I date they are very impressed and don't believe I'm real. She was nervous a lot during our date. Women sees me as high value now and they get nervous around me. Even after 3 hours talking together she was still nervous. At some point I told her I know she is nervous and that she should calm down, relax, I explained her a few things. My voice is very calming and sexy, full of assurance and confidence. it she was seems a bit avoiding. During the meeting I touch her with my foot while we were seating, then I slightly touch her legs while we talk afterwards. She neither refuse my touch and she didn't react at all it seems. She did notice my legs was very near hers but didn't accept my offer (she didn't reject it though). Usually the women I dated were all over me, touched me when I touched them, some of them even engaged the touching.
I would say she is either blind, she doesn't have social intelligence or she prefer to wait.
While we were eating at the sushi restaurant I noticed she was horny but later on she didn't seems to be horny or I didn't notice.
During the night she invited me next Saturday so we go out together, and she told me I can stay at her place afterward (sexual offer). As an excuse she said it is because she doesn't have a car so it should be exhausting for me to take her out.
So we talk a lot and the discussion was fluid even if she is said I don't talk much (she was too nervous so she talked a lot). Before I take her home she asked me if I was okay for Saturday and I said yes in nonchalant way. I have to say I was a bit bored, more than I am during a date usually. I took her attitude as someone who doesn't have social skill to respond appropriately.
Maybe she was too intimated by my presence to notice what was happening.
I may have another date with another girl online shortly.
But I'm very optimist about his girl as I know her birth date so I know she is very compatible with me.
My educated it guess is she was intimidated by that alpha aura ; I noticed alot of people seem to be around me , same should apply to you. Next time you could say something like , it's refreshing to know that you're nervous around me I promise to take good care of you ; don't you worry you're safe with me. Maybe that will take the pressure of her. You could do something dumb on purpose as well to soften up the vibe so it's not too serious.
It always seems impossible until it's done."_ Nelson Mandela
"Continuous improvement is better then delayed perfection."_ Mark Twain
"We change the world not by what we say or do, but as a consequence of what we have become. " _ Dr. David Hawkins