:/ a little bit confused as to what you are meaning Lionking.
Its hard to tell really still about my desire. I definitely overcame that particular mountain. of self doubt and despair. I live in a small town, and when I was working on myself when I was in LA. Night and day difference and that perhaps also allowed me to open up. (I didnt have to worry about work/$$ or anything- I literally got to "let go" of all my worries- This is ONE key of being great with women, you become so playful- they absolutely love it!!)
I remember Tony/Anthony Robbins and he mentioned something like this: Your environment is a trigger, a anchor to your feelings. I do feel something like that here. If you want to change you have to leave your environment that your currently in. I believe what he said to be 100% true.
I also will forever know that I am an attractive person so even if I were to not have sex for awhile I would still know what to do. Its so easy really.
I cant figure out if how I feel now is:
a.) Me copping out, and its just an excuse- in which case I should still be pushing myself harder than before.
b.) Refocusing on work to get the hell out of my current living situation so I can move to somewhere I want to (like LA). And possibly not taking women serious here because I dont want the risk of a relationship/pregnancy to hold me here.
c.) I had it in mind but I forgot what I was going to say.
If you conquer your fear once its easier to do again, and again and again.
I do still have one big fear here still:
I want to conquer the bar/club scene like I did in the daytime, to not only:
a.) Have the ability to pull women home with me that same night
b.) Just have a good time and let go
c.) Make friends that want to Hang out with me
I should also mention that the Same Day Lay girl and some others, never contacted me back/never responded to my texts. It should be mentioned that it is a slippery slope I think: You can easily become any woman's lover... At-least for a day, but to genuinely connect with that person too- is much more elusive than I originally thought.
Just fuc*ing a woman does not give you the key to her psyche. It does not mean she will want to see you again. Contrary to the knowledge that "you have more power in the relationship if you sleep with her quicker..."
Still need to genuinely bond with her.
And thats also why I find it hard to make friends- I think its the same thing. Hard to bond with people. Not sure why but slowly Im figuring this out.
Little more than I thought I would say...
Help?
Its hard to tell really still about my desire. I definitely overcame that particular mountain. of self doubt and despair. I live in a small town, and when I was working on myself when I was in LA. Night and day difference and that perhaps also allowed me to open up. (I didnt have to worry about work/$$ or anything- I literally got to "let go" of all my worries- This is ONE key of being great with women, you become so playful- they absolutely love it!!)
I remember Tony/Anthony Robbins and he mentioned something like this: Your environment is a trigger, a anchor to your feelings. I do feel something like that here. If you want to change you have to leave your environment that your currently in. I believe what he said to be 100% true.
I also will forever know that I am an attractive person so even if I were to not have sex for awhile I would still know what to do. Its so easy really.
I cant figure out if how I feel now is:
a.) Me copping out, and its just an excuse- in which case I should still be pushing myself harder than before.
b.) Refocusing on work to get the hell out of my current living situation so I can move to somewhere I want to (like LA). And possibly not taking women serious here because I dont want the risk of a relationship/pregnancy to hold me here.
c.) I had it in mind but I forgot what I was going to say.
If you conquer your fear once its easier to do again, and again and again.
I do still have one big fear here still:
I want to conquer the bar/club scene like I did in the daytime, to not only:
a.) Have the ability to pull women home with me that same night
b.) Just have a good time and let go
c.) Make friends that want to Hang out with me
I should also mention that the Same Day Lay girl and some others, never contacted me back/never responded to my texts. It should be mentioned that it is a slippery slope I think: You can easily become any woman's lover... At-least for a day, but to genuinely connect with that person too- is much more elusive than I originally thought.
Just fuc*ing a woman does not give you the key to her psyche. It does not mean she will want to see you again. Contrary to the knowledge that "you have more power in the relationship if you sleep with her quicker..."
Still need to genuinely bond with her.
And thats also why I find it hard to make friends- I think its the same thing. Hard to bond with people. Not sure why but slowly Im figuring this out.
Little more than I thought I would say...
Help?
