(03-11-2016, 12:02 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote: Day 5 listening to EHPRA 2.0
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Real Life Women
In real life I've dated pretty girls. I'm only sharing this part because my dream won't make sense when you read it. As you know, a girl can be pretty and overweight. I've had some ask me to have sex and I've turned them down. I know... shallow.[snip]
Why is that shallow?
I'll tell you. It's not.It's you falling for a shaming campaign to get men to feel bad for preferring what they prefer. It's BS.
Some guys like super big women, some guys like super skinny women. Some like them tall, some like them short. Some like big boobs, some like small boobs. Some like her hair to be red, blonde, black, brown, shaved. Some like her to be black, white, hispanic, oriental. Some like her to be easy, some like her to be almost impossible to get.
All of this is HIS personal preference, and HIS prerogative! There is nothing shallow about preferring one thing over another. Trust me, women do it all the time.
So don't fall for this "You're being shallow if you don't like what I want you to like, or think how I want you to think" BS. Do your own thing.
That said... I have dated and had sex with everything from almost skeletally skinny (painful during sex, btw) to BBW. I prefer my women to be at least a little padded, because it's much more sensually enjoyable and they are much more enjoyable during sex and intimacy.
But that's me, and it doesn't mean your personal preferences can't be whatever and still be valid. If you want your women looking like they look in magazines, go for it. If you want your women looking like she's built for comfort and not for speed, go for it. If you like athletic instead of sensual, go for it. Your personal preferences are valid regardless. Reject this shaming BS. Accept yourself as being capable of making valid choices for yourself.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!