I'd disagree with the tradeoff thing. But this might be the difference between SM and WM. I couldn't say as I haven't done both.
The way i'm interacting with girls with WM, appreciating them etc.. sex, talking sexually, playing on text or video or whatever. It's simply an exchange of mutual pleasure, we both want it as much as each other. In this way it's not an 'exchange of something else for sex' it's just 'an exchange of pleasure for pleasure because it feels good to both of us'.
I'm just realizing that alot of my interactions are simply hours of us enjoying each other even during the times when it's not going sexual, though most of the time it does.
Thinking in this way of 'exchange' you mentioned just takes the pure pleasure out of it all.
I personally don't see the point. I do it for fun and enjoyment, mutual pleasure. I can't see how you could enjoy it much if that's why you're doing it.
The way i'm interacting with girls with WM, appreciating them etc.. sex, talking sexually, playing on text or video or whatever. It's simply an exchange of mutual pleasure, we both want it as much as each other. In this way it's not an 'exchange of something else for sex' it's just 'an exchange of pleasure for pleasure because it feels good to both of us'.
I'm just realizing that alot of my interactions are simply hours of us enjoying each other even during the times when it's not going sexual, though most of the time it does.
Thinking in this way of 'exchange' you mentioned just takes the pure pleasure out of it all.
Quote:I dont do sex for fun i do it for the respect
I personally don't see the point. I do it for fun and enjoyment, mutual pleasure. I can't see how you could enjoy it much if that's why you're doing it.
