GRACIE, MASS COM STUDENT
Arjay asked me to wing him in his Day 2 with some girl he met in a university fair. His set will be bringing a female chaperone. My job was to game the chaperone so he could do some solid game with his set, and also, to tell DHV stories about him to his set...
ENTER A DATE
23/02/27
ENTER LOCATION
Mall to amusement park
HOW WAS YOUR AVATAR?
8 of 10
WHICH THEMES WERE YOU ABLE TO PRESENT IN YOUR AVATAR?
Relaxed aura, interesting accessory, peacocking item
Comment—Improve your body
HOW WAS YOUR OPENER?
It's actually a warm approach. Arjay found me sitting in a mall's food court. He dabbed my arm, then I acted like "you're here? what a small world" (acting experiment). I followed him and told him so and so fluffs, that I'm here to look for a good location for my friend's business (which was true), etc. He introduced me to his set, and the chaperone (Gracie), who was certainly my kind of cute, I liked her eyes. I shook hands with the two girls, turned back and faced Arjay again. Later on, I gestured that I'm going somewhere, he said, "Come, join us", I did that, then I stood beside the Gracie, smiled to her and did some DHV stories for Arjay
Comment—It's quite good, non-needy, but you should have smiled and did strong eye contact with the 2 girls, at the least
HOW DID THE SET RESPOND TO YOUR OPENING?
The girl was asking questions about me like where I'm from, my age, my job, etc. which I would construe as qualifying me if only it's not a warm approach
HOW WAS YOUR BODY LANGUAGE WHEN YOU OPENED THE SET?
I shook hands with the 2 girls, turned back and talked to Arjay again
DID YOU THROW AN FTC AS SOON AS YOU OPENED THE SET?
I gestured to Arjay that I was about to go somewhere. He said, "Come, join us", and I joined them (following his lead)
HOW WAS YOUR FTC?
I wasn't able to do this well. Actually, it was perceived by Arjay's set as a DLV—she thought I joined them because I don't have a girlfriend
DID YOU SAY YOUR FTC WITH BODY ROCKING?
There's no way I could body rock. Arjay walked very fast with his set
HOW WAS YOUR LOCK-IN?
They went on walking. I followed them. I gestured that I'm going somewhere. Arjay said I should join them, I did. Then I walked beside Gracie
DID YOU ACKNOWLEDGE OR PAY RESPECT TO THE OBSTACLE/S?
Yes
WHO WAS/WERE THE OBSTACLES?
From my reference point, the obstacle is Arjay's set
HOW WAS THE INTERACTION WITH THE OBSTACLE/S?
It was good. I can easily make Arjay's set laugh. But somewhere along the conversation, I showed them a photo of a 13 year old girl who looks like a pretty 28 year old model, for me. She said, "If you see her as 28, how old am I for you?" So, I have to hold my prejudices at times. Arjay's set is quite insecure. Replying, I said in my typical serious manner, "I actually judge a person's age on her eyes and maturity." Be in the moment, man
Comment—Something went wrong in the end. I became obviously reactive. When Arjay's set said that she's thinking I joined them because I don't have a girlfriend, I took that as a DLV. I probably got emotional I didn't notice she frowned. Later, she told me she remembers her cousin in me, and was praising me. I took that as her trying to win back my positive state after realizing she offended me in some way. I should learn to control my automatic responses, and keep them in neutral state. I should've replied playfully, "I don't have a girlfriend. I have a boyfriend," then I should've laughed to keep the positive vibe in the air. Arjay advised me later to calibrate everyone and everything...
HOW DID YOU TRANSITION THE INTERACTION TO THE TARGET?
While Arjay was walking with his set beside him, I went beside Gracie. She actually said, "Come here kuya", which wasn't good because that appeared like she's leading me... Our conversations involve instances when I demonstrated knowledge about anything that comes to mind—religion, lust (which made them so happy), her braces, etc. Also, there were instances when some of my actions around her, like discussing business with my friend over the phone, a CS rep of a company calling me, friends calling me, etc. obviously showed some form of indirect bragging. This set was responding to me and there were signs of interest, but I was so weak at calibration I couldn't determine her level of attraction for me. I couldn't read her accurately
DID YOU LOOK AT HER LEFT EYE?
Yes
Comment—I actually looked at both her eyes, I liked her eyes. She noticed that, she guessed I was a psychologist because of the way I looked at her. She's lovely, though she's a little—very little—chubby
HOW DID YOU PRESENT YOURSELF AS LEADER OF MEN?
I was calling guy friends and guy friends were calling me. I made it appear that those guys were friends with Arjay as well, as if I am the middle man between Arjay and our other friends
HOW DID YOU PRESENT YOURSELF AS PRESELECTED BY WOMEN?
At the amusement park, we found out that the 2-set I and Arjay had at that time were with 7 other friends (mostly females) in the amusement park. I acted confidently in front of all of them, I even went on ignoring Gracie many times and gamed the other girls, which all complied happily
HOW DID YOU PRESENT YOURSELF AS PROTECTOR OF LOVED ONES?
I kinda acted like a gentleman, I was leading Gracie to the safer side of the road while we were walking
Comment—Prepare your DHV stories, write them down... On demonstrating knowledge, minimize that. Remember that your habit of demonstrating knowledge about anything in front of even your family members are often being construed as manifestation of your defensiveness. Limit demonstrating knowledge unless you're inside the classroom. Remember, it's not what you say that matters, it's what people hear... What else? Girls get bored hearing stiff knowledge. Flirting is never knowledge demonstration... You also acted reactive more than once. You were explaining something deep with Gracie while you were walking on the way to the bus station when suddenly she called the other girl in front and talked with her for a few seconds, you were kinda offended, so when she went back to you, "Sorry, what's that again?", you changed the topic, "Can I get back my power bank?" That appears subconsciously reactive, even to us
WHILE PRESENTING YOURSELF WITH THESE ATTRACTIVE TRAITS, DID YOU, IN ANYWAY, SHOW ANY OF THEM DIRECTLY OR BRAG?
Yes
DID YOU THROW A FALSE DISQUALIFIER TO DESTROY HER SHIELDS?
Yes. "Your parents are strict, aren't they? They put a fence on your teeth..." (referring to her braces)
Comment—She was laughing, but mentioned that Arjay already said that to her. I should've assumed that earlier, and chose another false disqualifier
DID YOU DELIVER YOUR ROUTINE/S SOON AFTER THE SET'S SHIELDS WERE TURNED OFF?
Yes
WHAT WAS/WERE YOUR ROUTINE/S?
Number routine, cold read her emotions, 7 deadly sins test
Comment—Prepare more routines, so you wouldn't run out of interesting things to do during the interaction. Be strong on your leads. I remember you saying you're going to tell her your analysis of her personality when you get to the next location. But then she eagerly said, "Tell it now", while you were walking, and you felt like you really had to do that at that moment. Don't follow her leading
DID YOU DELIVER A DHV STORY?
Yes. Indirectly though, I called a guy friend, she overheard me talking with him about some concrete business plan, so that's "man of value". I guess she also heard me saying that I have two sisters, and I am quite over-protective of them, "protector of loved ones"
Comment—You have to polish your DHV stories, man
WHICH VOCAL TONALITIES WERE YOU ABLE TO USE IN YOUR INTERACTION WITH THE TARGET?
Father to daughter frame, adding to the fun frame, challenging frame
Comment—You're forgetting to use Art's flirting frame. When you're demonstrating knowledge, your vocal tonality sounds serious, use a better tonality when explaining knowledge
HOW DID YOUR MULTI-THREADING GO?
I wasn't conscious of this still. But I have an immediate reply to everything, which I easily plow on to some trivias I know. However, it seems to me that they just appeared as mere demonstration of knowledge
WERE THERE ATTRACTION BEFORE YOU PROCEEDED TO QUALIFYING?
I guess, but I wasn't so good at asking qualifying questions, I forgot doing this part consciously
WHAT IOIS WERE PRESENT?
The target smiled, laughed, looked at my eyes, answered my questions, complied, etc.
WHAT IODS WERE PRESENT?
The target mentioned she's a bisexual and she has a girlfriend. I took that seriously and bit the bait. I left her with her pretty strong girl, who was supposed to be her girlfriend, and gamed her other friends. Later, however, I realized that's a shit test. There's nothing apparently sexual about their friendship. Observing her, I see some sadness. And probably, she was hoping, initially, that I would try to dig her sadness sometime during that evening (that's what those IOIs for), but I didn't. Instead, I gamed her other friends. She's looking at me several times, with those noticeable eyes, before we bade goodbye. Worse, I failed to get her number
Comment—I think she's attracted at first, I failed to handle her shit tests though. She said she has a girlfriend. I should've said, "Like most women" and laughed. While I was saying some deep serious stuff with her, she talked with a friend for a few seconds, went back to me and apologized. I got quite offended, so I changed the topic and lowered my voice, which could be easily perceived as reactive
ACCUMULATED HOURS OF MONITORED GAME
2 hr 55 min
Arjay asked me to wing him in his Day 2 with some girl he met in a university fair. His set will be bringing a female chaperone. My job was to game the chaperone so he could do some solid game with his set, and also, to tell DHV stories about him to his set...
ENTER A DATE
23/02/27
ENTER LOCATION
Mall to amusement park
HOW WAS YOUR AVATAR?
8 of 10
WHICH THEMES WERE YOU ABLE TO PRESENT IN YOUR AVATAR?
Relaxed aura, interesting accessory, peacocking item
Comment—Improve your body
HOW WAS YOUR OPENER?
It's actually a warm approach. Arjay found me sitting in a mall's food court. He dabbed my arm, then I acted like "you're here? what a small world" (acting experiment). I followed him and told him so and so fluffs, that I'm here to look for a good location for my friend's business (which was true), etc. He introduced me to his set, and the chaperone (Gracie), who was certainly my kind of cute, I liked her eyes. I shook hands with the two girls, turned back and faced Arjay again. Later on, I gestured that I'm going somewhere, he said, "Come, join us", I did that, then I stood beside the Gracie, smiled to her and did some DHV stories for Arjay
Comment—It's quite good, non-needy, but you should have smiled and did strong eye contact with the 2 girls, at the least
HOW DID THE SET RESPOND TO YOUR OPENING?
The girl was asking questions about me like where I'm from, my age, my job, etc. which I would construe as qualifying me if only it's not a warm approach
HOW WAS YOUR BODY LANGUAGE WHEN YOU OPENED THE SET?
I shook hands with the 2 girls, turned back and talked to Arjay again
DID YOU THROW AN FTC AS SOON AS YOU OPENED THE SET?
I gestured to Arjay that I was about to go somewhere. He said, "Come, join us", and I joined them (following his lead)
HOW WAS YOUR FTC?
I wasn't able to do this well. Actually, it was perceived by Arjay's set as a DLV—she thought I joined them because I don't have a girlfriend
DID YOU SAY YOUR FTC WITH BODY ROCKING?
There's no way I could body rock. Arjay walked very fast with his set
HOW WAS YOUR LOCK-IN?
They went on walking. I followed them. I gestured that I'm going somewhere. Arjay said I should join them, I did. Then I walked beside Gracie
DID YOU ACKNOWLEDGE OR PAY RESPECT TO THE OBSTACLE/S?
Yes
WHO WAS/WERE THE OBSTACLES?
From my reference point, the obstacle is Arjay's set
HOW WAS THE INTERACTION WITH THE OBSTACLE/S?
It was good. I can easily make Arjay's set laugh. But somewhere along the conversation, I showed them a photo of a 13 year old girl who looks like a pretty 28 year old model, for me. She said, "If you see her as 28, how old am I for you?" So, I have to hold my prejudices at times. Arjay's set is quite insecure. Replying, I said in my typical serious manner, "I actually judge a person's age on her eyes and maturity." Be in the moment, man
Comment—Something went wrong in the end. I became obviously reactive. When Arjay's set said that she's thinking I joined them because I don't have a girlfriend, I took that as a DLV. I probably got emotional I didn't notice she frowned. Later, she told me she remembers her cousin in me, and was praising me. I took that as her trying to win back my positive state after realizing she offended me in some way. I should learn to control my automatic responses, and keep them in neutral state. I should've replied playfully, "I don't have a girlfriend. I have a boyfriend," then I should've laughed to keep the positive vibe in the air. Arjay advised me later to calibrate everyone and everything...
HOW DID YOU TRANSITION THE INTERACTION TO THE TARGET?
While Arjay was walking with his set beside him, I went beside Gracie. She actually said, "Come here kuya", which wasn't good because that appeared like she's leading me... Our conversations involve instances when I demonstrated knowledge about anything that comes to mind—religion, lust (which made them so happy), her braces, etc. Also, there were instances when some of my actions around her, like discussing business with my friend over the phone, a CS rep of a company calling me, friends calling me, etc. obviously showed some form of indirect bragging. This set was responding to me and there were signs of interest, but I was so weak at calibration I couldn't determine her level of attraction for me. I couldn't read her accurately
DID YOU LOOK AT HER LEFT EYE?
Yes
Comment—I actually looked at both her eyes, I liked her eyes. She noticed that, she guessed I was a psychologist because of the way I looked at her. She's lovely, though she's a little—very little—chubby
HOW DID YOU PRESENT YOURSELF AS LEADER OF MEN?
I was calling guy friends and guy friends were calling me. I made it appear that those guys were friends with Arjay as well, as if I am the middle man between Arjay and our other friends
HOW DID YOU PRESENT YOURSELF AS PRESELECTED BY WOMEN?
At the amusement park, we found out that the 2-set I and Arjay had at that time were with 7 other friends (mostly females) in the amusement park. I acted confidently in front of all of them, I even went on ignoring Gracie many times and gamed the other girls, which all complied happily
HOW DID YOU PRESENT YOURSELF AS PROTECTOR OF LOVED ONES?
I kinda acted like a gentleman, I was leading Gracie to the safer side of the road while we were walking
Comment—Prepare your DHV stories, write them down... On demonstrating knowledge, minimize that. Remember that your habit of demonstrating knowledge about anything in front of even your family members are often being construed as manifestation of your defensiveness. Limit demonstrating knowledge unless you're inside the classroom. Remember, it's not what you say that matters, it's what people hear... What else? Girls get bored hearing stiff knowledge. Flirting is never knowledge demonstration... You also acted reactive more than once. You were explaining something deep with Gracie while you were walking on the way to the bus station when suddenly she called the other girl in front and talked with her for a few seconds, you were kinda offended, so when she went back to you, "Sorry, what's that again?", you changed the topic, "Can I get back my power bank?" That appears subconsciously reactive, even to us
WHILE PRESENTING YOURSELF WITH THESE ATTRACTIVE TRAITS, DID YOU, IN ANYWAY, SHOW ANY OF THEM DIRECTLY OR BRAG?
Yes
DID YOU THROW A FALSE DISQUALIFIER TO DESTROY HER SHIELDS?
Yes. "Your parents are strict, aren't they? They put a fence on your teeth..." (referring to her braces)
Comment—She was laughing, but mentioned that Arjay already said that to her. I should've assumed that earlier, and chose another false disqualifier
DID YOU DELIVER YOUR ROUTINE/S SOON AFTER THE SET'S SHIELDS WERE TURNED OFF?
Yes
WHAT WAS/WERE YOUR ROUTINE/S?
Number routine, cold read her emotions, 7 deadly sins test
Comment—Prepare more routines, so you wouldn't run out of interesting things to do during the interaction. Be strong on your leads. I remember you saying you're going to tell her your analysis of her personality when you get to the next location. But then she eagerly said, "Tell it now", while you were walking, and you felt like you really had to do that at that moment. Don't follow her leading
DID YOU DELIVER A DHV STORY?
Yes. Indirectly though, I called a guy friend, she overheard me talking with him about some concrete business plan, so that's "man of value". I guess she also heard me saying that I have two sisters, and I am quite over-protective of them, "protector of loved ones"
Comment—You have to polish your DHV stories, man
WHICH VOCAL TONALITIES WERE YOU ABLE TO USE IN YOUR INTERACTION WITH THE TARGET?
Father to daughter frame, adding to the fun frame, challenging frame
Comment—You're forgetting to use Art's flirting frame. When you're demonstrating knowledge, your vocal tonality sounds serious, use a better tonality when explaining knowledge
HOW DID YOUR MULTI-THREADING GO?
I wasn't conscious of this still. But I have an immediate reply to everything, which I easily plow on to some trivias I know. However, it seems to me that they just appeared as mere demonstration of knowledge
WERE THERE ATTRACTION BEFORE YOU PROCEEDED TO QUALIFYING?
I guess, but I wasn't so good at asking qualifying questions, I forgot doing this part consciously
WHAT IOIS WERE PRESENT?
The target smiled, laughed, looked at my eyes, answered my questions, complied, etc.
WHAT IODS WERE PRESENT?
The target mentioned she's a bisexual and she has a girlfriend. I took that seriously and bit the bait. I left her with her pretty strong girl, who was supposed to be her girlfriend, and gamed her other friends. Later, however, I realized that's a shit test. There's nothing apparently sexual about their friendship. Observing her, I see some sadness. And probably, she was hoping, initially, that I would try to dig her sadness sometime during that evening (that's what those IOIs for), but I didn't. Instead, I gamed her other friends. She's looking at me several times, with those noticeable eyes, before we bade goodbye. Worse, I failed to get her number
Comment—I think she's attracted at first, I failed to handle her shit tests though. She said she has a girlfriend. I should've said, "Like most women" and laughed. While I was saying some deep serious stuff with her, she talked with a friend for a few seconds, went back to me and apologized. I got quite offended, so I changed the topic and lowered my voice, which could be easily perceived as reactive
ACCUMULATED HOURS OF MONITORED GAME
2 hr 55 min
"I am developing into a high value Alpha Male..."
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