02-25-2016, 07:47 AM
(02-23-2016, 09:47 PM)AlphaRomeo Wrote: Yea it´s possible my friend...I´m not saying that I ´m already living that kind of lifestyle but since I know people who DOES I know it´s possible. Ambitious? Sure. But doable? Yes. And with the help of Shannon´s superpowers it could be achievable indeed. It is important to know EXACTLY what you want and be 100% honest and open about it to yourself and to women/others from the get go...while realizing that this lifestyle does NOT happen over night. Even the master himself that I referred in my original post transitioned from polyamory to polygyny over several years. He also happens to be kind of man who has A LOT to offer for those women and people in his life in general. What Shannon is to subliminals, he is to his community, and then some. He is Giver with capital G, not taker, and you have to be one in order to create the kind of lifestyle I am talking about. Forget about playing video games at home, forget going clubs every weekend, forget 99.9% of PUA (He does things VERY differently. Blackdragon has a lot of good points tho in his blog and books, read Alpha Male 2 -Unchained Man and his book about open relationships...tho BD is into polyamory, not polygyny), forget what your friends does (unless they are an example like him), forget a lot of whatever things that many/most guys do and definitely forget of what 99,9% of societal programming would like you to do if you want to live the life he does. One has to grow to be a man of epic portions in order to achieve even half of what he has. Like everything else in life, there is price to pay for it.
Basically once you decide what kind of lifestyle you want and if it´s say pologyny you start to BUILD that from the get go and create a life that is so desirable that women want to be INVITED INTO YOUR WORLD (as opposed to what most guys does which is trying to be part of women´s world). It has to be so magnetic, desirable and different from their everyday life experience that those women who are into that kind of lifestyle would do pretty much anything to be part of it. Vast majority of women are NOT into polygyny, but it doesn´t matter; you are making your life attractive for yourself and for those who are. It´s about the journey, not the destination.
Whilst there is truth to that, you need to also take in the consideration of who you are living for. If one were to create an attractive lifestyle solely to please women, one that makes women impressed, then there's neediness involved, which is a bad thing.
There are so many theories created about what the best lifestyle is, but ultimately it comes down to what you find to live the most comfortably. The "attractive lifestyle that pulls women" needs to be enjoyed by you primarily, and then take others into the factor. I wouldn't waste my time learning hobbies that I am not interested in, or travel to places that I don't care to see.