02-18-2016, 03:54 PM
Sex for me personally is simply enjoyment. I too hate all the bullshit reasons, like some girls having sex thinking it's going to force the guy into a relationship.
Like one girl from my AM6 journal, the first night we had sex we did it like 6 times.. she was all over me, she was doing stuff like after we did it the first time pressed her ass up against me and pulled her pants down.
Then the next time I seen her, we did it once and when I tried a second time she got all shitty and when I kept kissing her was like "Ben stop it!" really loudly. And I fucking just got dressed and walked out on her.
So I felt the first night she was half trying to get me to think she's like that all the time trying to get me in a relationship then was trying to pull the 'see how much I can get away with by denying it the next time'. Fuck that.. no way.
Another I invited around and slept with her a few times. Then she said something like "i'm horrible in a relationship" and I told her I see sex as enjoyment and hate it when people do it as a form of control like "now you have to be in a relationship with me". She went weird and left and the next day I got a big abusive message. But I didn't promise anything so it was her own issue.
Funnily enough she met a guy not long after, nearly INSTANTLY changed facebook to in a relationship and moved in with him 2 hours away in like a month or two :Z
Like one girl from my AM6 journal, the first night we had sex we did it like 6 times.. she was all over me, she was doing stuff like after we did it the first time pressed her ass up against me and pulled her pants down.
Then the next time I seen her, we did it once and when I tried a second time she got all shitty and when I kept kissing her was like "Ben stop it!" really loudly. And I fucking just got dressed and walked out on her.
So I felt the first night she was half trying to get me to think she's like that all the time trying to get me in a relationship then was trying to pull the 'see how much I can get away with by denying it the next time'. Fuck that.. no way.
Another I invited around and slept with her a few times. Then she said something like "i'm horrible in a relationship" and I told her I see sex as enjoyment and hate it when people do it as a form of control like "now you have to be in a relationship with me". She went weird and left and the next day I got a big abusive message. But I didn't promise anything so it was her own issue.
Funnily enough she met a guy not long after, nearly INSTANTLY changed facebook to in a relationship and moved in with him 2 hours away in like a month or two :Z
