Yesterday, 02:36 PM
Hello, I am now on day 4 of the second cycle of the X4A-1600. Summary of 14 days:
- After two dates with a 6.5/10 girl I met randomly, she wanted to be my girlfriend and I refused and she asked 'well do you know friends with benefits?'
- A girl I knew before but who didn't interest me much, who still doesn't interest me much, is constantly trying to communicate with me
- Developments with the ex
- Small (this is important, because it’s small) hints of interest from some beautiful women.
Yes, I'm on day 14 in total with rest days, so I'm in the second week. So far the program is going well, but here's what's on my mind and what I'm curious about for the rest, this part is especially for @Shannon
I am now following the 3 loops instruction, the second instruction. I'm not a virgin or inexperienced, but I haven't had as much experience in the last 2 years as in the previous years. So I'm a little rusty. I haven't chased a girl in particular and I haven't pushed myself for a date, so I haven't pursued them too much. X4A-1600 is definitely helping me, but I'm not sure if I'm following the right instruction for my current situation. One reason is that I don't think I'm getting much feedback from really pretty girls (so far, of the girls I mentioned above, only my ex was very, very pretty). I know I'm good looking etc, I don't have any insecurities about it. Sometimes I even have an unnecessary confidence in this regard.
So my question is, you told me in the discussion thread that if I use too many loops, a lot of people who would normally be able to answer might get scared and they would hesitate to answer or run away. And those who do respond will not be very attractive. In this case, except for my ex, the two girls who responded are not 'really' beautiful girls. Right now I started with 3 loops to get rid of my 2 years of rust, but maybe that was a mistake. Do you think I should change it to 1 loop, that is, change the instructions to the first instruction and listen to it that way?
- After two dates with a 6.5/10 girl I met randomly, she wanted to be my girlfriend and I refused and she asked 'well do you know friends with benefits?'
- A girl I knew before but who didn't interest me much, who still doesn't interest me much, is constantly trying to communicate with me
- Developments with the ex
- Small (this is important, because it’s small) hints of interest from some beautiful women.
Yes, I'm on day 14 in total with rest days, so I'm in the second week. So far the program is going well, but here's what's on my mind and what I'm curious about for the rest, this part is especially for @Shannon
I am now following the 3 loops instruction, the second instruction. I'm not a virgin or inexperienced, but I haven't had as much experience in the last 2 years as in the previous years. So I'm a little rusty. I haven't chased a girl in particular and I haven't pushed myself for a date, so I haven't pursued them too much. X4A-1600 is definitely helping me, but I'm not sure if I'm following the right instruction for my current situation. One reason is that I don't think I'm getting much feedback from really pretty girls (so far, of the girls I mentioned above, only my ex was very, very pretty). I know I'm good looking etc, I don't have any insecurities about it. Sometimes I even have an unnecessary confidence in this regard.

So my question is, you told me in the discussion thread that if I use too many loops, a lot of people who would normally be able to answer might get scared and they would hesitate to answer or run away. And those who do respond will not be very attractive. In this case, except for my ex, the two girls who responded are not 'really' beautiful girls. Right now I started with 3 loops to get rid of my 2 years of rust, but maybe that was a mistake. Do you think I should change it to 1 loop, that is, change the instructions to the first instruction and listen to it that way?