Quote:Hey Guys,
Sorry for the delay in responding. I get crazy busy during the week sometimes.
I appreciate the thoughtful responses (Shannon, Cortez, Tiesto, RainbowAbyss).
I agree that a man being completely free to say “no” to a woman, because she displeases him or is simply not attractive to him, is a freedom. I also agree that when a man is fully complete within himself and happy with himself, this is also a great place to be and emotionally healthy.
In addition, I also agree that a man who is uninterested, self-sufficient, aloof, or comes across as someone who is happy with himself, is attractive to women.
Here is where I diverge.
When a man has all of the above qualities but is not flexible enough to take action, talk to a woman, feel desire, feel feelings, lead a woman, or be warm with a woman in a way that facilitates a meaningful connection with a woman, he is essentially nothing more than an island and all of the aforementioned qualities, that we‘ve summed up as "uninterested," become Absolutely Valueless.
-- Because --
I would argue that there is no such thing as a man who has such high value that he doesn't need a woman. In fact, I would argue, that science will prove, without a shadow of doubt, that such a thing does not exist on this planet.
Men need women and women need men. That's a fact. Any attempt to reverse that natural law will end in misery, neurosis and a distorted leaking of this natural desire.
It’s Natural Law
If Natural Law is not respected, Natural Law with smack said guy up the head like a BEEEOTCH. Period.
So what I'm saying is, being uninterested in women, on to itself, devoid of the flexibility to temporarily move out of that place, in a confident, warm, and life affirming manner, has no value add.
An existing danger is that it can be an easy place to hide for a man because it feels powerful (in the short run) but if a man gets stuck there, he is a Lonely, Rigid, Island -- who feels powerful.
The First Purpose of all physical living things is to reproduce. Our species, humans, does so in a sexual manner. Therefore, in order to reproduce, a man needs a woman, and a woman needs a man. Until of course science decides that gender A does not need gender B because it can create a child using a test tube. At which point, we are going to learn the hard way why the idea is false that a man does not need a woman, or vice versa.
That point aside, we are also a social species, meaning that we need one another, and being solitary for too long is detrimental.
However, the point at hand is not a permanent severance of the need for a woman, nor a desire to be solitary forever. The alpha program creates these conditions specifically for the purpose of allowing the man to do the inner work required to improve himself and advance himself. By the end of the program, he is released from these states and is free to go about his merry way.
During the program however, a woman would be a distraction from the very important work he is doing on himself inwardly. In fact, this very point is why most males are not where they want to be with women: they have chased women (sex) instead of going for the critical self improvement they need to get said women.
It is also healthy for a man to be balanced in his desire for women versus other things, and that is another goal of the alpha set. In the beginning, it shuts down the majority of interest in women primarily to allow him an un-distracted self improvement and growth period, but this has also the effect of introducing him to the alpha male's point of view that "I don't need any given woman."
It's not about not needing women, it's about not needing any given woman. And it's about not needing at all. It's about being inwardly self sufficient and healthy enough to be happy without craving, from a place of weakness or fear, the opposite sex. It's about having enough self respect, self esteem, self worth and self control to act as a human, and not simply as an animal. It's about shifting one's focus from sex to being able to choose the woman because she has value, and her value matches one's own.
I think there will be others here who have run through AM a time or three who may also have things to say in response to your post. However, as a final point, I can guarantee you that not a one of us has become "absolutely valueless" to anyone, including ourselves, for having used the program; and in fact we have all increased in value with each use of that program such that our lives are ever better for it, and so are our relationships - platonic, romantic and sexual.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
