(07-12-2018, 08:58 AM)Darwin Wrote: PUA tactics work when you're starting out. It did for me, and it has done for many. They're a clumsy and incongruent way to either fake attributes of someone who is high value and worth sleeping with and/or exploit the psychological foibles of insecure women. It's not sustainable as a way of life - mystery himself, last I heard, was a basket case.
It won't deal with the fundamental underlying issue of why you don't attract women by being who you are, if that's not important then go for it.
Whether it's smart or not to bang on about PUA while on DMSI well....
Last time, I went at a car dealer to buy a car, I am sure that the seller did use selling tactics on me. He was skilled. I had a great buying experience and I decided to buy the car from him.
I wanted to buy a car. The only remaining detail to determine was to who I was going to buy it.
This story can be a template, just replace the subject for a woman and the desire from car to sex. and you have the same happy story.
Sure the seller must be confident and likable and tactics alone wouldn't be enough. I would probably haven't closed the deal with an incompetent but likable and confident seller neither.
We still come back to 2 fundamentals:
Who you are
What you do
Also keep in mind, that doing PUA shift your mindset. When I go in flirt mode, I become playful. I want to do naughty and funny mischief with the girls because I want to have fun with them. This is attractive. This might be what happens to Sarge...