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Updating recommended books list? - apollolux - 02-11-2016
Given the advances in scripting technology and the somewhat changing times, would there soon be an update to the recommended reading lists associated with various subs? I know personally I've read both How to Be an Alpha Male and Double Your Dating while listening to EHPRA, and while those seem to have their uses reading Models and The Unchained Man during early and late ASC, as well as Choose Yourself and Love Yourself Like Your Life Depended On It currently, seem to give updated versions of the advice in the former and can be applied towards being a more balanced alpha male and towards emotional healing and outcome independence.
Thoughts?
RE: Updating recommended books list? - 4Kingdoms - 02-12-2016
http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-4807-post-99612.html#pid99612
(02-11-2016, 05:51 PM)Shannon Wrote: You were speaking Male when she was listening for Female. Different languages. It's like speaking French to an Icelander and wondering why they don't understand. Only, men and women usually don;t even know they don't speak the same language. Your job is to learn Female-ese.
Why Don't You Understand? A Gender Relationship Dictionary
Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps: How We're Different and What to Do About It
Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love: Solving the Mystery of Attraction
Why Men Don't Have a Clue and Women Always Need More Shoes: The Ultimate Guide to the Opposite Sex
Men Are Like Waffles - Women Are Like Spaghetti
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: Practical Guide for Improving Communication
RE: Updating recommended books list? - apollolux - 02-12-2016
(02-12-2016, 04:04 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote: http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-4807-post-99612.html#pid99612
(02-11-2016, 05:51 PM)Shannon Wrote: You were speaking Male when she was listening for Female. Different languages. It's like speaking French to an Icelander and wondering why they don't understand. Only, men and women usually don;t even know they don't speak the same language. Your job is to learn Female-ese.
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Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: Practical Guide for Improving Communication
This is certainly where I first read about "female-ese" vs. "male-ese" but I think a lot of the practical aspects of it (the "writing a letter to get your feelings out" especially) are or at least seem outdated.
RE: Updating recommended books list? - 4Kingdoms - 02-12-2016
(02-12-2016, 11:42 AM)apollolux Wrote:(02-12-2016, 04:04 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: Practical Guide for Improving Communication
This is certainly where I first read about "female-ese" vs. "male-ese" but I think a lot of the practical aspects of it (the "writing a letter to get your feelings out" especially) are or at least seem outdated.
I haven't read any of these books, I just quickly searched and put a list together to address how one could go about learning "female-ese".
In time, I do plan on reading up on it. @Anyone reading: If there are newer and up to date ideas about "female-ese" please share when you discover them.
RE: Updating recommended books list? - Benjamin - 02-12-2016
I don't think i'd ever read that 'men are from mars' crap.. the author is just some poonce who you wouldn't want advice from.
But definately Alpha 2.0, maybe models but i'm still unsure about that whole philosophy, Carlos Xuma Alpha Male book, can't remember the exact name.
RE: Updating recommended books list? - Raz - 02-15-2016
I recommend reading 'Obedience to Authority' by Stanley Milgram to understand some underlying concepts of functioning in hierarchies.
One of those books that might influence your own behavior and sheds light onto social dynamics.