(11-25-2020, 02:37 PM)Jake2015 Wrote:

(11-24-2020, 05:13 PM)Shannon Wrote:

(11-24-2020, 03:30 PM)Jake2015 Wrote: @Shannon Hope youre well.

Im wondering with all my fears, does lack of self esteem, self worth or lack of confidence all stem from fear too and can OF work on helping with this?

having fallen for and lost the girl that I fell in love with and thought was the one has made me wonder did I lack something inside and if so was it all the above?

thanks

OF deals with fear.  If you fear is caused by something else, that will also be dealt with.

The way of the world is, you probably won't find "The One" during the first 30 - 35 years of your life.  So stop thinking like that.  You have to be developed enough for "The One" to want you.  Even if you meet them, they won't want you if you're not what they need.  You need to focus on becoming the best version of yourself you can be, and doing it without "The One".  I went through a lot of what you're talking about, and later on realized I was looking for someone to be my mother and take care of me so I didn't have to face my fears and grow up.  Not saying that's what you're doing, but it sounds familiar.

So my advice is, if you want a woman to choose you, work on being what she wants and needs.  That means developing yourself, improving yourself and making yourself all that you can be.  When you do that, you will have pick of the litter - believe me.  Good men are hard to find, and they have options.

Thank you Shannon, and ofcourse using OF is the first stage of trying to better myself. Any other tips do share on how to become the best version of myself I can.

I read something in this discussion about maybe you may upgrade OF from its current version to another more upto date version. If that is the case:

1) How much more advanced than currently will it really be?

2) I am currently on OF and hoping it works for me, would you think I would need to upgrade since im still waiting to execute?

thank you

(11-25-2020, 03:29 PM)lano1106 Wrote:

(11-25-2020, 01:35 PM)Bayern Wrote:

Quote:FRM 4.9 is decidedly not a simple script.  Or a short one.  But I can definitely transfer it to the latest skeleton script quickly.  But I wonder, who else would buy it again?

Been mainly lurking recently as I'm still using OF and just letting the sub do its thing at this point. But I would definitely buy it again if there were even a small chance for it to get updated to the most up to date FRM standards.  If not I completely understand and will continue on with OF as is.  Just wanted to throw it out there.

Same here. I like to optimize my time. I still have over 1/3 of the 8 months remaining to go. (A little bit more than 2 months).

If there was a more potent version of OF, I would get it in order to get the most out of the remaining 2 months

(11-26-2020, 08:10 AM)ncbeareatingman Wrote: [quote="Shannon" pid='240662' dateline='1606330462']



Shannon's quote  in response to UMS v2 :
"
I'm going to see if I can do 2 stages per month, because this has gotten old.  I only do one a month to give myself time to build something to make money with, and half the time my efforts turn out to be wasted anyway, because of circumstances outside of my control.  No guarantees, but that's what I'm looking at.  May or may not be feasible.

UMS is one of my favorite programs.  Unfortunately, I can't run it right now.  I am NOT looking forward to building another 6 stage set in 5.75.xG, this is nuts... but, given that I can work at my own pace, it will be helpful. "


My Response:
 Sounds real good Shannon, and frankly Man I'm glad that you'd be giving yourself a LOT more room &space to be and breathe,man. As you well know, its  a good thing,for any of us to do that,especially with something as mental-labor intensive as re-creating,R & D,upgrading and rebuilding such a program.
 2 stages a month,sounds awesome though. Hope when the rubber hits the road that it will indeed be feasible,to approach  things in this way and manner.
 Almost 3 hours into my new version of USLMv4.2....the feeling is like 'calming' & "I feel like I could listen ALL day!"
 What a Thanksgiving present,man oh man, I really calmly LIKE this program. "Just mellowly diggin it". Thank ya Man. Much appreciated!!!

(11-26-2020, 10:40 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(11-25-2020, 03:29 PM)lano1106 Wrote:

(11-25-2020, 01:35 PM)Bayern Wrote:

Quote:FRM 4.9 is decidedly not a simple script.  Or a short one.  But I can definitely transfer it to the latest skeleton script quickly.  But I wonder, who else would buy it again?

Been mainly lurking recently as I'm still using OF and just letting the sub do its thing at this point. But I would definitely buy it again if there were even a small chance for it to get updated to the most up to date FRM standards.  If not I completely understand and will continue on with OF as is.  Just wanted to throw it out there.

Same here. I like to optimize my time. I still have over 1/3 of the 8 months remaining to go. (A little bit more than 2 months).

If there was a more potent version of OF, I would get it in order to get the most out of the remaining 2 months

I'll be sure to upgrade OF as soon as I can do so meaningfully, since you all want the upgrade.  No idea when that will be though.

(11-26-2020, 10:42 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(11-26-2020, 08:10 AM)ncbeareatingman Wrote: [quote="Shannon" pid='240662' dateline='1606330462']



Shannon's quote  in response to UMS v2 :
"
I'm going to see if I can do 2 stages per month, because this has gotten old.  I only do one a month to give myself time to build something to make money with, and half the time my efforts turn out to be wasted anyway, because of circumstances outside of my control.  No guarantees, but that's what I'm looking at.  May or may not be feasible.

UMS is one of my favorite programs.  Unfortunately, I can't run it right now.  I am NOT looking forward to building another 6 stage set in 5.75.xG, this is nuts... but, given that I can work at my own pace, it will be helpful. "


My Response:
 Sounds real good Shannon, and frankly Man I'm glad that you'd be giving yourself a LOT more room &space to be and breathe,man. As you well know, its  a good thing,for any of us to do that,especially with something as mental-labor intensive as re-creating,R & D,upgrading and rebuilding such a program.
 2 stages a month,sounds awesome though. Hope when the rubber hits the road that it will indeed be feasible,to approach  things in this way and manner.
 Almost 3 hours into my new version of USLMv4.2....the feeling is like 'calming' & "I feel like I could listen ALL day!"
 What a Thanksgiving present,man oh man, I really calmly LIKE this program. "Just mellowly diggin it". Thank ya Man. Much appreciated!!!

That seemed like a really good program to me.  I wish I could run it.  

(11-26-2020, 02:47 PM)ncbeareatingman Wrote: Shannon,I've been meaning to run this by you for months and by the time I get here,its already a past thought....that is  I have this deep fear,that if I have all the money I want, all the things to get my thing on in life,that I'll be bored  sh*tless.
Like agonizing boredum fear,  Fear of Un-bearably bored.

I Know OF was working on  that amoung other fears,and Im shure the reason its remembered to bring it up is MY use this day of USLM v4.2,helped me to remember to bring this up.... Im not expecting an instant 'cure',instant fix..... I feel like USLM v4.2 is working on this via the success,FRM 4.9 combo...love that its doing its work.

It may seem crazy to our conscious mind, but thats one of my deepest fears around having a lotta money and success. for me... however rational and irrational this may be... I believe that my subconscious, in an effort to keep me 'safe',prevents such events as being success and abundantly wealthy, from happening  is to keep me 'happy" which isnt the case at all. not at all,of course.
awareness is the first step in  remedying the problem/impedance/road blocks.

The positive is that I have been aware of this for quite some time and have worked on it and  obviously,
#2_ That I AM indeed aware of it going on
#3) And its being worked on.
Means solutions can be founds,things can be resolved over time.

Plus with USLM  synchronicitie's have started to clearly show up,today,, without conscious effort.

(11-26-2020, 10:40 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(11-25-2020, 02:37 PM)Jake2015 Wrote:

(11-24-2020, 05:13 PM)Shannon Wrote:

(11-24-2020, 03:30 PM)Jake2015 Wrote: @Shannon Hope youre well.

Im wondering with all my fears, does lack of self esteem, self worth or lack of confidence all stem from fear too and can OF work on helping with this?

having fallen for and lost the girl that I fell in love with and thought was the one has made me wonder did I lack something inside and if so was it all the above?

thanks

OF deals with fear.  If you fear is caused by something else, that will also be dealt with.

The way of the world is, you probably won't find "The One" during the first 30 - 35 years of your life.  So stop thinking like that.  You have to be developed enough for "The One" to want you.  Even if you meet them, they won't want you if you're not what they need.  You need to focus on becoming the best version of yourself you can be, and doing it without "The One".  I went through a lot of what you're talking about, and later on realized I was looking for someone to be my mother and take care of me so I didn't have to face my fears and grow up.  Not saying that's what you're doing, but it sounds familiar.

So my advice is, if you want a woman to choose you, work on being what she wants and needs.  That means developing yourself, improving yourself and making yourself all that you can be.  When you do that, you will have pick of the litter - believe me.  Good men are hard to find, and they have options.

Thank you Shannon, and ofcourse using OF is the first stage of trying to better myself. Any other tips do share on how to become the best version of myself I can.

I read something in this discussion about maybe you may upgrade OF from its current version to another more upto date version. If that is the case:

1) How much more advanced than currently will it really be?

2) I am currently on OF and hoping it works for me, would you think I would need to upgrade since im still waiting to execute?

thank you

The first and biggest problem you face is that you don't want to grow up.  So the best thing you can do is hold yourself accountable for what you do and do not accomplish.  As for upgrading OF, I know you guys would love that, but I don't have enough time to really work on figuring out how to upgrade FRM 4.9 right now, and the ideas I have so far are few and I don't have time or stability in the models to model them.  An upgrade of OF is not going to happen right now.  There is too much else to do.

As for waiting to execute, I honestly don't know how you're resisting that program (if you are).  But if you are, it likely involves a subconscious level of self deception and self delusion that there's nothing I can do about.  It basically boils down to responding to the list of instructions by changing your beliefs and perspectives such that the script can execute or be ignored, and you still achieve the failure to accomplish that program's goal.  It's the only foolproof way to defeat a subliminal, and I don't know how to do anything about it because it leaves me with nothing to work with to make the necessary changes.  I hope that's not what you're doing.

(11-27-2020, 12:46 PM)Jake2015 Wrote: thanks Shannon. 

Regarding the "waiting to execute" I realise now after 3 cycles that the s7 old phone couldnt play US as per the stereo mp3 test you have. There was a slight slushing sound so I guess this hasnt helped. Ive now changed device to my s10 newer phone. It has the same sound when doing the test but when I was using the s10 initially during the start I felt as did you and others that I was getting something and OF was doing something so ill stick to my s10 phone.

If this fails me then I have no other means to play the sub sadly so it has to work on my s10 phone irrespective of what the speaker test reveals. fingers crossed!