10-05-2018, 04:34 AM
(10-05-2018, 04:27 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(10-05-2018, 04:14 AM)Determined Wrote:(10-05-2018, 03:58 AM)kingpill Wrote:(10-05-2018, 03:37 AM)Determined Wrote:(10-05-2018, 03:07 AM)kingpill Wrote: @Shannon Does DMSI have something that will make the affected have 'fear' of losing you and think something along the lines of 'this is it. its now or never'? I see girls like me, get happy, but they don't seem to have the fear of losing me, as if I'm gonna be around forever.
That's a good thing man. Insecurity only undermines the quality of the relationship.
I understand that, it's true. What I mean is for the girls that don't speak to you but just get happy when they see you- maybe make them somehow feel like if they dont quickly come over and talk to you now- they will lose a certain something they want forever.
The feminine is all about flow. If they see you and they smile its a great sign of a healthy connection.
In her eyes, if you're a worthy male, she'll feel like you'll be around forever. Its the natural way of things.
Adding in a fear of loss or a certain possessiveness just gets in the way of actually enjoying someone. The real freedom is in exploring a person without any fear or attachment to outcome.
If she finds you to be an enjoyable experience, she'll keep coming back for more. Same applies vice versa.
Edit: I do like the idea of imbuing her with confidence to approach you, that's a healthy positive mindset. I guess what I'm saying is that fear should be absent from the equation.
Maybe not fear but a logical understanding that if she do t act on her desires she’ll lose you.
Confidence is acting on your desires lol.