Subliminal Talk

(05-19-2018, 04:20 AM)findingme Wrote: [ -> ]Sarge, you refer to even decision makers not helping you. I've been thinking about this myself.

B seems to up the aggressiveness/push to achieve goals, and in some men a "dominance" has emerged. I'm wondering if the normal leaders, who usually don't have much competition, sideline themselves to watch the "new guy" on the scene, so they can respond in their best interest.

I'm wondering if the leaders are stepping back to avoid competition and/or clashing with you.

I'm not sure how this relates to what I was saying... can you elaborate?

(05-18-2018, 01:55 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]Doing D2D today. Car drives past and a girl opens the door and leans out and says “my friend thinks you’re cute!”

They keep driving and she closes the door.

I said “Thank you!” Of course.

"Aura of Cuteness " still working I guess

I’m feeling really shitty today.

(05-19-2018, 02:52 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]I’m feeling really shitty today.

Sarge sometimes in order to appreciate the good times one has to experience the bad times. You have come along way. I see the strenght in your posts. Life is peaks and troughs. Good things are about to happen..keep your chin up bro.

As I mentioned, I am back on ver. B

Did some sales yesterday and noticed a significant celebrity effect.

Went to a sheesha bar with my cousin later in the night and we had a good talk. He seemed qualifying to me, bragging, really, about his accomplishments. Also, lots of cute girls in there including some teens who kept going past our table to get to the bathroom. No approaches by girls however. I was in a "makeout with random hottie" mood but didn't do anything on my own to help that result. DMSI should be doing it on it's own with the aura but I do think it's not powerful enough yet.

If I would have approached a girl with some solid PUA I could have gotten action.

Went out to do approaching today. Still don't have a script to follow so I didn't do anything besides say "hi" to a girl I was walking past. She said hi out of courtesy.

I was then doing my shopping and when I had all I needed I turned around and standing there behind me was a 7.5-8/10 girl doing her shopping as well.

I didn't approach because I didn't know what to say.

I see seduction like boxing. Things like staying off porn/masturbation, living your purpose, not taking women's shit, being alpha, etc are all BLOCKING. It may keep you from losing, but it won't win you the match.

Time to get punching.

Night all.

Sales was a bust today. It was a combo of a bad neighborhood and not having enough houses to knock on. Tomorrow should be better.

I caught myself blaming DMSI for it, and the aura, but I don't think that was it.

I was at one door and the woman claimed to have no email and no cell phone. I told her I didn't believe her "At all." I said.

She didn't try to convince me and I thought I caught her. But you never know, some people are strange. Still, glad I didn't let her hotness overcome my senses. Still got her signed up despite the obstacle (or because I "passed" the shit test maybe?).

Also went out approaching today. I had a canned opener in mind that I want to try but had no balls to approach the one lone wolf I saw. All the rest were with people. A serious hindrance. I like online for that specific reason: lack of peers when dealing with the girl.

Did an approach with an opener today. Woman wasn't my type once I saw her face buuut she told me I made her day so that was nice of her.

I'm glad I did it, now I feel so much more free to do more approaches. This thing's gonna snowball if I do it right.

Three hunnuh' dolluh day. Awwww yeah.

It was crazy because it started off terrible. Once I made $100 I was done dealing with all the people. I felt like the aura was too powerful and getting people to auto-reject or shit-test hard. But I kept my emotions in check and refrained from getting angry.

It's funny because just today I was listening to "no more mr. nice guy" and he talks about masculinity and anger. I thought to myself "How can anger at people be a good thing?"

I sort of understood the basic idea of anger being a warning sign from your emotions that boundaries were being violated but I did not understand why anger should be employed consciously. So I decided to stop being angry (I tend to consciously become angry as a strategy to get what I want). It seemed to change things around at the door. LOTS of handshakes, compliments, people wishing me luck and wishing me financial success. One guy even told me "Anyone who says they aren't interested is... well, you just tell them 'take a look at this' " [he told me of a way to get people to almost always admit they needed my product. He, of course, was signed up already.]

EDIT: Oh yeah, almost forgot: I was also at a woman's house (the last sale of the night) and she's like "well? Are you coming in?" and I explained to her how I wasn't the guy to set things up. I do wonder about that tho.

I also saw a HOT 8in a gas station today. I was waiting behind her in line and left space for her to go directly to the door once she was done so I could move to the counter immediately. When she's done paying, she turns around and stares me dead in the eyes and then walks towards the door. I felt like she did that just to look at me since I was out of the way.

Then when I got outside myself, she was pumping gas and we stared at each other till she looked away.

Another $300 day. And, again, it was the same thing: things started out bad and I got discouraged easily but I kept at it and grinded it out.

Then, near the home stretch, I started getting some reactions that told me I wasn't authorative enough, so I had to step up again despite some serious inner turmoil. Once I did that, though, I started getting people who had no interest at all and didn't offer me anything to work with. I started just saying I could sign them up after they just said they hadn't thought about it and they say "yeah sure.".

Lesson learned: "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." - Wayne Gretzky

Also had one that required quite a bit of finesse and every ounce of my sales and people skills but I got the guy and afterward shook his hand and said "It was great working with you today. You have a great night."he goes "Thanks, you too." and I'm like "Thanks."

Just fantastic. I know I pushed the limits for myself today and did much better than I would have if I would have let any number of the obstacles defeat me.

Tomorrow I get paid and it's my day off. I want to buy myself something but I'll have to see after the bills are paid what I got left to work with.

So I'm halfway through my 2 week run of ver. B. So far I've noticed a lot more pushing myself, less excuses, and less "let's wait till I've cleared shit" mentality. More like "I'm going, with or without it". It's been a pretty powerful week. Seen some ioi's, especially at the door in sales, but still not as pronounced as years past.

Today the 18 year old I was texting for a while pinged me out of the blue wondering "R u not interested anymore ?". I tried to set a date but more of the same. Tho she was like "Maybe some other time ???" after I told her "no worries". Then I was like "For sure" and she gave smiley and hug emoji so maybe that means something, maybe it doesn't.

I had a wet dream of my previous FWB last night. I was actually having a sexual dream about her then woke myself up to keep from cumming. But once I fell asleep again the dream just continued and I came. Smh.

I find myself thinking there's no reason we couldn't keep being FWB's as I made her cum and we always had lots of laughs together. But, as always, I know the solution is to get better rather than hope for something from the past.

Other than that not too much to report. I made a bit of money this week but not enough to allow for paying my PUA coach this Friday. I'm aiming for next Friday. He wasn't pleased and told me "no excuses" but not having money legit is not an excuse know m'sayin'? Anyhow, I'm off to bed.

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(09-07-2018, 06:17 AM)Infinite Wrote: [ -> ]Interesting that he said no excuses. lol I would have told him to get another client if he needs my money so badly. How much do you pay him, if you don’t mind me asking?

Lol interesting. That was my thought as well.

Yes I do mind, it's personal. No offense.

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Read Shannon's recent post about women approaching men and higher value and all that. That's all well and good except when women have approached you your whole life and nothing has happened until you took matters into your own hands and started doing PU like me...

I never had a desperation for women that most guys seem to have and I firmly believe that's what kept me being a virgin because I had no strong enough desire to get with any number of the girls who pursued me.

There IS something to it but from interested to sex is a LONG jump. I've only had that happen once with a girl I felt was sexually attractive enough, and in the end she didn't want to have sex with me and she DID use me for her orgasms. So clearly I have much to learn BUT sitting back and waiting contributed to my 28 year dry streak.

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