Quote: (12-27-2016, 03:43 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ][quote='Shannon' pid='149752' dateline='1482881723']
I think you're beginning to understand a fundamental truth about reality. The fact is, much of what we perceive is perceived in reverse of how it actually is.
I this case, it really isn't you, but the other person's perception of you. The "it" factor is what triggers the desired reaction from the person, which depends entirely on their perception.
This is something I've noticed as well. Does this mean we should actually care what other people think of us? And does DMSI help us reach a wider veriety of people?
You should remember that by trying to adjust yourself to suit others, you skew your "frequency". This causes you to "be in tune" with people you are not really in tune with, and attract them. This takes energy and eventually always fails. To maintain this, it requires more and more effort and energy, which eventually makes you miserable or causes you to become exhausted. In either case, you're not being true to yourself.
"Being what you are" and doing so unapologetically, you automatically and naturally attune yourself to the frequency that attracts those people who are exactly right for you. This is a big part of why it is so important to be honest.
Quote:One of the things I'm noticing on DMSI is that the sniper doesn't seem to work unless I engage in conversation with a woman. Is there something in DMSI to help us engage in conversation more readily?
Believe me, the sniper works otherwise. You're just not very experienced yet. This will change as you gain experience. Self Auto-Training Technology to the rescue!
Quote:But I'm getting more of the “I'm interacting with an alien” behavior
Hahaha i'm laughing at how you put this. I'm not sure what you really mean, but i'm imagining stuff like them asking which planet you're from instead of what country and such.
Do you remember a movie where there was a whole planet of aliens that all looked like a certain celebrity and they come down at the end of the movie and were like "we need a man to help repopulate" and he was like "yep i'm going to their planet bye"
Wish I remembered the name.
(12-27-2016, 04:10 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]Hahaha i'm laughing at how you put this. I'm not sure what you really mean, but i'm imagining stuff like them asking which planet you're from instead of what country and such.
I wish I knew how to describe it better. It's as though they are on some sort of autopilot giving superficial stereotyped predictable responses, like a script to a bad movie. Yet their brains are on overdrive frantically searching for a category to place me in, ways in which to react to me, how to best fit themselves into the interaction, etc. It's as though they are in a perpetual state of attempting to emotionally orient themselves to me and nothing in their data banks seems to fit. So they default to superficial responses. But the responses are disconnected and it's as though 1 second they are looking at me like a celebrity, and the next like I've got dark green skin, and the next like I'm their long lost friend. They're cycling through "how I'm supposed to react to people" and nothing is fitting.
So I guess I might as well be from another planet... hence the alien analogy.
Just as a general comment, I think one of the things I've given up is my fear of "missing an opportunity" or "messing it up with that really hot woman".
I don't know how to best describe it, but I hardly feel a need to win over any woman at this point. I just don't care. I'm wondering if that in and of itself throws off her. Plus her finding me stunning. Plus realizing her powers of beauty may be not be sufficient for attracting me. Plus that she might actually have to do something to appeal to me rather than just doing what seems to work with all the other guys, which she might be very practiced at.
Steve I think you're doing GREAT Man and will continue to do so... NOT ONLY is Shannon and his work light years ahead of the rest and is therefore clearly cutting edge technology,Steve..think about what we are doing here... we are doing things that have never been done before,never in mass like this... there are secret schools of thot and the like and they are very much for real and really effective,but think about it man...we here at this time in history at this moment here at and with IML are doing some outlandish shit that most dont have faith in much less would believe but hey yawl are the ones Utlizing DMSI and when your in the sac getting seriously laid you can laugh or smile to yourself about the one;s who dont believe...laughing all the way to the bank...as the tried and true saying goes... when Ultra Success and/or combo come along that;ll be another version of laughing all the way to the bank or least in my case my secret off shore account debit card:-)
yer doing some courageous stuff Steve thats never been done before and yawl are bold faced doing it incognito I might add..no one knows yer sniping the hell outta of them or healing shit that you've drug around fer years all the while your DMSI'ing your ass off...amazing. Keep at it Beau' and also to wanna make a suggestion, get some adrenal complex from designs for health and NO im NOT selling this stuff, when you're using this much brain capacity ya wanna make shure your adrenals stay healthier,most folks dont even know about thier adrenal glands,and if so only in passing, much less they their adrenals are blown !) I found a really good deal on Ebay months back a twin pack fer 28 bucks,(usally one bottle sells fer 32 bucks plus shipping) and free shipping,in case any one wants to check into it...you can amazon it, google it,ebay it or ioffer it and many more..but I found sooo far the best price and deal was on ebay!) been taking this good stuff daily for years now. very thankful. adrenal complex by designs for health.
Keep up the good healing work Steve you and your wang-dooley will be thankin' yerself for it !!
"wang dooley" is what my Uncle used to call our little peters when we were out on the farm back in the 60's,me and my cousins ricky and bernard,MY Uncles sons's, we were all 7,8,9 and out in the stix on a farm you can piss out side and if we had to pee we;d tell my Uncle and he's say well put our yer wang dooley's and pee boys ( sounded kinda like Festus off of gunsmoke!) yee haw. ahh yes back in the 60's , freedom. Thumbs Up Steve-oh !!
I wanted to post some unusual things that happened.
When I went to do errands a few days ago, I noticed some fairly extreme responses.
The first was one that I've seen before, but this time it was more frequent. The response was that women who talked with me would be VERY helpful, quiet, pleasant, blushing, sweet tone of voice, demure, happy... maybe even trying to impress me with how knowledgeable they were, maybe even eager to please me.
The second type of response I got was deer in the headlights looks, also with lots of nodding. I've seen it before but much more that day.
The third type of response I saw about 70% of the time. It was as though the women I talked with couldn't get rid of me fast enough. They seemed defensive, annoyed, angry, grumpy, and irritable. The most extreme example after being in the same 6 foot area as one employee for about 30 seconds, she walked away very fast through a door that said “employees only”, slammed it, and screamed. It wasn't a “Wow! He reminds me of a celebrity” type of scream. It was a bad scream. I've NEVER seen that before!
That third type of response got me thinking about what happened. Now it is tempting to think that the women got overwhelmed with their sexual feelings and felt a need to distance themselves from me. The woman who screamed behind a closed door, maybe she saw a mouse.
I have another idea. I think the aura brought emotions to the surface they were suppressing by making them feel emotionally raw or sensitive. I don't know how else to describe it or account for such reactions, but it's like they couldn't hold it together. As though the facade they are used to putting up with others just shattered. I can't prove it. I don't know if I'm right. But it was the weirdest day I've ever had interacting with women.
Any thoughts people have, I would appreciate.
(01-05-2017, 04:52 PM)Steven Wrote: [ -> ]That third type of response got me thinking about what happened. Now it is tempting to think that the women got overwhelmed with their sexual feelings and felt a need to distance themselves from me. The woman who screamed behind a closed door, maybe she saw a mouse.
I have another idea. I think the aura brought emotions to the surface they were suppressing by making them feel emotionally raw or sensitive. I don't know how else to describe it or account for such reactions, but it's like they couldn't hold it together. As though the facade they are used to putting up with others just shattered. I can't prove it. I don't know if I'm right. But it was the weirdest day I've ever had interacting with women.
Any thoughts people have, I would appreciate.
I agree, it's tempting to shrug it off, but like you, I'd like to get to the bottom of this kind of response.
I've had it a few times in sales. A woman literally screamed "NO!" at me one time and slammed the door before I was done my pitch I had made a hundred times.
As much as I'd like to believe it was her, I'm of the opinion that negative reactions are clues to how we are coming across.
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SargeMaximus
Get to the bottom of this is a good way to phrase it. I also wonder about this too...
"As much as I'd like to believe it was her, I'm of the opinion that negative reactions are clues to how we are coming across."
Or if it was representative of something else. I'm just not used to women reacting to me like this. Usually I get respect or IOIs. But on bad days I at least get civil politeness.
(01-05-2017, 06:09 PM)Steven Wrote: [ -> ]@SargeMaximus
Get to the bottom of this is a good way to phrase it. I also wonder about this too...
"As much as I'd like to believe it was her, I'm of the opinion that negative reactions are clues to how we are coming across."
Or if it was representative of something else. I'm just not used to women reacting to me like this. Usually I get respect or IOIs. But on bad days I at least get civil politeness.
Interesting. How many different people are you exposed to (i.e. talking to) in a day?
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SargeMaximus
It varies. But on this particular day I just posted about, it was between 20 and 30.
(01-05-2017, 07:00 PM)Steven Wrote: [ -> ]@SargeMaximus
It varies. But on this particular day I just posted about, it was between 20 and 30.
Hmmm ok nevermind then. I thought if you weren't exposed to many people, you might not have come across some who react that way to you yet, but if you normally see a lot of people, and now this, it may be the vibe.
I think in sales I normally saw 10-25 people a night depending. I'd come across these kinds of people on days where I felt I was growing in AM or DMSI. Prolly the vibe.
(01-05-2017, 04:52 PM)Steven Wrote: [ -> ]I wanted to post some unusual things that happened.
When I went to do errands a few days ago, I noticed some fairly extreme responses.
The first was one that I've seen before, but this time it was more frequent. The response was that women who talked with me would be VERY helpful, quiet, pleasant, blushing, sweet tone of voice, demure, happy... maybe even trying to impress me with how knowledgeable they were, maybe even eager to please me.
The second type of response I got was deer in the headlights looks, also with lots of nodding. I've seen it before but much more that day.
The third type of response I saw about 70% of the time. It was as though the women I talked with couldn't get rid of me fast enough. They seemed defensive, annoyed, angry, grumpy, and irritable. The most extreme example after being in the same 6 foot area as one employee for about 30 seconds, she walked away very fast through a door that said “employees only”, slammed it, and screamed. It wasn't a “Wow! He reminds me of a celebrity” type of scream. It was a bad scream. I've NEVER seen that before!
That third type of response got me thinking about what happened. Now it is tempting to think that the women got overwhelmed with their sexual feelings and felt a need to distance themselves from me. The woman who screamed behind a closed door, maybe she saw a mouse.
I have another idea. I think the aura brought emotions to the surface they were suppressing by making them feel emotionally raw or sensitive. I don't know how else to describe it or account for such reactions, but it's like they couldn't hold it together. As though the facade they are used to putting up with others just shattered. I can't prove it. I don't know if I'm right. But it was the weirdest day I've ever had interacting with women.
Any thoughts people have, I would appreciate.
Most likely this is a combination of:
1. You're not done becoming what you are becoming, and the result is an external manifestation of that "turbulence" that is being part of one thing, and part of another.
2. They may be being shocked, awed and overwhelmed with their desires and urges, and if so, probably reacting to that with fear and anger.
(01-05-2017, 07:40 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Most likely this is a combination of:
1. You're not done becoming what you are becoming, and the result is an external manifestation of that "turbulence" that is being part of one thing, and part of another.
2. They may be being shocked, awed and overwhelmed with their desires and urges, and if so, probably reacting to that with fear and anger.
Shannon,
Interesting you should say that comment about turbulence because today felt very unreal to me and so did that "weird day with women".
Now as for point 2, could you please elaborate on that? I want to understand it but I just don't right now.
Shannon,
I wanted to give you an update. I've not been following any of the journals so I'm out of touch with that others are experiencing.
I'm getting more of a variety of responses with 3.0.1-A than I have with any other DMSI version or even before DMSI. I'm used to getting at least civil politeness up to girlfanning. Usually I get something in between such as mild to moderate IOIs.
With 3.0.1-A this is how it's changed.
1) There is a percentage of women who are VERY polite and seem to be eager to please or impress me. Small percentage but more consistent than I remember before 3.0.1-A. I'd guess about 5%.
2) There seem to be about 40% of the women that are indifferent. This is new.
3) There's about 20% of the women that seem negatively emotionally impacted when around me. Some actually seem to despise me. They don't seem to want to talk with me. They look at me with disgust or contempt. Again this is new.
4) The rest of the women are just polite and neutral. Again, usual for me.
5) I don't think there has been any girlfanning this week, which is unusual. I usually see this once a week at least.
As for the men, I don't really notice anything that's different. I'm used to men treating me with kindness and respect. That's been constant throughout the v3.0.1-A so far.
Any comments people want to volunteer, I look forward to.