Usually i get pretty pissed off in those situations and i would get physical, but not sure why i didnt feel much anger in all of the situtation htat night. I think dmsi has something that dissipates anger. So i wasnt angry enough to act on my impulse in the moment. But stupid thing is afterwards i feel more pissed about the situation then when i was in the situation.
Good advices all over, but i have to hold myself back because i have injuries like shoulder surgery. Not very wise for me to go 1v5 , plus they were all twice my size and pretty drunk, meh not worth it .
How to not end up in jail or with a criminal record;
1. The human rights clearly states that self defense is for all.
2. When somebody attacks you, they've lost all their rights. That's what you tell the cops.
3. Never run away from the police, always stay calm when dealing with them and tell it like it is
4. Have a regular spot, I know all the bouncers and bartenders at the places I go to, they're all on my side.
5. The law will determine the degree of violence, try to not use more than what's necessary, but if you have to, fuck his ass up real good.
Real life situations I've been in,
Brawl with a guy inside my regular bar. He pushed me without any reason, so I went up to him and headbutted him pretty hard. Then like 4 guys were standing over me and I started punching everybody that was in my way. My bouncer friend escorted me out, the cops came, I explained it and they let me go. The others went to the drunk can.
Some random dude jumped into my car and said "go, go, go". I told him to get the fuck out of my car, but then he threathened to punch me. Big guy, definitely a thug and coked up. What he didn't know is that I had a steel pipe next to me. I smashed him across the face, stepped outside of the car, pulled him out, smashed him again, pulled out my blade and put it up to his neck. I told him if I ever saw him again, he's dead. Took his wallet and said, "don't sleep too deep from now on"
Junkie approached me at the central station with aggression so I just socked him right there. The train security took it from there and let me go, told me "well done".
Got into a fight with 3 arabs outside of a restaurant, a friend was with me. They didn't know we're not easy target, I pulled out my baton and started swinging. Later the cops came, I threw that baton as far away as I could. They were searching me, but because the arabs had records, they put more trust into me.
A lithuanian girl had the hots for me in a club. But she was with like 8 lithuanian guys. One of them tried to threathen me so I took my beer bottle and smashed it into his glass so his drink spilled all over him. He left, but later the came back. He left again, but as he was leaving I grabbed him from the back and threw him into the bar, he passed out. The cops came, the bouncer took my side and the cops were kind enough to give me a ride home. I asked them about how to become a detective and stuff.
Arab guy tried to mug me with a screw driver on a train. At first I laughed at him, but he was serious. I fucked him up right there and sat on until the next stop. The train people had called the cops and I pressed charges.
A friend of mine in college started a fight, got beat up pretty bad. I hadn't seen anything, just saw him all bloody sitting on the ground and I rushed over and started pounding on this one guy. My friend went to jail, I got cuffed that day, but the cops thought it was admirable that I was defending my friend so they let me go.
That's some of it. With all said, I'd rather go to jail for a short amount of time than get hurt by some losers. I've had friends and family members barely escaping very dangerous situations.
If you must take revenge on somebody, be patient. Yeah, I got a list. One has a 18 year old daughter, so that's a possibility. I waited for years to get this guy who picked on me throughout all of junior high. I saw him in the streets on day as he was drunk walking and singing to hinmself so I followed. In a dark alley I grabbed him and punched him so he went to the ground. Then I broke a few of his fingers one by one. I know what you're thinking, but he deserved, and more. If I see him today, I'm not responsible for what I'm gonna do to him. I also threw a cynderblock into the front window of his car one day. I also pretended to be friends with a guy who tried to ruin my best friends life. Let's just say his life will never be the same again.
Most people aren't psychos, they're not even sligthly dangerous. If they were both smart and dangerous and really wanted to get you, you wouldn't even see it coming and there would be no traces. Keep your emotions under control and read Sun Tzu at least 10 times so it's in your system.
(10-30-2016, 03:15 AM)FluffyBunny Wrote: [ -> ]- girls were ruthless when rejecting me... BY FAR the most ruthless i have ever seen. ( like i would open a group and ... somehow most of the chicks woulda hate me and one or two more receptive. ) ( its really fricken hard to get a girl from a group when most of the group hates you..... Any explanation for this?)
My immediate guesses are either:
1) too much sexuality too fast for them so they get angry, very likely the case if they're younger
2) they think you're too good and are rejecting you before you get a chance to reject them. Less attractive women do this frequently, if you go after hotter chicks and they respond well then this is the cause
Did day game today approached about 10 + girls. i always go for the hottest ones i can find cause i have no AA.
Personally i think there needs to be a tweak on the sub. It seems to be on two extreme ends, either too much instant on or just straight out repelling.
I opened a solid 8.5 -9 girl and she went on full flushing instantly and , when i introduce myself with my hand she like flinched backwards.... in shock or something. This is something ive never seen before.. because you would think a girl that hot would be pretty dam accustom to a approach. I have girls straight out flush before many times, but never like that in shock or everything happening that fast.
the ones that are cold doesnt really recover to warm... (which is outa the norm too , usually the cold ones when i talk to them enoguh they become warm)
It feels like there's isnt a inbetween at the moment. Eitehr its too strong for the girls or its just straight out repelling..
I did adjust my ways, I was pretty dam ass friendly and free, some girls were thanking me some telling me ive made their day and they go onto their speech of why lol. whlie they tell me they have a bf.
Im open to any tips on adjusting my style, base on how the women is responding.
Glad to see another daygamer on here.
Will be following this for sure.
(10-31-2016, 03:33 PM)bits Wrote: [ -> ] (10-30-2016, 03:15 AM)FluffyBunny Wrote: [ -> ]- girls were ruthless when rejecting me... BY FAR the most ruthless i have ever seen. ( like i would open a group and ... somehow most of the chicks woulda hate me and one or two more receptive. ) ( its really fricken hard to get a girl from a group when most of the group hates you..... Any explanation for this?)
My immediate guesses are either:
1) too much sexuality too fast for them so they get angry, very likely the case if they're younger
2) they think you're too good and are rejecting you before you get a chance to reject them. Less attractive women do this frequently, if you go after hotter chicks and they respond well then this is the cause
They might also not want to be interrupted.
(11-03-2016, 09:01 PM)FluffyBunny Wrote: [ -> ]Did day game today approached about 10 + girls. i always go for the hottest ones i can find cause i have no AA.
Personally i think there needs to be a tweak on the sub. It seems to be on two extreme ends, either too much instant on or just straight out repelling.
I opened a solid 8.5 -9 girl and she went on full flushing instantly and , when i introduce myself with my hand she like flinched backwards.... in shock or something. This is something ive never seen before.. because you would think a girl that hot would be pretty dam accustom to a approach. I have girls straight out flush before many times, but never like that in shock or everything happening that fast.
the ones that are cold doesnt really recover to warm... (which is outa the norm too , usually the cold ones when i talk to them enoguh they become warm)
It feels like there's isnt a inbetween at the moment. Eitehr its too strong for the girls or its just straight out repelling..
I did adjust my ways, I was pretty dam ass friendly and free, some girls were thanking me some telling me ive made their day and they go onto their speech of why lol. whlie they tell me they have a bf.
Im open to any tips on adjusting my style, base on how the women is responding.
Are you noticing a difference in responses based on their age?
If they're saying thank you and that you made their day, you're probably too friendly.
I'd be careful admitting assault like that on a forum. And seriously especially after the second post I even more strongly stick to my original point that it's some of the worst advice you can give people and it's going to get someone seriously hurt or in jail.
Part of what Shannon said I agree with, having a certain personality type maybe, and in certain instances. But most people if you give them that advice they are going to have serious issues if they follow it.
The whole fronting hard thing, yes it can work and i've done it. But in the back of your mind you have to be prepared for it not to. Mostly it works on people who aren't committed to committing violence on you, if they are then it doesn't really matter as they will anyway.
And having the default reaction of extreme aggression and violence isn't warranted in all situations. I went through that myself then realized you need flexibility in how to approach things.
And seriously, someone calls you a faggot and you beat the shit out of him... that is a massive overreaction to such a little situation.
(11-06-2016, 12:06 AM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]I'd be careful admitting assault like that on a forum. And seriously especially after the second post I even more strongly stick to my original point that it's some of the worst advice you can give people and it's going to get someone seriously hurt or in jail.
Part of what Shannon said I agree with, having a certain personality type maybe, and in certain instances. But most people if you give them that advice they are going to have serious issues if they follow it.
The whole fronting hard thing, yes it can work and i've done it. But in the back of your mind you have to be prepared for it not to. Mostly it works on people who aren't committed to committing violence on you, if they are then it doesn't really matter as they will anyway.
And having the default reaction of extreme aggression and violence isn't warranted in all situations. I went through that myself then realized you need flexibility in how to approach things.
And seriously, someone calls you a faggot and you beat the shit out of him... that is a massive overreaction to such a little situation.
Yah i agree with you, i usually just be pretty flexible in these situations. Most of the time when i just ignore it and dont feed the situation at all they just stop doing whatever they were trying to do completely.
Night out:
Anyways i went out last night , didnt really have an issue with any men. seem to be back to normal. Night was decent, had 2 makeouts, 1HJ, opened like roughly 10 girls.
What i find is that i doubt any girl is just gonna walk up and throw themselves at you even if they wanted to. For those guys wishing for this ... best ive gotten in the night is when u look at a girl sexy and she returns the look and its on for u to walk up to her...
Even this... u gotta first gotta be that guy because randomly looking sexy at a girl wont get u shit back either...
so i tried day game again today to see the difference between night.
Seems like in daytime and casual settings it is IN GENERAL a little too strong for younger girls..
Im early 20s myself so i go for 18-25 chicks.
usually i go to some college . so girls there are usually 18-21. and seems to me DMSI is like using a nuke trying to kill rat. especially on young girls. on the other hand i was at a bank today and this older pretty women just seems to like flirting with me. she just keeps on flirting as i wait for my cheque lol. she seem to be in her mid 30s or more.
on the other hand in night time, seems like it has a little bit of the same issue but more girls are in their ON mode at night. I find it at night time its either on with the girl or its not at all. not much of any inbetween.
Do you tone down the intensity of your approach when you daygame?
(11-08-2016, 09:33 PM)wolverine_i_am Wrote: [ -> ]Do you tone down the intensity of your approach when you daygame?
Yes, very casual, toned down. Usually if i do this it would open just friendly. But in my case today seems like its too much for some girls and they hurry off.
some would ask me why am i talking to them. when i already overtly tell them why.
(11-08-2016, 09:28 PM)FluffyBunny Wrote: [ -> ]so i tried day game again today to see the difference between night.
Seems like in daytime and casual settings it is IN GENERAL a little too strong for younger girls..
Im early 20s myself so i go for 18-25 chicks.
usually i go to some college . so girls there are usually 18-21. and seems to me DMSI is like using a nuke trying to kill rat. especially on young girls. on the other hand i was at a bank today and this older pretty women just seems to like flirting with me. she just keeps on flirting as i wait for my cheque lol. she seem to be in her mid 30s or more.
on the other hand in night time, seems like it has a little bit of the same issue but more girls are in their ON mode at night. I find it at night time its either on with the girl or its not at all. not much of any inbetween.
At least I'm not alone reporting more attraction from older than young women. I had like 3 obvious hits from younger women and I didn't count the cougar one but at least 15. (edited I meant not alone)