Subliminal Talk

(06-14-2016, 02:03 AM)kenpachi Wrote: [ -> ]This is what I was trying to explain when I said I had a "lovey" vibe rather than a sexual vibe with a girl I only just met. We were eye gazing and cuddly like it was post-sex... the sexual tension didn't seem to be there.

I think this is a good thing, though, as it addresses the ASD objections she might have.

For the sake of science (even if you have no intention of escalating) next time you find yourself in that situation, just make a statement along the lines of, "Let's go somewhere with more privacy". If her ASD is still operating, she would instantly snap out of it. However, if this sub has done what it is intended for, then she would agree.

RE: 'Tension'
Think back to all the 'first times' with the partners in your lives. Nothing says that 'tension' is a prerequisite. Most times, it just sort of happens, after the initial days (or weeks) of blue balls/tension. Lots of tension, usually means just lots of LMR to overcome due to ASD.

(06-14-2016, 02:03 AM)kenpachi Wrote: [ -> ]This is what I was trying to explain when I said I had a "lovey" vibe rather than a sexual vibe with a girl I only just met. We were eye gazing and cuddly like it was post-sex... the sexual tension didn't seem to be there.

I did see the post where Shannon said perhaps we're overrunning it. I'm going to go down to 8 hours (have been doing between 12-14 so far). I'll just play it while I sleep from now on and see if that helps.

im only on 5g and don't run more then 12hrs

(06-14-2016, 02:34 AM)Lowe Wrote: [ -> ]I agree as well, so far. I met an old friend 2 days ago and today I talked to this girl whose graduation "hat" had the same school name that I went to, so I approached her. The convos were very pleasant but no sexual tension. Somehow it felt really "wrong" in that moment to ask for her number.

I was not 100% interested and to be fair I have to do better with creating tensions, with or without AOSI, anyway. This is my non-definitive observation of AOSI.

I feel the energy (in terms of hot breath and such) are most visible when listening less. I listened only 6 loops last night.

It is entirely possible that the sexual tension is being felt by HER, not you, and that she is not making that fact outwardly visible. I see that a lot.

(06-14-2016, 04:19 AM)"Q Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-14-2016, 02:03 AM)kenpachi Wrote: [ -> ]This is what I was trying to explain when I said I had a "lovey" vibe rather than a sexual vibe with a girl I only just met. We were eye gazing and cuddly like it was post-sex... the sexual tension didn't seem to be there.

I think this is a good thing, though, as it addresses the ASD objections she might have.

For the sake of science (even if you have no intention of escalating) next time you find yourself in that situation, just make a statement along the lines of, "Let's go somewhere with more privacy". If her ASD is still operating, she would instantly snap out of it. However, if this sub has done what it is intended for, then she would agree.

RE: 'Tension'
Think back to all the 'first times' with the partners in your lives. Nothing says that 'tension' is a prerequisite. Most times, it just sort of happens, after the initial days (or weeks) of blue balls/tension. Lots of tension, usually means just lots of LMR to overcome due to ASD.

For the sake of science, let's remember that black and white thinking inevitably leads to being either 100% correct or 100% wrong. You're saying there are only two possibilities here, but there are not. Far from it; I could come up all day with scenarios that explain it alternately.

(06-14-2016, 12:41 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-14-2016, 02:34 AM)Lowe Wrote: [ -> ]I agree as well, so far. I met an old friend 2 days ago and today I talked to this girl whose graduation "hat" had the same school name that I went to, so I approached her. The convos were very pleasant but no sexual tension. Somehow it felt really "wrong" in that moment to ask for her number.

I was not 100% interested and to be fair I have to do better with creating tensions, with or without AOSI, anyway. This is my non-definitive observation of AOSI.

I feel the energy (in terms of hot breath and such) are most visible when listening less. I listened only 6 loops last night.

It is entirely possible that the sexual tension is being felt by HER, not you, and that she is not making that fact outwardly visible. I see that a lot.

I was kind of thinking, I feel the way I imagine a teenage girl feels when she's waiting for a guy to rush her off her feet, one of my close female friends just turned 22 and is crushing hard on a guy from her campus, the way I feel around women feels kind of like what she describes her feelings as when she isn't around him and doesn't have to keep her A-game on, so I'm wondering if you are right and they could be feeling sexual tension but I'm oblivious because I've gone mushy, is this like a proper role reversal lol, like am I essentially a hot babe around some nervous guys, I don't feel any urge or desire to take action and I can't say for sure if I would actually act upon a request because I feel indifferent at the time. This sub is nailing confidence 100% I haven't felt nervous at all, I'm in the presence of a hot babe and she may say something flirty and my only reacion is a little blush (kind of like a hot babe when she gets an awkward or even honest compliment) but it doesn't shake me at all, in the past I tended to get nervous quite often.

So let's roll with the she could be feeling the sexual tension theory for now and hiding it, why can I not act, I'm on autopilot for other stuff instead, I'm essentially just waiting for a princess to come and sweep my off my feet lol. That sounds so weird on so many levels but these situations are just so difficult to describe.

I'm not saying I'm crushing on them, because after the interaction ends I just revert back to normal, I only used crushing because the way I feel at the time is similar to how my friend described her little crush today. One day I will use the better writing subs and my comments will make sense.

Waiting for the minititan has lost the plot and now thinks he's a hot babe comment*

You can act. But the program goal is to get them to. To that end, you are very likely focusing all of your energy and awareness to achieve it.

Went to a coffee shop this morning for some takeout coffee. The woman who runs the place is lovely, she's in her 60s and has done a lot for the community and well respected. She was incredibly nice to me today, this is the abridged convo.

Her: long day ahead son
Me: yea it's gonna be one of those tough ones
Her: you got a girl you can go home too
Me: unfortunately not, not been in the right place at the right time recently
Her: aww son, if I wasn't 40 years older than you I'd be chasing you, I'd be trying to make sure I intercepted you at that right place.
Me: haha really! I don't think I've ever been chased
Her: oh you've been chased before, do you think the girls from your past have been chance encounters, they probably spent days planning how to get you to notice them
Me: is that so huh? Women go that far?
Her: believe me we do, you see you might just need someone to talk to, I hope you find your girl soon
Me: thanks I guess, do you know anyone
Her: wrong time son, my granddaughter is out of town she'd love to chat away with a lad like you, I can't help you out on that one, but take the coffee, it's on the house, you look like you need a pick me up.
Me: thank you that's so kind, I hope you have a great day
Her: you too son, remember to smile and they will come.


So I had an encounter with a shaman/elder/wise one lol.

(06-15-2016, 12:27 AM)Minititan Wrote: [ -> ]Went to a coffee shop this morning for some takeout coffee. The woman who runs the place is lovely, she's in her 60s and has done a lot for the community and well respected. She was incredibly nice to me today, this is the abridged convo.

Her: long day ahead son
Me: yea it's gonna be one of those tough ones
Her: you got a girl you can go home too
Me: unfortunately not, not been in the right place at the right time recently
Her: aww son, if I wasn't 40 years older than you I'd be chasing you, I'd be trying to make sure I intercepted you at that right place.
Me: haha really! I don't think I've ever been chased
Her: oh you've been chased before, do you think the girls from your past have been chance encounters, they probably spent days planning how to get you to notice them
Me: is that so huh? Women go that far?
Her: believe me we do, you see you might just need someone to talk to, I hope you find your girl soon
Me: thanks I guess, do you know anyone
Her: wrong time son, my granddaughter is out of town she'd love to chat away with a lad like you, I can't help you out on that one, but take the coffee, it's on the house, you look like you need a pick me up.
Me: thank you that's so kind, I hope you have a great day
Her: you too son, remember to smile and they will come.


So I had an encounter with a shaman/elder/wise one lol.

Lol. And when you were heading out, you turned around to look at her again but she had vanished, am I right? Lol. Crazy story man.

(06-15-2016, 09:10 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-15-2016, 12:27 AM)Minititan Wrote: [ -> ]Went to a coffee shop this morning for some takeout coffee. The woman who runs the place is lovely, she's in her 60s and has done a lot for the community and well respected. She was incredibly nice to me today, this is the abridged convo.

Her: long day ahead son
Me: yea it's gonna be one of those tough ones
Her: you got a girl you can go home too
Me: unfortunately not, not been in the right place at the right time recently
Her: aww son, if I wasn't 40 years older than you I'd be chasing you, I'd be trying to make sure I intercepted you at that right place.
Me: haha really! I don't think I've ever been chased
Her: oh you've been chased before, do you think the girls from your past have been chance encounters, they probably spent days planning how to get you to notice them
Me: is that so huh? Women go that far?
Her: believe me we do, you see you might just need someone to talk to, I hope you find your girl soon
Me: thanks I guess, do you know anyone
Her: wrong time son, my granddaughter is out of town she'd love to chat away with a lad like you, I can't help you out on that one, but take the coffee, it's on the house, you look like you need a pick me up.
Me: thank you that's so kind, I hope you have a great day
Her: you too son, remember to smile and they will come.


So I had an encounter with a shaman/elder/wise one lol.

Lol. And when you were heading out, you turned around to look at her again but she had vanished, am I right? Lol. Crazy story man.

Lol yea, the townspeople do not ever recall the coffee shop being where it was on that morning.

Haha I mentioned it mostly because this is the first non-relative female whom I've been in the presence off in the last 5 days that hasn't started sweating, complaining about the heat, or left my vicinity as soon as they possibly could.

I still find it strange how younger girls are coping with this better. It doesn't make any sense to me. Surely it should be the older ones that can hide it better and cope easier. Pensioners need not worry about overpriced heating this coming winter just come and stand in a 20 meter radius of me.

Have you ever heard of menopause?

(06-15-2016, 12:39 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Have you ever heard of menopause?

Are you implying that this sub triggers menopause, because I'm talking about 90% of older women are reacting the same, and over the last week that's at least 35-40 older women I've had to help while working. Menopause would be one hell of a coincidence if suddenly menopausal women all come to me. Prior to AOSI this never happened before.

I'm trying to crack this code as it was earlier suggested I may be attracted to older women but a lot of these are the kind of women I wouldn't want to go with even if it was a bet or I got paid. Unless it's some kind of filtering the sub is doing and the sub is burning women I don't find attractive to get them out of my personal space, since I haven't witnessed it happen to anyone I would find attractive at all.

One women had to leave the store and upon re-entering requested to be seen by a colleague instead of me, because in her words "i don't want to be around that gentleman, he hasn't done anything wrong I just would prefer to be seen by someone else"

(06-15-2016, 12:49 PM)Minititan Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-15-2016, 12:39 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Have you ever heard of menopause?

Are you implying that this sub triggers menopause, because I'm talking about 90% of older women are reacting the same, and over the last week that's at least 35-40 older women I've had to help while working. Menopause would be one hell of a coincidence if suddenly menopausal women all come to me. Prior to AOSI this never happened before.

I'm trying to crack this code as it was earlier suggested I may be attracted to older women but a lot of these are the kind of women I wouldn't want to go with even if it was a bet or I got paid. Unless it's some kind of filtering the sub is doing and the sub is burning women I don't find attractive to get them out of my personal space, since I haven't witnessed it happen to anyone I would find attractive at all.

One women had to leave the store and upon re-entering requested to be seen by a colleague instead of me, because in her words "i don't want to be around that gentleman, he hasn't done anything wrong I just would prefer to be seen by someone else"

I'm not saying it triggers menopause, I'm saying that it may be that these women experience something similar in sensation to a heat flash from menopause, which causes them an overt reaction they think they know the cause of, which may be nonsexual, and which may therefore make the reaction more overt.

Or, maybe they are reacting partly because they are from a generation when overtly sexual interactions were not acceptable... and you're giving a very obviously sexual "CFM" vibe.

damn I kind of like the defense from those you don't find sexually attractive theory, burning them from the inside, an aura of sexual irrissstibility equipped with nuclear powered defenses to stop hostiles from entering home base.

Anyways on a side note, encounter with the Mage was followed by a surprising series of events.

Firstly we had an extremely upset customer in with his wife today. I returned from my break and smiled at them whilst they were grilling my colleague (almost shouting in his face). Within seconds of me being present the wife became extremely apologetic for her husbands behavior and the pair quickly left without their complaint being resolved.
So my female colleague who is 8/10 and an awesome laugh, she has noticed the effects I've been having on some older women and now is always slyly peering from somewhere to see what happens, she now Mockingly calls me a spell caster because of my weird "power" on older women, she doesn't know it's a sub.
She turns to me seconds after they leave demanding to know how I do it, and I'm like "do what?" And she literally says "fuck up their shit", so according to her the wife was the one complaining and being overly rude to my colleague and her husband basically was the politer side and a lot quieter but my entry and brief smile somehow knocked her off guard and she indirectly apologized to me for the way her "husband" had been speaking to my colleague. So I don't know to what extent this change happened but apparently she was one of the worst people within the public to serve, on the verge of screaming and name calling and blaming my colleague personally for absolutely everything. So somehow I'm a hero? I don't feel like a hero, not all heroes wear capes though, some wear a regular uniform and a radioactive aura.

Hmm, I'm wondering if your aura made her feel a little embarrassed? It's like if you're acting wild/immature and then all of a sudden you see an attractive woman you kind of straighten up so she won't think bad of you. Maybe this is the case?

How has your 8/10 female colleague reacted to your aura since using AOSI (other than her commenting on the older women)?