Subliminal Talk

(12-11-2011, 07:00 AM)benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]

Quote:Ben what you say is the old credit catch 22. to get credit you need credit. I could always drop my standards and go out with the chicks with ugly personalities who don't bring anything to the interaction. just to get laid...

on a side note i did have one girl i know randomly write me and ask me to "make her horny"

Hmm, i'd personally sleep with them if your attracted to them, I get that you want someone you can spend more time with, but getting that experience is good. If they know it's nothing more than physical and agree, then it's a good way to get experience.

As for the girl writing you.. that is a great opportunity, for a girl to contact you saying that she is very interested.

Sounds like your talking online, what I did was practice describing what I wanted to do to girls and leading them through it by describing it. Just write some yourself first, and as I said before, feeling and imagining it inside and communicating what that is to them is the important part. Start subtle, being close to her.. kissing her on the neck.. and slowly build on it.

And try that online with some girls you don't know, like in chatrooms or whatever to see what reaction you get. I have had several say "wow I wish you lived near me, you are the perfect guy" etc..

I just wish I was able to do it that well face to face with girls i've just met. I've used it a few times from dating sites, describing stuff and it's gone quite well when I ended up meeting them.

-Ben

she wrote me in a text and i do know her in person. thanks for the tips Ben ill put them to use.

shannon what would you suggest i listen to next to help me overcome my mind of thinking i am "using"/hurting women and then not giving them a chance because of this. i plan on doing alpha 2011 or 2012 when you update it.

im thinking i should have listened to sex magnet at 64 days per stage vs 32 like the instructions said we could do.

(12-14-2011, 05:41 PM)woceyes Wrote: [ -> ]shannon what would you suggest i listen to next to help me overcome my mind of thinking i am "using"/hurting women and then not giving them a chance because of this. i plan on doing alpha 2011 or 2012 when you update it.

im thinking i should have listened to sex magnet at 64 days per stage vs 32 like the instructions said we could do.

I think we should add something to SM2012 to combat that fear of hurting women by being sexual with them, that's a good one. Just remind me when I'm building it.

Tony, man. You'll get there. It took me 2 years after starting self-improvement until I got to a point I was having sex with great women. And most of that started once I found these subliminals. First, and foremost, stop worrying about that. You've come along way and I know after another run-through, you'll be experiencing all that shit. But I think one of your biggest things is to take the opportunities that come your way. As soon as I started jumping in, I got what I wanted. You do remind me of the position I was in right when I started Alpha and SM this year. 2012 is your year! Keep going!

Ryan

well i finished sm with a few extra days of stage 6 added in and i guess either i was so low in sexual confidence or possibly i just didn't want to have sex or maybe something else entierly, but the program in terms of women not leaving me alone that never happened. In terms of communication and flirting with women i seem to be good at it but like i said in an earlier post i just don't seem to care enough to push forward. Maybe its my slacker tendencies coming through since i am a major slacker in general.

I have learned a lot and pushed my self a lot. Getting in the car accident and hurting my back didn't help my moral for a good chunk of it either. Not letting women manipulate me was a great aspect of sm. Reading the manipulated man made me really angry over how bad the manipulation was with some women. I may not have had as much success as other users of sm but its a start.

I am currently using everything is possible by it self and may post in my regular journal later.

Everyone has different starting points and needs, and will have different levels of achievement accordingly. It should not surprise you that it may take more than one run-through. The success you experienced may have been more foundation building than experiential externally. You'll get there.

Congratulations on finishing Woyceyes!
I too believe whatever your goals, you will reach
them in good time.
Also, I for one would like to see you post regularly about everything is possible in
your journal.

thank you guys and i have grown a lot on this stage and my brain has finally quieted down there is no doubt in my head. I hear nothing, the peace feels great. I ultimately wanted that even on alpha male. Till the next run of sm ill keep growing as a person and then Shannon will hear from me. "To many women wanting to go out with me, how do i handle this"

Shannon I think you may be right about trust issues. I do know when i ran sm i felt like i finally had all the power and could enact my "revenge" on how i was treated by women through out my life, if that makes sense. Like it was reversed and i was like the hot blond who treats "men" (women) like sh**.

It may have all gone to my head to finally feel like i wasn't beneath women. After having my mom tell me all my life that men are pigs and whip it out just to have sex with anything. also that its always the mans fault and she always implied men are pretty much beneath women. I think a mix of both just enraged me to not want to accept what the program was telling me. I was angry from the suppression and brainwashing i received growing up. plus the whole being picky thing as well.

Seems like everything is possible is mellowing me out a bit for me to realize this. I think when i do sm 2.0 ill have a much better experience just because the honeymoon period is over. whats your thoughts shannon?

(01-26-2012, 06:54 PM)woceyes Wrote: [ -> ]Shannon I think you may be right about trust issues. I do know when i ran sm i felt like i finally had all the power and could enact my "revenge" on how i was treated by women through out my life, if that makes sense. Like it was reversed and i was like the hot blond who treats "men" (women) like sh**.

It may have all gone to my head to finally feel like i wasn't beneath women. After having my mom tell me all my life that men are pigs and whip it out just to have sex with anything. also that its always the mans fault and she always implied men are pretty much beneath women. I think a mix of both just enraged me to not want to accept what the program was telling me. I was angry from the suppression and brainwashing i received growing up. plus the whole being picky thing as well.

Seems like everything is possible is mellowing me out a bit for me to realize this. I think when i do sm 2.0 ill have a much better experience just because the honeymoon period is over. whats your thoughts shannon?

My thoughts are that you are ab-reacting to one specific aspect of the program. And that is the part that makes you change your point of view from whatever it used to be, to "I like and love women in general, and I enjoy spending time with them."

Women love to be around men who enjoy their company, for obvious reasons. So, you'll need to get rid of this negative programming... and that should have happened with the program, but you apparently resisted it. Must really be upset with mom.

besides Alpha male and possible trust sub what other subs would you suggest?

(01-27-2012, 08:37 AM)woceyes Wrote: [ -> ]besides Alpha male and possible trust sub what other subs would you suggest?

Disconnect from Negativity Within, and perhaps I need to make a sub for men to get rid of negative programming towards women, and vice versa for women. In fact I think that is an excellent idea...

(01-27-2012, 09:06 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]

(01-27-2012, 08:37 AM)woceyes Wrote: [ -> ]besides Alpha male and possible trust sub what other subs would you suggest?

Disconnect from Negativity Within, and perhaps I need to make a sub for men to get rid of negative programming towards women, and vice versa for women. In fact I think that is an excellent idea...

Agreed.

(01-27-2012, 09:06 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]

(01-27-2012, 08:37 AM)woceyes Wrote: [ -> ]besides Alpha male and possible trust sub what other subs would you suggest?

Disconnect from Negativity Within, and perhaps I need to make a sub for men to get rid of negative programming towards women, and vice versa for women. In fact I think that is an excellent idea...

hmm ok ill buy that one can i use it with everything is possible?

that sounds like a great idea for a sub.