(06-29-2015, 03:41 AM)Kaki Wrote: [ -> ] (06-28-2015, 11:21 PM)ffaux Wrote: [ -> ]http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-4631.html
This sounds perfect, thanks for the reference. However I don't see this sub in the catalogue list (Approach anxiety for women)
Oh. It must be a 3G subliminal. If you ask Ben, Shannon might OK it for you to buy it even though it's been taken down from the store.
I have it, but it would be a Serious Breach of Copyright if I sent you a copy. I can tell you it works very well.
'Develop a Sense of Humor' is also a good one - I am amazed at what funny things come out of my mouth when I joke with strangers. The subconscious mind can invent amazing word patterns (if given permission).
I'll be upgrading the 3G titles shortly, actually working on one right now. The next version of Overcoming Approach Anxiety will probably be unisex.
If you were seriously attracting a lot of unwanted male interest in your younger years, then it helsp to practice becoming conscious of your communications through verbal, facial, tonal, body language and attitude channels. I have noted that when a woman is interested in or likes me, she will always respond very differently to when she is indifferent, and equally different when she dislikes me. I have done a lot of social experiments on this, and what I find is that when a woman likes me, she:
1. SMILES AT ME! And usually repeats this action a lot. AND, she doesn't fake it, she is genuinely smiling. You can see the difference because whenever you look at someone's face, they will "speak" with their mouth and their eyes. When the mouth is smiling, but the eyes are not, the smile is false. People know this and react, even if it's subconsciously.
2. She pays significantly more attention to me.
3. She does things she doesn't have to do for me, like offering me a to-go soda or whatever.
4. She will sometimes touch me on the shoulder or on the arm. If she's more familiar with me or more comfortable or forward, she might massage my shoulders or hands.
5. She will communicate what she wants from or with me by what her positioning is. If she is interested in sex specifically, she'll assume publically excusable versions of sexual positions. If she's interested in a relationship, romance, or making out, she'll usually lean in close, stare into my eyes while we talk or stare at my lips and sometimes lick her own while doing so.
6. She will often unconsciously touch herself in ways she wants me to touch her, such as caressing her arm, neck, shoulder or face.
7. She will mirror my movements or body language. If we are walking together, I find it common that an interested woman will be walking in lock step with me.
8. She keeps her body language open. This means she never crosses her arms over her chest, she never turns her back to me unnecessarily, and she never avoids me or looking at/talking to me. She also tries to keep her torso aimed at me, unless she's too busy signalling she wants sex by keeping her butt aimed at me instead.
Her being friendly, likeable, positive, warm, inviting, attentive, upbeat, considerate and helpful are signals that a woman likes you. Try consciously signalling these things next time you encounter a man you'd like to attract. Make it easy for him to break the ice, and he probably will.
(08-12-2015, 06:08 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]I have done a lot of social experiments on this, and what I find is that when a woman likes me, she: [ ... ]
Not to hijack, but my one-itis did all of these to me and when I called her out on her signals she insisted she wasn't interested in me. What should I have done from then, and what would allow women to be more direct about their feelings instead of pretending for the sake of plausible deniability?
Brother 'Benjamin I like what I am hearing. What stage was it when you had women attracted to you in AMS.
When do you plan to deploy Sex Magnet ?
(06-27-2015, 09:13 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]Are you putting yourself in situations where you can be approached and such Kaki?
If you were a guy i'd be saying to go out and do approaches, but I can't say the other way around if that would benefit you or not. It's like with AM6, women aren't knocking down my door but now that i'm doing approaches i'm getting much better and more positive reactions than in the past because of my increasing confidence. But it's not like they are magically coming to me. I'd say put yourself in more situations where you can be approached, in places that suit you if you can.
For example if you hate clubs there's not much point putting yourself out there in clubs.. but somewhere that suits you that has the type of men you'd like to meet.
Hope that helps.
Stage 4 is definately the most obvious Stage for that, maybe 5 and 6 as it also has SM leadin but I remember Stage 4 the most last time and that's what i'm on now.
I plan to do SM after AM6, but i'm still undecided whether I should do a 3rd run of AM6 or SM3 after this run.. it's a hard choice.
Brother Ben I am on a second run of AMS stage 2
I plan to run SM as I want to attract quality women into my life.
Thanks
(09-10-2015, 03:53 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]Stage 4 is definately the most obvious Stage for that, maybe 5 and 6 as it also has SM leadin but I remember Stage 4 the most last time and that's what i'm on now.
I plan to do SM after AM6, but i'm still undecided whether I should do a 3rd run of AM6 or SM3 after this run.. it's a hard choice.
(08-12-2015, 07:56 PM)apollolux Wrote: [ -> ] (08-12-2015, 06:08 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]I have done a lot of social experiments on this, and what I find is that when a woman likes me, she: [ ... ]
Not to hijack, but my one-itis did all of these to me and when I called her out on her signals she insisted she wasn't interested in me. What should I have done from then, and what would allow women to be more direct about their feelings instead of pretending for the sake of plausible deniability?
You have to learn when the signals mean she's being polite, when she likes you as a friend, when she's trying to get a better tip, and when she's interested, but feels like she has to deny it because you're a clueless male.
Just because a woman smiles at you doesn't mean she wants to ride you. It means she is smiling at you, and that could mean a number of things.
You must learn how to read faces. There are a dozen types of smile with a dozen meanings and some of them are genuine and some not. You need to know what her smile is communicating, and whether or not she's trying to mislead with it. For example, a server smiling because she is expected to by her boss, when she really doesn't like you because you smell bad, etc.
You have to take what signals you get in terms of a lot of variables. What is she doing? Is she consistent? What is her timing? How is her delivery? Is she in a position to be able to express herself genuinely? Would you know it if she was not? How many different types of signals is she giving, and are they all aiming at the same message? I never think a woman is interested until I see at least three different signals that I can say are all pointing to that, and they are all genuine and make sense for the situation. Servers frequently will flirt for better tips, for example, and may have zero interest otherwise.
I recently had a server give me every possible signal of interest shy of getting herself arrested, including giving me her phone number without being asked for it and verbally saying, "Please call me! I'm off the next two days." When I went to communicate the next day... she blew me off. That's not the first time in the last two weeks that sort of thing has happened. So you have to consider... how old is she? How attractive? Is she used to being allowed to flake and be a brat, and get away with it? I have a friend who tells me, "I love being a brat to guys." They let her, because she has a very attractive face and body. I don't, which is why she tells me the truth about why she does what she does.
But also, if you "call her out" she may be too sensitive, shy or in a bad position in terms of admitting her interest. Remember that for her to act like society expects you to would get her trashed by everyone around her and a reputation for being less than quality. She may have been signalling you with genuine interest, and you blew it by basically saying, "Oh yeah? Prove it." in a place, circumstance or in front of people she could not allow to consider her a sloot. Probably even including YOU. So when you go about disambiguating her signals, you have to do so in a way that works for her to be able to respond appropriately, too.
t's not easy being a guy trying to figure all this out. Just remember that no matter what, there's always more where she came from, and don't put much stock in any one woman unless you've actually established some sort of real relationship with her. In other words, don't be needy or desperate. There's plenty of fish in the sea.