Subliminal Talk

I call them "Killer" not because it actually kills them, but because it "slays" their resistance, when used in the way it's designed to, by bringing their level of interest up to where it needs to be to make something happen.

OK, I am going to use these things more carefully. Also, it is better to focus on changing myself, instead of the women.

Yesterday a woman asked me to eat with some friends while caressing my back. When the waitress asked me if I wanted something to drink, I said, "No, just a glass of water". Afterwards, the woman said, "You could have said, 'Yes, please, a glass of water'," to which I agreed and laughed. During the conversation, I tried to convince the other techies to start dancing, in order to date women. For many techies, including myself, dancing can seem very frightening.

Tomorrow I will start Stage 3 of SM.

My date went very well. She is cute, intelligent, successful and fun, and wants to go dancing with me, despite my warning that zouk involves pretty close contact.

SM is moving me in the right direction.

I like Stage 3 of SM so far, and I have no doubts this going in the right direction.

I was out with my natural seducer friend last night, and noticed women eye me up more than him. He is still much better at talking with them, and I can learn a lot from that. He just talks freely to any woman.

My mother is a great dancer, and has started dating the guy in the ballroom all the women talk about. They were planning to go on a trip together, but suddenly he declined because he had found some wood eating ants in his cabin. What a wimp! He suddenly lost many points on the alpha scale. So I will go with her instead.

LOL If I had some wood eating ants in my cabin that takes priority over a trip. You just got to look at it in your mom's bf's perspective.

Wood eating ants are a very expensive threat to an investment. That cabin could easily have cost more than $50,000. Getting that protected would be a priority for me too, although having had carpenter ants around, I would say that it's not going to make a difference if it's a week or two.

Stage 3 is getting me tired. It is a good thing today is the last day at my current job, and that I will have a few weeks off before starting the new one.

The dancing is going well. My dance partner starts off decently dressed, but soon it gets too hot, and she takes off something to reveal another something tight and black. Now, I get hot, but I keep my cool. She has a boy friend, and I am fine with that. I was dancing close to another one the other day, and every now and then she tried to pull down her too short top to hide her stomach. She was a little awkward and I felt a little sorry for her. And there are also the women on the online dating I have to deal with. Soon, if I am not there already, I expect to wonder how I could be so afraid of women all these years.

I am very optimistic about continuing using subs, and I am already thinking about which one to do next. Perhaps I'll do a AM Stage 6 refresher before starting the new WM. I am going to be a lethal charmer.

I have stopped using the aphrodisiacs for the time being.

This big guy pushed me on the dancefloor while I was dancing with a woman to make more room for himself. I did not like it. May his clumsy feet of clay entangle even more, if that's physically possible, and may he loose even his pretence of rhythm, may his solid muscle be even more solid and inflexible, leaving just a tiny hope of ever making a single graceful move, which he eventually only will accomplish after years of hard work and tears of blood. :-)

(09-21-2012, 01:50 AM)alpha123 Wrote: [ -> ]This big guy pushed me on the dancefloor while I was dancing with a woman to make more room for himself. I did not like it. May his clumsy feet of clay entangle even more, if that's physically possible, and may he loose even his pretence of rhythm, may his solid muscle be even more solid and inflexible, leaving just a tiny hope of ever making a single graceful move, which he eventually only will accomplish after years of hard work and tears of blood. :-)

LOL

Thanks, I felt I did rather well. I have been doing boxing for a while now, and I am not afraid to land or take a punch any more. I suspect some of these big guys are. Instead of turning on him, I just turned the woman away from him and danced her across the room. She has been very friendly ever since, and gives me complements when she has a chance. Unfortunately, she is not the one below.

Two weeks left of Stage 3 of SM2.0. This stage has been a little challenging. I feel am going out into unknown territory. It seems I am falling in love with a woman who is taken. Some reasons can be:
- she is very beautiful, very nice, funny, smart, and moves like a whirling, sexy elf
- she is taken, and therefore "safe" to fall in love with
- I am unwilling to move towards sex, unless I think I am in love
It seems it is quite easy for her to read me. In many ways I am a simple guy who says what he thinks (although not so stupid that I tell her I love her or something similar). Anyway, it is an experience.

I also notice that other women give me looks. In the beginning this exited me, now I start not to care that much.

Tonight I am out dancing again. Previously, just the thought of doing this would fill me with severe anxiety.

Please explain to me what part of "taken" makes it "safe" to fall for her? Fall for a woman I have claimed as my own, and I'll educate you on the finer points of when to back the hell off. Most guys will respond similarly. It may not be very "safe" if it gets to that point, let me assure you. I have had guns stuck in my face over it on a couple of different occasions.

Just met a woman who is an experienced dancer. She says I have great potential, a light and agile body and good rhythm, and says she wants to dance with me more. She dances a crazy close lambada. I mean, with heads touching, torsos touching, and thighs touching. You get it. I would say it beats sex.

On the way home, the girl in the cash register started chatting with me.

Things like this makes me very happy.

(10-04-2012, 01:09 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Please explain to me what part of "taken" makes it "safe" to fall for her? Fall for a woman I have claimed as my own, and I'll educate you on the finer points of when to back the hell off. Most guys will respond similarly. It may not be very "safe" if it gets to that point, let me assure you. I have had guns stuck in my face over it on a couple of different occasions.

OK. See your point. It is probably not that serious. I still like her a lot though.

Why waste your time?