(04-26-2026, 07:35 AM)Sky Wrote: [ -> ] (04-26-2026, 12:53 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]I see what you were talking about in the description with friendship manifestation. I'm clearly very tired with as much as I have been working lately. I had to stop working on the script and focus on solving the question of how to build this monstrosity for all of April, so I'd have to go through the script again to verify - and if I never look at the damned thing again it will be too soon - but I think I remember removing the friendship manifestation module because I was trying to focus the program more, as I said.
No worries. I'm excited nonetheless. AAMTS v7 will be the foundation for which I build my life on. I'm going to do it for as many run-throughs as needed depending on my rate of growth and evaluate at the end of each run-through. I've been waiting for AAMTS v7 for 10+ years as I lurked on the forum, but was too insecure to make an account until some years ago.
I genuinely appreciate all of your hard work for the people that need your help the most. You're making the world a better place, and I couldn't be more grateful for all of the hard work you do, and the intentionality you put into your work for those like me that need your help.
I've tried telling people about your experiences (aka subliminals), but it never works and no one takes a chance, so I just use it for myself and keep growing.
I'm looking forward to building my life starting with AAMTS v7. Stage 0 has been helping me understand my insecurities as they come to light, and I'm truly grateful for that. I have a ways to go, but I'm genuinely excited. I used to be super scared of everything due to trauma, but now, my life is better than ever, and that is due in part to your subliminals that I've run over the years along with my own hard work. Therapy was good for me, but your subliminals had an impact that no therapy session could ever have on me.
I wish I knew what subliminals you had coming out in the future as well, but that's an issue of mine. I think too far in the future. I want a solid friend group, and I want to run BASE v7 or better yet, BAMM, and keep souring to new heights.
In regards to advice I'm seeking about women from you Shannon, I am so insecure, that I've been wondering if I should date multiple women or just one woman. I have plenty of matches as a male that typically gets decent matches on the dating apps. I know the answer, but this inner demon pops up quite a bit. I want a relationship. I just went out with a girl on our 4th date together, and we're going out on our 5th date next weekend. She's 5'1' and I'm 5'10''. My insecurities about status make me want to go back on the dating apps to find a taller girl as "arm candy" so that I can feel like I look good in a power couple dynamic. That's a huge insecurity of mine, and I never would have figured it out as early as now if I wasn't running AAMTS v7 stage 0. I want to keep dating this girl, so I'm choosing to do so, but I still have a ways to go. She's sweet and kind to me and very pretty. No one's perfect. What more could I ask for? I don't think perfection exists because we all are flawed in some way. I'm no exception.
I'll leave it at this for now. If you have time to answer great, but if not, that's great too. 
I'm trying to seek a quality woman based on her self-development characteristics, not just physical looks. Yes, getting a bombshell is the dream of a lot of men, but I'm happy going on dates with the bombshell that I'm going out with currently to see if we enter a relationship together. She wants to live in San Francisco in the future and have kids with marriage with a big house. Whether that's possible remains to be seen. We're both Indian and the Indian population there is huge. My eldest brother said nothing is guaranteed and no commitment has been made, and we both just need to take it one step at a time. She's practical about her goals and knows the journey to get to San Francisco means a lot of money has to be made from her and her significant other, a.k.a potentially me. She's really smart, and I'm hardworking smart. I don't compare myself to others, because comparison is the thief of joy, and everyone is on their own journey. I worked my ass off to get to where I am today. We're both data scientists by the way.
As a side note, she gets a fuck ton of matches, and decided to go out with me, so I'm happy about that because she could have gone out with any number of guys. I get FOMO about not going out with my other matches, but I think there's potential here because she in many ways understands me and I understand her based on traumatic experiences we've had growing up in an Indian household with mental health issues.
A relationship takes two people. I aligned with her San Francisco goals because I want to live there myself, that or San Diego, or Los Angeles even. Job-wise San Francisco takes the cake and the vistas are beautiful out there. The food is amazing too and the outdoor activities. I want to see what it's like to live out there... even though it's so expensive out there.
I wanted to give you all this context because I truly value your insight. I wouldn't mind others' insights too from those who are farther along in their AAMTS v7 journey than I am. I'd be curious to see what others think of this post like @NOMAD or @Benjamin. I'm very much a people pleaser as well, so I'm working on that too, so even if I don't agree with everything, a dialogue is welcome from those that understand what I'm trying to learn here through AAMTS.
Do I want kids, marriage, and a wife? Yes, I do with the right person. This girl has a lot of potential to me. She's treated me really well so far, and I've been doing the same for her. She's had bad experiences with past long-term relationships, so she's currently excited to get to know me and see where this goes.
All right, post done.
I appreciate your patronage, and your efforts to spread the word. Unfortunately, this is a subject most people either refuse to believe works, or are afraid to try.
About the relationship:
These are my opinions, and my experiences and conclusions based on my experiences, and you are welcome to do with them - or not do with them - as you please. I am currently 52 years old, and in my life I have made a lot of mistakes, both voluntary and involuntary, regarding relationships. I have come to understand women (from my own American culture) pretty well. I have a fairly good grasp of female psychology in general, I think - but I reserve the right to be wrong, because as you say, we are all flawed in some way.
That said, I have concluded that the urges and desires of the young buck are going to lose him a lot of good long term relationship options if he does not act with wisdom and purpose. By that I mean, when we are young, male and female, we want to go out and fuck everything that moves and have fun and be socially accepted and gratify our egos with approval from those around us.
None of that actually matters. It leads to self destruction emotionally, higher potential for disease and pregnancy, and more than a little chance for heartbreak for yourself and the women you're dealing with.
A wise man will find himself a woman who makes him genuinely happy, and whom he can trust, and then keep her, whatever that means for him and in his culture. But he will not decide to keep her too soon, because it is human nature to treat relationship access like a job interview and show a mask of the self, only gradually revealing the true self because that might get you 'fired', as it were. In my experience, the mask comes off fully between years 3 and 4 of the relationship (unless you get legally married, in which case her safety net has been established, and the mask will come off immediately).
I'm not advising you to spend 3-4 years getting to know a woman before getting serious. You can do what you like with this information; this has been my experience after spending 22 years looking for someone serious. I was looking for a wife and a permanent relationship, so I could settle down, build a family and be happy in my nest. What I found was that, for me, I was attracting women who were trying to work me past my karma, not women who were trying to be my wife. Once I was cornered and forced to face and work through that karma, I did find a woman who is serious and permanent. So consider that that may also be a factor to consider in my experience vs what you experience.
The main idea is, playing the field and sowing one's oats is perfectly natural to want to do when one is young, dumb and full of cum. But if you want to be happy... you will more than likely be looking for that woman or those women (if you are polyamorous or polygynous) who make you genuinely happy, who are serious about having a long term stable relationship, and who have the same general goals you do.
The desire for arm candy is a very shallow desire. I know, because I have had both that desire, and the arm candy. It feels good to the false ego, but it wreaks havoc on your life, and you will be left with a shambles to pick up the pieces from. Arm candy is an issue for two reasons:
1. These are females of such exceptional beauty that, in this day and age, they have social media telling them they're infinitely beautiful, valuable, capable of doing whatever and whomever they please and having zero responsibilities or consequences. This leads to a very low level of personal development in a lot of cases, and the result is an insufferable infant in an adult female body - which is why I call them "females" instead of "women", because a
woman is an
adult human female. They typically move from man to man either seeking the Bigger Better Deal (BBD girls) or they're going to be shallow, immature, selfish, demanding and disrespectful. Not worth the effort. Not saying that is the only case, but it will be the vast majority of them from my experience.
2. It reveals that you are focused on approval from and acceptance by others, which means you are making yourself a slave to what others think, say, choose and do. That is not how a man should do. That is definitely not how a genuinely alpha man does. One of the defining factors that makes an alpha of any type an alpha is that he is his own man, and does his own thing, regardless of what others think. Partly because, as a leader, he does his own thing, and sets the trends with his choices and actions (trends being the herd following the leader) by doing so. Seeking acceptance and approval is herd behavior, not leader behavior. So by seeking arm candy, you are seeking to assuage an insecurity within yourself that, while perfectly normal, reveals that you are currently thinking as a herd member, not a leader or alpha. While you are running AAMTS v7, you will be directed into yourself to work on that. But arm candy is meant to impress those who you think are better than you, with something that they value, but which has no real value in almost all cases.
On the other hand, a woman - or again, if you are polyamorous or polygynous - women, who you mesh with deeply and who you find that having in your life correlates to genuine happiness over the long term is worth more than her weight in gold. You cannot escape Father Time, and over time, human bodies age. Looks fade, muscles reduce, and fat tends to accumulate. Hair is lost or turns grey. Skin becomes wrinkled. If you want to be genuinely happy, you're looking for someone who you would be genuinely happy with regardless, and who would be genuinely happy with you regardless, because they genuinely love you. Who, every day, chooses to be with you and be faithful to you, not because of a ring or a piece of paper or a law or consequences, but because she wants what she has with you more than she wants what she could have with anyone else; and you do and feel the same in return. Come old age or human flaws, such a relationship will not only endure, but thrive, because what really matters is that bond, that love, that happiness. And as a bonus, if you are with someone who correlates to being genuinely happy, your life will improve, your srtress levels will improve and you will live longer too, quite naturally.
So I guess what I am saying is... recognize that the part of you wanting to go sow your wild oats is your lizard brain, which is just acting out genetic code and has no idea what it's doing otherwise. And that part of you that wants arm candy, that's your insecurities telling you to try to impress the herd, and maybe the leader of the herd, when you should be your own leader, and if you allow it, have your own herd.
And that means... don't throw away a chance with who might be a good woman because of stupid reasons you will later regret. A good woman is as rare as hen's teeth in much of the world right now.
Next, regarding relationships, never forget that she, the woman you're dealing with, is also a human, just like you, and she has feelings and needs and urges and wants and failings, just like you. The woman you describe sounds like she is considering you for a serious relationship. That will mean that each time you go on a date, she will be opening herself to you emotionally a little more, and a little more. Take that seriously! Her emotions are not to be treated carelessly, just as yours are not! Both sexes have a bad habit these days of assuming that the other sex is just an alien, with no humanity. That's part of what has resulted in the "battle of the sexes".
And finally, be aware that you are embarking on a journey that will be challenging you in serious ways, and while you are on this journey, you may not always be emotionally calm. Once you start on Stage 1, you're committed through Stage 6, and you must finish, because otherwise you're going to break the system that the set uses to push you into growth - it puts you off balance like a weeble wobble toy, pushing you out of your comfort zone in first one direction and then the next, with each stage pushing you in a different direction, but counterbalancing the last stage's offset. You MUST finish all six of the main stages to return to a state of proper balance. Just like with AM6, people learned the hard way, (their favorite way of learning, apparently) that when I say "Don't stop in the middle!" there are very good reasons. You will be making a lot of changes to and within yourself, and some of the things you'll be going through may make you feel some intense emotional states. You may find yourself angry, frustrated, sad, afraid and so forth.
Don't take these out on any woman you're with at the time! Let her know you're going through a personal growth journey (you don't have to, and probably shouldn't, tell her what exactly it is), and ask that she understand that you're trying to develop yourself into a better man and that the process will sometimes be intense and challenging for you.
Hopefully this is helpful and useful, and answers everything you wanted answered.