(07-26-2026, 12:17 PM)Sky Wrote: [ -> ]Wow, just had a 3 hour FaceTime with a girl from another state. It was a great conversation. I plan on visiting that state and her there while I'm exploring the lifestyle there. 
This seems like it has potential. I paused Hinge and Bumble, and will just go with the flow with her because she's serious about finding her person too and seems way less unable to make choices about who she wants to date and more honest with herself and who she wants to date. She doesn't have choice paralysis, so I see potential here, and she's not outright disrespecting me by saying she's choosing between another guy and me. She's going with the flow, and assessing each feeling/experience she has with me and reflecting on it. I feel good about this girl.
I did not expect anything from this conversation and expected it to end in a dead end lol so I'm glad there's potential here given that I'm already going to visit that state in a few months to see if I want to live there. Maybe there's hope for me yet and a potential relationship on the horizon.
Keep an eye out for falling head over heels for a woman quickly. That is a quick road to cloud your mind and to start acting in ways that have a tendency to lead to disappointment down the road.
I think escapism is a problem for me. I want to escape my job right now. It's the best job I've ever had but I'm afraid it'll get harder. I also want to escape the city I live in too and go to another city with a higher population of educated people.
Feeling steadier, there are all types of attractive women out there. Just depends on who I meet and connect with.