Subliminal Talk

(05-16-2024, 04:49 PM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]

(05-12-2024, 06:38 AM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]I agree the set up wasn't very good but the movie she said she wanted to see was Garfield and it comes out the 23rd of this month so I asked her to meet me there to see it. 

 So I didn't use the word date. 

Most times I ask a girl to do something within a day or so but this seemed like a good idea at the time.

But yeah, going 2 weeks without screwing something up,  well that's on me. 

I was thinking of asking if she wants to do something before then.

By the way disappearing for that amount of time was a female friends idea but it sounded crazy. My mentor taught me that to keep from screwing things up, but when it didn't work he just said it doesn't work all the time.

I only ever used that 2 times and it failed so I stopped it.

I'll do one loop and keep talking to her as usual.

I text this new girl that's 20 and said I'm going to go eat at this place, ya wanna go? 

I sent her the address and said Leaving now.

She said Lol Right now

I said Yes I'm hungry.

So we met there and had a good time.

I know because she said she had a good time and hopes next time she won't be awkward IF there's a next time. I said there will be.

We've text a lot since then.

X4a 1511 is great.

Now, with the server, I went to eat yesterday and I was told she had been cut from the floor by another server I know.

I said I'd order to go. My server was at the register I stood there till she said Hey.  She was distracted or something because she took my order and I sat down across from the register and she didn't come to talk to me or anything.

When I got my food I commented that we were matching because I had a pink shirt on and she had a pink bow in her hair.

When I said we match..she said Really but wasn't paying attention or it seemed that way...

I said yeah you have a pink bow. She said I always wear pink... I didn't say anything at that point but she asked me twice if I needed anything else after she gave my order to me and even gave me a bag for it.

I left her a good tip even though I didn't have to for carry out.

Seemed she was not having the best day. She eats very little at work. She's always telling me she hasn't eaten yet and all that. 

So a normal interaction with the server and not much else to report right now.

So I just got home from a movie with the servers.

We met at the theater and she said she had something to tell me and I had no clue what that meant so I asked what's up and she told me her sister wanted to see the movie too and she waved her hand toward her car and her twin got out.

I wasn't too surprised because these girls are like best friends and do everything they can together.

So we watched the movie and my crushes sister fell asleep and so I nudged her and said she's gonna miss the movie and she just went back to sleep.

After the movie we woke my crushes sister and I walked them to my crushes car. We said our goodbyes.

Normal movie date, but I never mentioned date at all. 

I'm glad this finally happened. I took way too long setting things up.

(05-29-2024, 11:40 AM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]

(05-16-2024, 04:49 PM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]I text this new girl that's 20 and said I'm going to go eat at this place, ya wanna go? 

I sent her the address and said Leaving now.

She said Lol Right now

I said Yes I'm hungry.

So we met there and had a good time.

I know because she said she had a good time and hopes next time she won't be awkward IF there's a next time. I said there will be.

We've text a lot since then.

X4a 1511 is great.

Now, with the server, I went to eat yesterday and I was told she had been cut from the floor by another server I know.

I said I'd order to go. My server was at the register I stood there till she said Hey.  She was distracted or something because she took my order and I sat down across from the register and she didn't come to talk to me or anything.

When I got my food I commented that we were matching because I had a pink shirt on and she had a pink bow in her hair.

When I said we match..she said Really but wasn't paying attention or it seemed that way...

I said yeah you have a pink bow. She said I always wear pink... I didn't say anything at that point but she asked me twice if I needed anything else after she gave my order to me and even gave me a bag for it.

I left her a good tip even though I didn't have to for carry out.

Seemed she was not having the best day. She eats very little at work. She's always telling me she hasn't eaten yet and all that. 

So a normal interaction with the server and not much else to report right now.

So I just got home from a movie with the servers.

We met at the theater and she said she had something to tell me and I had no clue what that meant so I asked what's up and she told me her sister wanted to see the movie too and she waved her hand toward her car and her twin got out.

I wasn't too surprised because these girls are like best friends and do everything they can together.

So we watched the movie and my crushes sister fell asleep and so I nudged her and said she's gonna miss the movie and she just went back to sleep.

After the movie we woke my crushes sister and I walked them to my crushes car. We said our goodbyes.

Normal movie date, but I never mentioned date at all. 

I'm glad this finally happened. I took way too long setting things up.

Wow sounds interesting
Could you do something with the girl while her sister was asleep?

(05-29-2024, 11:49 AM)Topaz Wrote: [ -> ]

(05-29-2024, 11:40 AM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]So I just got home from a movie with the servers.

We met at the theater and she said she had something to tell me and I had no clue what that meant so I asked what's up and she told me her sister wanted to see the movie too and she waved her hand toward her car and her twin got out.

I wasn't too surprised because these girls are like best friends and do everything they can together.

So we watched the movie and my crushes sister fell asleep and so I nudged her and said she's gonna miss the movie and she just went back to sleep.

After the movie we woke my crushes sister and I walked them to my crushes car. We said our goodbyes.

Normal movie date, but I never mentioned date at all. 

I'm glad this finally happened. I took way too long setting things up.

Wow sounds interesting
Could you do something with the girl while her sister was asleep?

Nah we just watched the movie. The theater was packed full.

@Shannon I decided to switch to masked on X4A-1511 and yesterday at the restaurant my crush seemed a bit off.

She brought my food and it was pretty much her doing her job. She answered with mhhm when I asked for untrusted buns and she's never did the mmhhmm with me before.

I did say I liked her glasses and she said thank you.

Other than that I did things as usual.

She was kinda busy in the kitchen too.

When she brought the check she said she has to go take a coworker home but she'll be back. She just didn't know how long she'd be so she brought the check.

I said Okay be safe and she said Cya.

So I would think the masked format used just once could been too strong?

I just want things to escalate quicker with my crush.

A different girl at a different restaurant said she was busy but We'll see when I asked her to grab pizza.

(06-06-2024, 09:20 AM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]

(05-29-2024, 11:49 AM)Topaz Wrote: [ -> ]Wow sounds interesting
Could you do something with the girl while her sister was asleep?

Nah we just watched the movie. The theater was packed full.

@Shannon I decided to switch to masked on X4A-1511 and yesterday at the restaurant my crush seemed a bit off.

She brought my food and it was pretty much her doing her job. She answered with mhhm when I asked for untrusted buns and she's never did the mmhhmm with me before.

I did say I liked her glasses and she said thank you.

Other than that I did things as usual.

She was kinda busy in the kitchen too.

When she brought the check she said she has to go take a coworker home but she'll be back. She just didn't know how long she'd be so she brought the check.

I said Okay be safe and she said Cya.

So I would think the masked format used just once could been too strong?

I just want things to escalate quicker with my crush.

A different girl at a different restaurant said she was busy but We'll see when I asked her to grab pizza.

Masked format is a much lower volume of subliminal audio than Ultrasonic.  That means it has much less perceptory pressure, and unless you need it because you don't do well with ultrasonic, will tend to reduce results.  It's not too strong - it's not strong enough.

(06-09-2024, 10:09 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-06-2024, 09:20 AM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]Nah we just watched the movie. The theater was packed full.

@Shannon I decided to switch to masked on X4A-1511 and yesterday at the restaurant my crush seemed a bit off.

She brought my food and it was pretty much her doing her job. She answered with mhhm when I asked for untrusted buns and she's never did the mmhhmm with me before.

I did say I liked her glasses and she said thank you.

Other than that I did things as usual.

She was kinda busy in the kitchen too.

When she brought the check she said she has to go take a coworker home but she'll be back. She just didn't know how long she'd be so she brought the check.

I said Okay be safe and she said Cya.

So I would think the masked format used just once could been too strong?

I just want things to escalate quicker with my crush.

A different girl at a different restaurant said she was busy but We'll see when I asked her to grab pizza.

Masked format is a much lower volume of subliminal audio than Ultrasonic.  That means it has much less perceptory pressure, and unless you need it because you don't do well with ultrasonic, will tend to reduce results.  It's not too strong - it's not strong enough.

I decided to get back to Ultrasonic last night actually and just the first run back feels better.

I've had a lot of interest lately from 18-22 year old girls that argue I'm 28 not 42. Just flirting but I'll take it.

Ultrasonic is what captured the twins attention so I'll stick to that for now unless you recommend Hybrid.

I noticed I've only been doing 4 days on 3 days off.

I work 2p-11p so that gets confusing when listening at midnight.

I have been having thoughts like I should give up on girls n dumb stuff like that.

I think that's probably X4A-1511 digging out stuff.

(06-09-2024, 09:56 PM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-09-2024, 10:09 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Masked format is a much lower volume of subliminal audio than Ultrasonic.  That means it has much less perceptory pressure, and unless you need it because you don't do well with ultrasonic, will tend to reduce results.  It's not too strong - it's not strong enough.

I decided to get back to Ultrasonic last night actually and just the first run back feels better.

I've had a lot of interest lately from 18-22 year old girls that argue I'm 28 not 42. Just flirting but I'll take it.

Ultrasonic is what captured the twins attention so I'll stick to that for now unless you recommend Hybrid.

I noticed I've only been doing 4 days on 3 days off.

I work 2p-11p so that gets confusing when listening at midnight.

I have been having thoughts like I should give up on girls n dumb stuff like that.

I think that's probably X4A-1511 digging out stuff.

Until and unless you have achieved what you want to achieve with one or both of those girls, don't change what you're doing.  It's uncertain what will result, and you could kill your progress.

(06-10-2024, 06:00 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-09-2024, 09:56 PM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]I decided to get back to Ultrasonic last night actually and just the first run back feels better.

I've had a lot of interest lately from 18-22 year old girls that argue I'm 28 not 42. Just flirting but I'll take it.

Ultrasonic is what captured the twins attention so I'll stick to that for now unless you recommend Hybrid.

I noticed I've only been doing 4 days on 3 days off.

I work 2p-11p so that gets confusing when listening at midnight.

I have been having thoughts like I should give up on girls n dumb stuff like that.

I think that's probably X4A-1511 digging out stuff.

Until and unless you have achieved what you want to achieve with one or both of those girls, don't change what you're doing.  It's uncertain what will result, and you could kill your progress.

I agree. I'll keep on with ultrasonic. I think it's working on some more crap cus it's making me tired again.

I have another 20 yr old date tomorrow.

(06-10-2024, 06:30 PM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-10-2024, 06:00 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Until and unless you have achieved what you want to achieve with one or both of those girls, don't change what you're doing.  It's uncertain what will result, and you could kill your progress.

I agree. I'll keep on with ultrasonic. I think it's working on some more crap cus it's making me tired again.

I have another 20 yr old date tomorrow.

The 20 yr old date was successful. We've text back and forth a few times.

Things are going well with the twins but it seems to me both of them like me now and they actin weird now.

I've been executing x4a 1511 more than usual the past week and I've even had the tall red head Hottie to ask me for favors to do things for her at work that she's never needed help with before.

Sometimes I do have thoughts of "Nobody is interested in me" or other similar thoughts.

I think X4A-1511 is just digging that out and exposing it.

I always tried to ignore those thoughts but I'm human and sometimes those thoughts just suck.

(06-18-2024, 08:19 AM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-10-2024, 06:30 PM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]I agree. I'll keep on with ultrasonic. I think it's working on some more crap cus it's making me tired again.



I have another 20 yr old date tomorrow.

The 20 yr old date was successful. We've text back and forth a few times.

What do you consider successful?

Quote:Things are going well with the twins but it seems to me both of them like me now and they actin weird now.

What makes you think they both like you now?  How are they acting weird?  Come on, man, details!

Quote:I've been executing x4a 1511 more than usual the past week and I've even had the tall red head Hottie to ask me for favors to do things for her at work that she's never needed help with before.

How do you know you're executing more? What does that look like in comparison to the past execution?

Quote:Sometimes I do have thoughts of "Nobody is interested in me" or other similar thoughts.

I think X4A-1511 is just digging that out and exposing it.

I always tried to ignore those thoughts but I'm human and sometimes those thoughts just suck.

That tells you that you have deep beliefs that contradict what the program is trying to do, and they're coming to the surface in an effort to stop it from working.  You know they're wrong and invalid.

(06-18-2024, 04:39 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-18-2024, 08:19 AM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]The 20 yr old date was successful. We've text back and forth a few times.

What do you consider successful?

No hiccups at all and the girl literally vocalized that "this was great. See you again soon?"

Quote:Things are going well with the twins but it seems to me both of them like me now and they actin weird now.

What makes you think they both like you now?  How are they acting weird?  Come on, man, details!

Both twins are nervous around me, like clumsy even. They are not naturally clumsy that I've ever seen. They've been dropping plates. Almost tripping over their own feet.

visibly at a loss for words and so they just say "well gotta get back then go into the kitchen.

I figure it's X4A-1511 causing this. Either that or they really don't wanna be around me anymore. 

The twin that is my crush and my main server told me last time I was there that she was gonna take a coworker home but she'll be back but she's gonna leave the check in case I wanna leave before she gets back.

I doubt she told any other of her customers that.

Quote:I've been executing x4a 1511 more than usual the past week and I've even had the tall red head Hottie to ask me for favors to do things for her at work that she's never needed help with before.

How do you know you're executing more? What does that look like in comparison to the past execution?

I'll try and explain as best I can. So the X4A-1511 gets me a lot of attention from women And girls. It seems like I'm told Talk to her and her and her over there.

I usually don't do much besides nodding or saying Hey.

A new girl at work smiles and waves at me when she sees me from far away. I really only talked to her once and made the dumbest joke possible about a gravy milkshake that she thought was funny.

I can't remember how that got started.

This week I've been chatting up almost every girl at work and just being Mr. Charisma and some of that is my natural personality but I usually won't be that way unless it's one of my close circle of people I know.

Quote:Sometimes I do have thoughts of "Nobody is interested in me" or other similar thoughts.

I think X4A-1511 is just digging that out and exposing it.

I always tried to ignore those thoughts but I'm human and sometimes those thoughts just suck.

That tells you that you have deep beliefs that contradict what the program is trying to do, and they're coming to the surface in an effort to stop it from working.  You know they're wrong and invalid.

It's good to know it's digging that crap out.

(06-18-2024, 09:02 PM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-18-2024, 04:39 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]What do you consider successful?

No hiccups at all and the girl literally vocalized that "this was great. See you again soon?"



What makes you think they both like you now?  How are they acting weird?  Come on, man, details!

Both twins are nervous around me, like clumsy even. They are not naturally clumsy that I've ever seen. They've been dropping plates. Almost tripping over their own feet.

visibly at a loss for words and so they just say "well gotta get back then go into the kitchen.

I figure it's X4A-1511 causing this. Either that or they really don't wanna be around me anymore. 

The twin that is my crush and my main server told me last time I was there that she was gonna take a coworker home but she'll be back but she's gonna leave the check in case I wanna leave before she gets back.

I doubt she told any other of her customers that.


How do you know you're executing more? What does that look like in comparison to the past execution?

I'll try and explain as best I can. So the X4A-1511 gets me a lot of attention from women And girls. It seems like I'm told Talk to her and her and her over there.

I usually don't do much besides nodding or saying Hey.

A new girl at work smiles and waves at me when she sees me from far away. I really only talked to her once and made the dumbest joke possible about a gravy milkshake that she thought was funny.

I can't remember how that got started.

This week I've been chatting up almost every girl at work and just being Mr. Charisma and some of that is my natural personality but I usually won't be that way unless it's one of my close circle of people I know.



That tells you that you have deep beliefs that contradict what the program is trying to do, and they're coming to the surface in an effort to stop it from working.  You know they're wrong and invalid.

It's good to know it's digging that crap out.

I ate at the restaurant today. My crush just did her job and talked when needed. I asked what's up but she just said nothing much.

She checked to see if I needed anything a few times and when she brought the check she asked if I needed anything else.

I said a tea to go and I'll meet you up front.

So she rang me up and there were 2 other servers talking to her and after she gave me my card back I said "I just wanna say, pink may be your favorite color but you look great in red."

She said thank you I appreciate that.

I said cya and as I walked away I think the other 2 girls were teasing her to go after me... I just heard one say...oh it's too late it's too late.

I just don't know how things are going with these twins anymore. My crush and I don't text... 

I hadn't been to the restaurant in a week cus I have been busy.

I think the X4A-1511 is definitely working but since that movie both girls act this way.

And as I explained in the previous post I can't tell if it's X4A-1511 causing them to act this way or not.

To me they act like someone that can't be around a hot guy cus they like them too much.

Either way this is frustrating a little bit.

It is also possible that you've blown it and they're not comfortable with you anymore. You have to find out which one it is.

(06-19-2024, 05:11 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]It is also possible that you've blown it and they're not comfortable with you anymore. You have to find out which one it is.

It's possible I've blown it but I don't know what I would have done to blow anything.

I text my crush about an hour after I left and asked if she wanted to meet me for a movie tomorrow because I  think of something so I text her. No reply.

I sit and eat and say yes or no when asked if I need anything. I don't flirt but she was definitely more chatty a few weeks back.

I'm starting to feel uncomfortable myself and unsure why.

How do I find out for sure if they're just not comfortable with me anymore without just saying that it seems I'm making you uncomfortable so I need another server?

(06-19-2024, 08:36 PM)Diablojack00 Wrote: [ -> ]

(06-19-2024, 05:11 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]It is also possible that you've blown it and they're not comfortable with you anymore. You have to find out which one it is.

It's possible I've blown it but I don't know what I would have done to blow anything.

That is exactly how you could have blown it: not knowing what you could do to blow it.  Based on what I read about your date, I would think they were expecting something else from you during and/or after your date.

Quote:I text my crush about an hour after I left and asked if she wanted to meet me for a movie tomorrow because I  think of something so I text her. No reply.

I sit and eat and say yes or no when asked if I need anything. I don't flirt but she was definitely more chatty a few weeks back.

I'm starting to feel uncomfortable myself and unsure why.

You probably feel uncomfortable because you're starting to realize there's something wrong, but you don't understand what it is.

Quote:How do I find out for sure if they're just not comfortable with me anymore without just saying that it seems I'm making you uncomfortable so I need another server?

Well, here's my assessment based on what I know.

First: fishing off the company pier.  In other words, you never try to date a woman who works where you work (or where you are a regular customer) because if something goes wrong, you have made everything awkward and uncomfortable for everyone (at best) and they may feel like they need to get a different job, or you may feel like you can't go there anymore (at worst).  This is not always a mistake, but if you do it, you'd better be damned good with women to pull it off.

Second: You seem (to my point of view, based on what I've been told here) have a habit of misinterpreting what they're communicating to you through sub-communication (body language, what they do, etc.).  For example, when the sister showed up wanting to be part of the date, you thought they were both attracted and interested.  That is a possibility, but what I saw was she wasn't fully comfortable being alone with you, so she brought her sister to make it hard for you to try anything inappropriate.  She was interested and attracted, but not yet comfortable with you.  That's how I interpreted what happened.

Third: You didn't do anything during the date but watch the movie.  At least as I understand it.  She may have felt like you were not really interested or maybe felt awkward because of what she was expecting.  Remember what I said about "dates".  Women have a million and one expectations the moment you make them think "date".  If she gets to thinking it's a "date", you're probably going to fail.

Fourth: You took her on a date.  And that's what she was expecting, even without saying the word "date" because of how you approached it.  You took my advice, but did not execute correctly, and she still was thinking it was a date.  Not necessarily your fault, if you're not familiar with that approach, but it remains the same result.

Fifth, you were confused about how to execute the date because of apparently bad advice and possibly inexperience.  One of my hard rules is, NEVER let a woman think too long before you go on a date with her, because she will ALWAYS make it either awkward or impossible if she has enough time to think too much about it.  If I ask a woman out on a "date", or she thinks it's a "date", I always make sure it happens within the shortest possible time frame.  Usually that very same day, or the next day at the latest.  When you set it up for such a long wait, she was overthinking the hell out of it, and her sister was too, which only made it worse.  You also changed your behavior between asking her out and the actual date, and you're honestly lucky she went through with it.  That is a testament to how attracted she actually was to you.

Sixth, your communication with her/them since asking for the date is seriously in question, and if you did not handle that well, that will have thrown the whole thing in the trash because she will have developed a completely different understanding than you did, and then subsequently interpreted everything you did and did not do through that lens.

So if I understand enough of what has happened, and I am correct, you are very close to totally failing in this situation because you did not communicate with her/them well enough and frequently enough.  The only way you can recover this is to try to correct that through a pro-active effort at open, honest communication, and the chances of you succeeding are very low at this point because she will not and cannot discuss it at work, and she is very unlikely to respond to any attempt to communicate outside of work.

Your only chance is to send her a text that says the right things to get you back on track, in my opinion.  Others may disagree.  But this is my assessment based on what I have read of your adventures.