06-01-2017, 08:35 AM
(06-01-2017, 08:05 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: chaos I love you but you consistently ignore some things. Like how improving my style has led to no convos in online game despite me saying the same shit. Nothing changed except I chasnged my pictures to ones where I was wearing my style.
Or how I got approached by women years ago when I never showered and now that I shower regularly I don't get approached at all.
Or how in the same boat my sales performance has suffered magically after deciding to be groomed and well kept every day.
Just saying.
I think what needs to be done is for one to find a style that fits THEM. Clearly you've found yours, but I haven't found mine. Either that or unkept, uncleaned, scruffy, and sloppy IS my style. >>
What you fail to understand in this context Sarge is that having style will not equal you getting laid. Having good conversation skills will not necessarily lead to it either. Having a style may improve your success, but it's more of the peacock. You will gain the interest, and when you have the interest you need to keep it going.
If we say there is a magic number of 30 where a specific woman will sleep with you
Having style is +5
Good conversation is +10
Having confidence is +20
Hygiene is +15
There are MULTIPLE more factors of course, but they're too many to fit into one post, nor do I feel like writing it all out. But you need to get above the magical number in order to get wanted results (laid).
Different women will have a different "magic number", and in order to get laid, you need to pull the trigger as well as maintaining yourself above that magical number. You don't need to be perfect, you just need to maintain yourself above that magical number.
So if you remove hygiene from the above, but you have a good style, good conversation skills, and confidence. This woman with the "magical number" 30, is gonna be ok with it. But that doesn't mean every woman will, for some women hygiene is +/-50. Meaning if you don't have it you're -20 to begin with.
So when you decided to get groomed and everything that MAY not be the only reason you're results suffered, it may just be the one factor you're aware of that has changed.