07-07-2013, 02:54 PM
I was out salsa dancing last night and had a great time. Met up with some friends from class and danced with a lot of new people. Knowing that I do best when I just start dancing immediately, I grabbed a girl and started dancing. Before I knew it, another girl was chatting me up and I was in the middle of two girls chatting with me. Tough situation, I know... I found myself doing better socially when I was interacting with the people I didn't know. I guess the people in class seemed more boring to me.
One of the things I wanted to accomplish was dancing with the "hottest" girl I saw all night. I noticed at previous events that I would actually shy away from dancing with them. I found my girl and started chatting with her. She accepted my dance invitation and we had fun. I could tell she was an excellent dancer. There was a few moments of silence after our dance. I felt like she wanted me to do something but didn't know what. She walked off and I found the next girl. Actually, the next girl found me. It was a girl that I had danced with the night before and I could tell she was into me. We danced for a while and then she went off to get a drink. Everything I know about girls told me not to be standing there when she got back so I went off to look for my friends.
After the concert was over, I didn't see any of the girls I danced with. I guess I need to get better at number closing during the event if I want to see them again.
I ended up walking home with one of the girls from class. Ended up finding out on the way home that she had a boyfriend and then she started telling me about her relationship problems. Again, everything I know about girls tells me to avoid being that guy that she talked about her relationship problem with, but, I talked with her. On that walk home I evaluated my intentions and feelings. I came to the conclusion that I'm not really interested in this girl anyways, so I stuck with it. I don't know why but I actually enjoy connecting with women in this way. She told me about her problems and asked me for advice. I told her exactly what I thought and felt really good when I left. In fact its really neat because I know what she is looking for and that I'm definitely not looking for the same thing.
One of the things I wanted to accomplish was dancing with the "hottest" girl I saw all night. I noticed at previous events that I would actually shy away from dancing with them. I found my girl and started chatting with her. She accepted my dance invitation and we had fun. I could tell she was an excellent dancer. There was a few moments of silence after our dance. I felt like she wanted me to do something but didn't know what. She walked off and I found the next girl. Actually, the next girl found me. It was a girl that I had danced with the night before and I could tell she was into me. We danced for a while and then she went off to get a drink. Everything I know about girls told me not to be standing there when she got back so I went off to look for my friends.
After the concert was over, I didn't see any of the girls I danced with. I guess I need to get better at number closing during the event if I want to see them again.
I ended up walking home with one of the girls from class. Ended up finding out on the way home that she had a boyfriend and then she started telling me about her relationship problems. Again, everything I know about girls tells me to avoid being that guy that she talked about her relationship problem with, but, I talked with her. On that walk home I evaluated my intentions and feelings. I came to the conclusion that I'm not really interested in this girl anyways, so I stuck with it. I don't know why but I actually enjoy connecting with women in this way. She told me about her problems and asked me for advice. I told her exactly what I thought and felt really good when I left. In fact its really neat because I know what she is looking for and that I'm definitely not looking for the same thing.
