Good job, Tony =) I think you did the right thing by being direct and honest with her. It feels good to get rid of those back and forth games, huh? Look, even if she does have a boyfriend...women are always on the prowl for a better, future suitor. Keep going. If you really want to be with this girl, you are doing things correctly...Letting her know you won't proceed any further unless she is single. It'll make her think about it. I'm proud of you man! =)
Ryan
in addition: you seem to be having fears of actually opening yourself to a woman emotionally...just be yourself. Being direct and honest, I believe, works like magic. A woman loves a man who can open up to her and tell her how he feels...don't be afraid to share your feelings. And as for your insecurities, what Spiral said above. I would disagree with...a woman will feel so much closer to you knowing you're not afraid to admit your own flaws...It makes you seem much more down-to-earth, we aren't perfect here guys. Women don't expect us to be either. I love telling women how afraid of rollercoasters and flying I am...it makes them feel so much more comfortable with me. And a true Alpha has no reason to be afraid to admit his flaws...
Ryan
in addition: you seem to be having fears of actually opening yourself to a woman emotionally...just be yourself. Being direct and honest, I believe, works like magic. A woman loves a man who can open up to her and tell her how he feels...don't be afraid to share your feelings. And as for your insecurities, what Spiral said above. I would disagree with...a woman will feel so much closer to you knowing you're not afraid to admit your own flaws...It makes you seem much more down-to-earth, we aren't perfect here guys. Women don't expect us to be either. I love telling women how afraid of rollercoasters and flying I am...it makes them feel so much more comfortable with me. And a true Alpha has no reason to be afraid to admit his flaws...