12-13-2011, 06:49 PM
(12-13-2011, 03:08 AM)RainbowAbyss Wrote: It seems to me like you have less a fear of actual sex and more a fear of hurting woman or 'using' them-it sounds like you believe in yourself totally but you don't believe in woman enough-lol
give some girl who likes you a chance-and realize that literally anything could happen-
i know that is a bit of my problem to a degree. i have always felt like i would hurt them for every little thing i did growing up. I guess growing up with a feminist mom who always talked sh** about men didn't help lol.
I try two things one is not be manipulative and the other is using them for something. I think this is what brought a lot of resistance to me as well.
Tony
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Success is having the courage, determination, & the will. Failure is making excuses why you didn't succeed & blaming others around you because you didn't
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Success is having the courage, determination, & the will. Failure is making excuses why you didn't succeed & blaming others around you because you didn't
