06-25-2011, 01:56 PM
Being nice is charming to an extent. But you're thinking of being nice as in being a door-mat or a guy who tries to suck up to women. Think of it not as sucking up. Think of it as, you can have ANY woman you want and you enjoy flattering women because you love them. Women will appreciate this. That's what a charmer does. He isn't needy about it and gives genuine compliments. But a charmer really has a knack for the beauty of women. Btw, how'd it go with that girl?