09-02-2015, 09:53 AM
(09-02-2015, 06:37 AM)Kenshin Wrote: Hey Sarge thanks for the video, will keep it in mind when I raise my own children
It's not entirely related to what I wanted to talk about because it's focused entirely on a topic (and involves children who don't have as much conditioning and past experiences as adults) of learning but it somehow it confirms of Teal theory.
Basically what they did with the kids is they removed their fear of not performing up to top grades (fear of failure, validation, comparing each other) and transformed it into this 'not yet' grade.
Which means kids are more likely to love themselves, accept who they are when they receive that kind of grade instead of a FAILED grade.
In relation to the topic being a failure in life can be exalted into 'work in progress', 'i love myself no matter if I reach that goal', 'failure = learning journey of error correction', ect.
At least it's my understanding in that case..
Yes, I was more hoping you'd get how you can apply the same idea to yourself. A work in progress is great because it can be applied even to areas you think will never change (like in your videos, she says she's "dark" well you could say you're dark and just accept it OR say you're not light YET).
Hope you get it now.
