(04-11-2017, 04:28 AM)Benjamin Wrote: I don't like the 'everything is a shit test' mentality at all. I prefer how my mindset seems to be going, similar to what Mark Manson said "Take it at face value".
If she's being an incredible bitch straight up then i'll take it at face value, as it speaks to how she treats people. And it's not true at all that most girls are bitchy straight up as a 'shit test'.
Maybe for pus's that are coming from it at the wrong angle. But the majority of girls I talk to, especially at the gym for example I get very little of that. It's definitely not a given like the pus's try to convince you.
Yeah I don't literally take everything as a shit test but I rather assume something negative she says is a shit test then take it personally.
That's why I think Sarge's philosophy if used properly can be beneficial.
It's better to think it's a shit test and not take it personal. That's why I choose to believe and feel that.
