I noticed i'm envisioning my self in the future and dating these women from work and instead of my usual fear based future projections that I usually think about.
I'm thinking about the situations in the future in a very positive light.
As if I can totally handle a relationship with them. Usually I think of this stuff with fear and doubt but right now I feel like 0 anxiety when I visualize what it would be like to date them and have a gf.
Also something significant is that I don't care about the fact that these chicks might have been banged or dated other men other then me.
In the past this was a huge issue for me and a major turn off and it would make me angry thinking about it.
I'm thinking about the situations in the future in a very positive light.
As if I can totally handle a relationship with them. Usually I think of this stuff with fear and doubt but right now I feel like 0 anxiety when I visualize what it would be like to date them and have a gf.
Also something significant is that I don't care about the fact that these chicks might have been banged or dated other men other then me.
In the past this was a huge issue for me and a major turn off and it would make me angry thinking about it.
