03-02-2017, 07:00 AM
(03-01-2017, 03:47 PM)ffaux Wrote: From past experience I've hypothesised that the stage progressions is continuous, that is to say that I hold the belief that a lot of stage 3 carries over into stage 4. I wouldn't worry too much, just keep going.
Ok cool, thanks for the help.
It dawned on me this morning that my head is still filled with paranoid PUA crap I internalized during my teens. Those stupid blanket statements that were said about women in general, just trying to shake those off. Especially those redpillers, what a woman hating cult that one is. I gravitated towards a lot of that shit because it guaranteed success or was a formula, you didn't have to face failure. But I'd rather crash and burn as myself and learn from that nowadays than trying to act in a certain way to get a favorable response. I wish I never filled my head with that nonsense. I always thought it gave me the edge over other guys, but it was possibly the most beta thing I could do. Hiding behind routines and strategies to avoid actually putting myself out there. When I can look at a woman and not have all that retarded PUA crap flood my brain, I'll know I'm making progress.