I relate to the self help comments. The issue is that these people have tried stuff that worked for their personality type and now they're trying to give the advice away thinking that it'll work for everyone.
You seem to be an INFP. I'm and INFJ and I have tried a lot of self help stuff as well, although I wouldn't say I'm a junkie, but none of it seems to work well for me. I feel it drains so much energy that it becomes a chore rather than helping yourself. Same goes to pick up advice. It's kinda self help anyway...
In the end, probably most self help material belong to extroverts and most pick up artists are so as well. To be honest, I can't stand to that much extroversion Take Tony Robbins or Dale Carnegie for example. I already feel tired just by reading their advice... Having said that, I'm sure introverts have a lot of inputs in the field as well and you'll have to exhaust everything to see what fits your personality. I haven't found any yet. Or I'm such a stubborn one
Oh, Sarge is an INFP as well and I remember him saying that self help hasn't done much for him either... Maybe it's something to do with the INFx types?
EDIT: Turns out Mystery is an INFJ. No wonder I could at least follow what he said and liked his enthusiasm about what he presented Not that I've tried any of his stuff...
You seem to be an INFP. I'm and INFJ and I have tried a lot of self help stuff as well, although I wouldn't say I'm a junkie, but none of it seems to work well for me. I feel it drains so much energy that it becomes a chore rather than helping yourself. Same goes to pick up advice. It's kinda self help anyway...
In the end, probably most self help material belong to extroverts and most pick up artists are so as well. To be honest, I can't stand to that much extroversion Take Tony Robbins or Dale Carnegie for example. I already feel tired just by reading their advice... Having said that, I'm sure introverts have a lot of inputs in the field as well and you'll have to exhaust everything to see what fits your personality. I haven't found any yet. Or I'm such a stubborn one
Oh, Sarge is an INFP as well and I remember him saying that self help hasn't done much for him either... Maybe it's something to do with the INFx types?
EDIT: Turns out Mystery is an INFJ. No wonder I could at least follow what he said and liked his enthusiasm about what he presented Not that I've tried any of his stuff...
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