06-20-2016, 03:46 AM
I didn't say that studying body language is useless. I implied that reading books on it is redundant for me as reading people with razor-sharp accuracy is one of my very few natural talents.
Add to that, women and people in my country aren't very social. An example, when I took a bus in Florida and a lady needed to get past me she would say "excuse me" while in my country they place their bag in their lap, check their watch etc so it's ingrained behavior in the public. What a former FBI agent writes on body language doesn't necessarliy apply to me, but like I said, the book was okay.
It's a skill worth studying, no doubt about that. The issue I have with most body language experts/books is that they barely scratch the surface. I'll say this, the vibe people project is more important that gestures. I don't get wrapped up in gestures and I'm what you can call a human lie-detector. Nothing slides past me.
In your example, the sequence of moves from the girl is often undeniable. I'm sure you've heard about that before.
However, I'm yet to see anyone write about the vibe or emotion behind the move and the importance of context. I haven't seen anyone explain how eyes tell a thousand words. I would be leery of such claims anyway, I'll have to be in the situation to actually see what going on. The slightest change or twink in someones eyes and I'll be able to tell you what that means. These are the skills that cannot be taught because they are entirely dependent on the situation. I'd have to write 1000's of pages to offer any real insight to have complex this shit really is.
The issue with most introverts is that they are adept at picking up signals from other people, but they usually can't partake in the interaction as well. I can. I'm extremely concious of my subconcious if you get what I mean. I have no qualms about probing into minds like Freud himself.
I've never seen any so called expert talk about the "lay-up" as I call it. It basically means I force a reaction out of girl. Make no mistake about it, even if she doesn't give anything away I'm perceptive to what's going on. I don't cold approach women, I use the lay-up to get her attention and progress further. It's similar to Cory Skyy's eye game, but it doesn't stop with the eyes.
Can you use body language to create a desired atmosphere? Absolutely, but I can't explain in words excatly how that goes. I mean, sure, I'll corner the girl and eye fuck her, but that's all on instinct. I'll add that all of that is done in the name of Holy Creativity.
Now you can look at movie directors who govern actors who stars as introverts. They have this blessing, which is also a curse. This is the hardest skill for any actor to pull off, being introverted on screen. I'd highly recommend you watch any movie with Alain Delon. I don't even need subtitles because he's a master of the subtle arts. Or let's compare Hemingway to those "Oxford-correct" British wannabe writers during his time. This skill of mine covers every aspect out there, I can't turn this off or on. It's just there.
I've been lucky to meet a couple of individuals who possess this skill to a high degree, I'm sure there are more out there.
PS: I take glutamine and BCAA every day. I'd add walnuts to that list, calory dense and loaded with energy.
Add to that, women and people in my country aren't very social. An example, when I took a bus in Florida and a lady needed to get past me she would say "excuse me" while in my country they place their bag in their lap, check their watch etc so it's ingrained behavior in the public. What a former FBI agent writes on body language doesn't necessarliy apply to me, but like I said, the book was okay.
It's a skill worth studying, no doubt about that. The issue I have with most body language experts/books is that they barely scratch the surface. I'll say this, the vibe people project is more important that gestures. I don't get wrapped up in gestures and I'm what you can call a human lie-detector. Nothing slides past me.
In your example, the sequence of moves from the girl is often undeniable. I'm sure you've heard about that before.
However, I'm yet to see anyone write about the vibe or emotion behind the move and the importance of context. I haven't seen anyone explain how eyes tell a thousand words. I would be leery of such claims anyway, I'll have to be in the situation to actually see what going on. The slightest change or twink in someones eyes and I'll be able to tell you what that means. These are the skills that cannot be taught because they are entirely dependent on the situation. I'd have to write 1000's of pages to offer any real insight to have complex this shit really is.
The issue with most introverts is that they are adept at picking up signals from other people, but they usually can't partake in the interaction as well. I can. I'm extremely concious of my subconcious if you get what I mean. I have no qualms about probing into minds like Freud himself.
I've never seen any so called expert talk about the "lay-up" as I call it. It basically means I force a reaction out of girl. Make no mistake about it, even if she doesn't give anything away I'm perceptive to what's going on. I don't cold approach women, I use the lay-up to get her attention and progress further. It's similar to Cory Skyy's eye game, but it doesn't stop with the eyes.
Can you use body language to create a desired atmosphere? Absolutely, but I can't explain in words excatly how that goes. I mean, sure, I'll corner the girl and eye fuck her, but that's all on instinct. I'll add that all of that is done in the name of Holy Creativity.
Now you can look at movie directors who govern actors who stars as introverts. They have this blessing, which is also a curse. This is the hardest skill for any actor to pull off, being introverted on screen. I'd highly recommend you watch any movie with Alain Delon. I don't even need subtitles because he's a master of the subtle arts. Or let's compare Hemingway to those "Oxford-correct" British wannabe writers during his time. This skill of mine covers every aspect out there, I can't turn this off or on. It's just there.
I've been lucky to meet a couple of individuals who possess this skill to a high degree, I'm sure there are more out there.
PS: I take glutamine and BCAA every day. I'd add walnuts to that list, calory dense and loaded with energy.
