05-13-2011, 02:57 PM
(05-13-2011, 11:11 AM)massagemaggie Wrote: I love the idea of people naturally coming together based on where they are in their lives. It's not a game of seduction or somehow tricking people into wanting you or sleeping with you. It's natural appeal and the coming together of like. There needs to be an acceptance and allowance of change, and moving on. There seems to be some kind of holding on to relationships, like it's a "shame" if things "don't work out" as if we're only meant to experience one kind of thing in our lives. The allowance of flow and the idea that relationships are eternal and it's ok if they change, as they'll change to reflect you!!! is a really freeing concept.
Yeah, exactly! Listen to the language people use. "It's a shame it didn't work out." Why? The only thing to me that is important whether you're together a long time or a short period of time is that afterwards you are able to look back fondly on the time you spent together. Otherwise, what's the point?
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