08-18-2021, 03:10 PM
Still focusing on my personal development and self improvement. Putting more effort into the health aspect lately.
Something that occurred to me was the last time my relationship ended I felt it was because of what some call "nice guy syndrome" I read a lot of books and tried to grow out of that but 5 years later and I think I've called victim to the same trap and mindset.
A long time ago I read a book called no more Mr nice guy which helped a lot back then. It just frustrates me that I'm still having those same issues.
My problem is once I get in a relationship I stop all my personal development and I end up putting all my energy into the relationship. I have an opportunity now to really work on myself and grow out of these issues. But I'm afraid that it's not something that just goes away. It's going to take conscious effort for the rest of my life. Consciously telling myself to go against my nature and do these things and behaviours instead.
It's better for me in the long run, but it's just disappointing is all
I know I have an opportunity for a lot of self development right now, but I'm still grieving over the lost relationship as well.
Sub wise I'm still listening, seeing how things go. Also, I started dreaming again lately. I'm not sure if it's because of the increased exercise or use of CBD oil. But I've been having extremely vivid and continuous dreams where the dreams logically go from one part to the next. Just something I noticed
Something that occurred to me was the last time my relationship ended I felt it was because of what some call "nice guy syndrome" I read a lot of books and tried to grow out of that but 5 years later and I think I've called victim to the same trap and mindset.
A long time ago I read a book called no more Mr nice guy which helped a lot back then. It just frustrates me that I'm still having those same issues.
My problem is once I get in a relationship I stop all my personal development and I end up putting all my energy into the relationship. I have an opportunity now to really work on myself and grow out of these issues. But I'm afraid that it's not something that just goes away. It's going to take conscious effort for the rest of my life. Consciously telling myself to go against my nature and do these things and behaviours instead.
It's better for me in the long run, but it's just disappointing is all
I know I have an opportunity for a lot of self development right now, but I'm still grieving over the lost relationship as well.
Sub wise I'm still listening, seeing how things go. Also, I started dreaming again lately. I'm not sure if it's because of the increased exercise or use of CBD oil. But I've been having extremely vivid and continuous dreams where the dreams logically go from one part to the next. Just something I noticed
