Rainbow has it right on the dot, I think. It's about being ok with what's happening and enjoying the moment. Casually talking and getting to know one another while just letting her becoming more comfortable with you. I know I'm not one to talk but from certain experiences I can say this is how things are. Like Shannon said, "If you want to move a mountain by yourself, with a shovel, do you hit the mountain until it moves over? No. You either start moving the mountain one shovel full at a time, or if it's a stone mountain, you dig under it until it moves where you want it to." Things take time for them to naturally happen.
Right now I've been having feelings about not being alpha anymore but I'm more alpha than I ever have been. I'm less needy but also my feminine side is coming out more. and I think I'm more prone to making small mistakes socially but things happen and they don't bother me anymore. So in a sense that's pretty alpha. And, I was just talking to Ryan about this a couple of days ago and I'm really sick and tired of reading new material and having to rely on things such as subliminals and affirmations. Of course they are helping but Sex magnet is making me sick and tired of all this aid shit and I have this strong urge to get out and do things myself. The desire and motivation are not all there but once they are in place I will actually want to get out more and make some sort of social circle (with mostly women). I don't want to force anything and I think that's subtly there but I also need to wait and see how things pan out. The motivation and sex drive just really need to set in and I think things will work themselves out.
Right now I've been having feelings about not being alpha anymore but I'm more alpha than I ever have been. I'm less needy but also my feminine side is coming out more. and I think I'm more prone to making small mistakes socially but things happen and they don't bother me anymore. So in a sense that's pretty alpha. And, I was just talking to Ryan about this a couple of days ago and I'm really sick and tired of reading new material and having to rely on things such as subliminals and affirmations. Of course they are helping but Sex magnet is making me sick and tired of all this aid shit and I have this strong urge to get out and do things myself. The desire and motivation are not all there but once they are in place I will actually want to get out more and make some sort of social circle (with mostly women). I don't want to force anything and I think that's subtly there but I also need to wait and see how things pan out. The motivation and sex drive just really need to set in and I think things will work themselves out.
"To love completely and hold onto nothing-that is the only freedom." -David Deida
"If at first glance it may appear too hard, look again. Always look again." - Unknown
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"If at first glance it may appear too hard, look again. Always look again." - Unknown
If you would like to get in touch with me, please send me an email.
