(07-11-2011, 09:09 AM)Spiral Wrote: Tonight will be my eighth night on stage 1.
I went out saturday alone for an hour and a half. I went out for pure fun and to see a live band. If anything else happens, great! That was my mindset for the night.
I went to a club alone and it was nothing. I had fun. I just took everything very slowly. I walked in and grabbed a drink and chilled out and checked out the place for about 15 minutes. I moved over to the other side of the club with the other bar that had a better view of the stage the band would begin playing on shortly. I spotted a woman that I became incredibly interested in. She was on the dance floor dancing with a chick friend. Her friend looked like she was forty but the one I had my eye on looked like she was early thirties. Either way I did not care. I caught her eye for a could 2-3 seconds after a few tries while drinking my drink on the other side of the bar and then I continued to look around. I noticed her go off the dance floor and head to the back with her pack of cougars. I'm thinking the age group was from 30-60. I bet one of them was her mom lol. Anyways, the band started and I slowly started getting into them. What else was I going to do. I noticed by the third to last song of this first set the woman I had my eye on went back out onto the floor with the same friend. At this point I'm not sure if she's a lesbian or straight. I figured she could be single though. The singer was doing a crowd pump up thing anyone else would usually do at a concert and asking "All my single ladies say yea!" and she said "yea!" At this point I'm like "Ok, it's game on."
Second to last song I head out onto the dance floor and find my own space and I'm jammin already to the music. Then I really get into it when they close the first set with an Alice in Chains song. The begin playing the regular club music and I'm at no point ready to get off the dance floor just yet. I begin my usual but effective dance move the Hitch move. It's straight out of the movie when
Will Smith tells the fat guy "You just stay right here. None of that crazy white boy stuff. Right here is where you want to stay." So all that is is moving side to side with your feet snapping your fingers. Anyways, I'm having a good time dancing by myself and not really giving a shit. I'm looking around and I begin just straight up eyeing this girl that I've been talking about. She really takes notice as she's now dancing with her same dance partner. We've exchanged looks acouple of times and she's really gettin into it. I start minding my own business and dance a little mor with feeling. I begin to slowly move towards her as she does to me. The rest of her posse by now is dance around her in a circle and she's still giving me looks. NOW, she's just gettin nasty. The raunchiest sort of dancing you can imagine that she could do with her self. Then she starts grinding on one of her friends just teasing me. I should also mention by now she's already swatted a few guys away who just went straight up to her offering her a drink I assume. All the while she's still eyeing me. Unfortanetly nothing came of this. I began to get a little too impatient and I stopped giving her all my attention because I started thinking too much. I was moving ever so slightly to her and by now we are 10 inches from each other indirectly rubbing up against each other. She knows I'm there.. but when I try to move alittle more closer she's not into it and starts moving away. At this time I'm having some sort of anxiety attack because my legs began to shake. What I get from this is I should ahve just held my ground and let her come a little closer or I could have just started rubbing her back. Just something else besides moving up all on her like I did. By no means was I rejected but she just felt as If I was moving too fast. I gotta remember to "let the women come to me". At this time I needed break and I went to the John. Took care of that but my legs were still slightly shaking and I basically gave up. I did not have the energy to get back out there and do it again. I am proud of myself for doing what I did. This chick was the hottest girl in the club and she was eyeing me and making all the right moves towards me.
Any one of you have any suggestions? Because sometimes I guess just getting all up in there business and grinding on them smoothly is still not the best way to go about things. I should ask how should one test the waters in this situation? Thanks for any suggestions you guys have.
Spiral you did a pretty good job and it sounds like SM is doing it's job perfectly! Also, I love that movie "Hitch" and that part you were talking about. The fat guy is funny when he starts the "Q-Tip throw it away." Then Will Smith slaps him telling him never to do that again. LOL I look forward to starting SM in October, it will be an interesting ride to see what that program digs out of my subconscious mind that I am not aware of.
