Social skills 2.0

[SargeMaximus]

I can understand that you're strapped for money Sarge but I see no reason why that should constitute it being diminished in quality just to be fused into another sub.

The goals of this sub require a stand alone.

I disagree. It's my hope that one day Shannon makes the ultimate sub that does it all.

I imagine it would cost a lot too, so it's not about money.

[Determined]

Building relationships and maintaining them long term (relationship management)
Emotional Intelligence
Social Intelligence
Net working
Sense of humour
Story telling
Influence and Persuasion skills
Being Fashionable / Dressing well
Charisma (can use DMSI tech to create an aura of charisma around the user too)
Charm

You'd need a stand alone sub to incorporate all of that. I'd imagine the script to be as large as AM6 as each of those traits mentioned requires several sub scripts to achieve.

[SargeMaximus]

Building relationships and maintaining them long term (relationship management)
Emotional Intelligence
Social Intelligence
Net working
Sense of humour
Story telling
Influence and Persuasion skills
Being Fashionable / Dressing well
Charisma (can use DMSI tech to create an aura of charisma around the user too)
Charm

You'd need a stand alone sub to incorporate all of that. I'd imagine the script to be as large as AM6 as each of those traits mentioned requires several sub scripts to achieve.

Hmm, not to mention that it may be better to FOCUS one's energy on learning ONE aspect at a time, soa social skills sub could be better as a standalone.

[ncbeareatingman]

Reminds me of the once 'socializing is just a fun game' IML CD...back in 2010..perhaps that could be included as well. good post.

[Benjamin]

I think that was a 3g program. I'm pretty sure there's atleast elements of that in AM.

[brightike]

What about one single focus sub with none of the complication.. all the anti evasion crap.... just learn to be social no matter how much you’re rejected and how much it hurts

[Determined]

What about one single focus sub with none of the complication.. all the anti evasion crap.... just learn to be social no matter how much you’re rejected and how much it hurts

Everyone has their own socialising blue print within their own mind and the vast majority of these are functional enough to get a person by in their day to day interactions.

What I'm proposing with this sub is an upgrade to this blueprint. So user's begin to do things and achieve social objectives which they previously couldn't.

When you're operating from your blueprint and in a "flow state" it's impossible not to be social. Hence rejection and hurt just fall by the wayside.

[THolt]

Yeah social rejection hurts. I socialize with people at work fine but outside of work I almost have close to no social life outside of social media. I feel like no one reciprocates when I ask them if they want to do things. Then I feel like I try to hard which makes feel even more awkward. UD is helping this but I feel a sub that is specifically designed for improving social skills would work wonders.

[thor2014]

Yeah social rejection hurts. I socialize with people at work fine but outside of work I almost have close to no social life outside of social media. I feel like no one reciprocates when I ask them if they want to do things. Then I feel like I try to hard which makes feel even more awkward. UD is helping this but I feel a sub that is specifically designed for improving social skills would work wonders.

Before anyone hangs out with you. They are going to ask what value can I possibly gain from hanging out with this person. I personally think a sub will not assist in bridging this gap. The remedy I believe is to develop a sought after value that people may like, or relentlessly pursue what you enjoy doing outside of meeting friends on social media. A hobby in itself can be value that can attract like minded people.

[Determined]

Yeah social rejection hurts. I socialize with people at work fine but outside of work I almost have close to no social life outside of social media. I feel like no one reciprocates when I ask them if they want to do things. Then I feel like I try to hard which makes feel even more awkward. UD is helping this but I feel a sub that is specifically designed for improving social skills would work wonders.

Before anyone hangs out with you. They are going to ask what value can I possibly gain from hanging out with this person. I personally think a sub will not assist in bridging this gap. The remedy I believe is to develop a sought after value that people may like, or relentlessly pursue what you enjoy doing outside of meeting friends on social media. A hobby in itself can be value that can attract like minded people.

The value paradigm is actually quite counter productive to meeting people and making new friends. If you're setting the frame that "We're only friends because we're mutually valuable" then it easily falls apart once said value is gone.

I've found that the genuinely best friends I've made and still make are just people in my proximity that I enjoy hanging out with.

So yes the solution to your problem is to become "more valuable" if that is the paradigm with which you choose to view the world.

[thor2014]

Yeah social rejection hurts. I socialize with people at work fine but outside of work I almost have close to no social life outside of social media. I feel like no one reciprocates when I ask them if they want to do things. Then I feel like I try to hard which makes feel even more awkward. UD is helping this but I feel a sub that is specifically designed for improving social skills would work wonders.

Before anyone hangs out with you. They are going to ask what value can I possibly gain from hanging out with this person. I personally think a sub will not assist in bridging this gap. The remedy I believe is to develop a sought after value that people may like, or relentlessly pursue what you enjoy doing outside of meeting friends on social media. A hobby in itself can be value that can attract like minded people.

The value paradigm is actually quite counter productive to meeting people and making new friends. If you're setting the frame that "We're only friends because we're mutually valuable" then it easily falls apart once said value is gone.

I've found that the genuinely best friends I've made and still make are just people in my proximity that I enjoy hanging out with.

So yes the solution to your problem is to become "more valuable" if that is the paradigm with which you choose to view the world.

Tellme do your closest friends share similar or identical values to you ?. I am not clear where you got this notion from that I have a problem.

[Determined]

Lol, you mis-read what I wrote.

"The remedy I believe is to develop a sought after value that people may like"

If that's the paradigm with which you choose to view the world, then yes the "remedy" (or solution) is to become more valuable as a person.

[thor2014]

Lol, you mis-read what I wrote.

"The remedy I believe is to develop a sought after value that people may like"

If that's the paradigm with which you choose to view the world, then yes the "remedy" (or solution) is to become more valuable as a person.

Apologies Determined I did mis-read what you wrote.

[THolt]

I am running UD right now and I feel that it is helping in the area of social skills. I do think a program specifically designed for social skils would be immensely helpful.