06-28-2019, 05:41 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-28-2019, 05:43 PM by DavisMind91.)
Thought it would be an uneventful day at work but I should’ve known better *facepalm*. Started off with one female coworker being very nosey as to what I carry in my backpack, weird, she then started making comments about how my Manager seems possessive towards me, and when I’m away from my desk she always wants to find me. Extra weird but ok. She also made a remark about how when she talks to me, females from my department give her a death stare.
There’s another coworker who went from being super shy to finally warming up to me so if I want to go that route then it looks to be an option. Besides that it’s been the usual, jokes about me and my reputation of being a player, while also getting stares from many female coworkers throughout my day. One thing new that did hit me though is that the ladies there are getting very comfortable with me kissing them right on the cheek as opposed to just a hug when I greet them. Don’t find it that big of a deal though.
Last thing is that there was a fire drill this morning and I actually began cracking jokes and being silly throughout the whole ordeal. Kept my coworkers laughing while outside. The girl I mentioned in earlier posts, (the one Shannon and I spoke about), seemed to display behavior that pretty much dismissed her in my mind as a potential crackpot. An hour before I left work I caught her staring right at me while I just happened to be laughing at a joke. At first I glanced but then unconsciously did a double take. While I sat there with a big smile on my face we locked eyes. It was only a couple seconds but it felt like minutes. She may have thought I was smiling at her. Think I’m gonna approach her playfully this upcoming week. If she happens not to want to “play” then oh well, I ignore her 99% of the time anyway.
There’s another coworker who went from being super shy to finally warming up to me so if I want to go that route then it looks to be an option. Besides that it’s been the usual, jokes about me and my reputation of being a player, while also getting stares from many female coworkers throughout my day. One thing new that did hit me though is that the ladies there are getting very comfortable with me kissing them right on the cheek as opposed to just a hug when I greet them. Don’t find it that big of a deal though.
Last thing is that there was a fire drill this morning and I actually began cracking jokes and being silly throughout the whole ordeal. Kept my coworkers laughing while outside. The girl I mentioned in earlier posts, (the one Shannon and I spoke about), seemed to display behavior that pretty much dismissed her in my mind as a potential crackpot. An hour before I left work I caught her staring right at me while I just happened to be laughing at a joke. At first I glanced but then unconsciously did a double take. While I sat there with a big smile on my face we locked eyes. It was only a couple seconds but it felt like minutes. She may have thought I was smiling at her. Think I’m gonna approach her playfully this upcoming week. If she happens not to want to “play” then oh well, I ignore her 99% of the time anyway.
