11-30-2011, 02:46 PM
(11-30-2011, 01:52 PM)jonathanzx10 Wrote: I think a better way to ask this is: can you really fall in love with a girl after doing the am?
That's a reasonable question. The answer is, of course you can. The change is that you're no longer going to settle for being mistreated, disrespected, ignored or walked on, and you're no longer going to allow yourself to be with woman who isn't worth your time.
The program doesn't take away your ability to love or fall in love with a woman. For a time, it focuses you inwardly enough to accomplish the necessary changes, and when it's done, you won't NEED a woman to be happy. When that happens, you're going to be demonstrating through your words, deeds and actions that you don't need a woman to be happy or support yourself emotionally, and when a healthy, high value woman sees that, she will naturally be more attracted to you because that's what worthwhile women are looking for.
The goal is not to need her anymore, and I think you'll find that your fear is coming from a position of needing a woman to feel complete. Alphas don't need someone else to feel complete, or take care of them, or give them the attention they want, or the love they need. Alphas are self sufficient. When an alpha enters a relationship with a woman, it is not because he needs her to make him whole or to take care of him, it's because he chooses to share himself with her and accepts her sharing herself with him in return.
When you're with a woman because you choose to be, but you don't need to be, you'll find that your selection of women is much better. And when she is with you for the same reason, you'll find that your relationship is much healthier. Love and neediness are not the same thing.
But yes, you can fall in love with a woman after doing the alpha set. You can also stay in love with a woman you're also in love with, even if you choose to leave her because she's no longer right for you. I will always be in love with my ex, but she is not right for me, and I will not be with her for that reason. The alpha set has not taken away my love for her, but has pushed me to respect myself too much to allow myself to be treated the way I was being treated by her.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!