(08-03-2016, 09:15 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(08-03-2016, 08:40 AM)chaosvrgn Wrote: because gravity is written into the physical universe, but that doesn't somehow negate the concept of your beliefs creating your physical reality. Just means there's limits.
Exactly. And so are a lot of things I'm guessing, like how women go for jerks, for example.
That's only your experience (so far), or your (mis)perception. My very high-value wife (honestly - she's beautiful, healthy, smart, educated, and makes 6-figures!) would never have dated a jerk. When we dated, I treated her like gold. Flowers, candy, holding doors, opened her car door (she never opened her own car door when I was around), pulling out chairs, always paid for everything, gifts on important days, meaningful/sentimental/thoughtful gifts...Chivalry is not dead. She appreciated the hell out of it - we fucked like rabbits.

Isn't it strange how people seem to repeat the same experiences in different forms, and meet the same type of person, over and over? I gotta believe it's some sort of energy-related thing. Anyway, I'm not sure what you need to change to get a different experience in relation to this, but it's something.